just say no to fucking

in http://groups.yahoo.com/group/OnaniaSupport/ a masturbator wrote:

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During our years of marriage i never had
intercourse. I tryed a few times when we first got married bu due to
my heavy addiction i couldn’t keep an erection after penetration.She
had hundreds of lovers trough the years and i was quite happy with my
sessions fueled by the humiliation of being a known wimpy
cuckold.knowing about her affairs and at time listening at her bed
room door use to make me have several orgasms in one session,I’m sure
i fully qualify for the new group.

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Starting a New Society – Just Say No To Fucking

in http://groups.yahoo.com/group/OnaniaSupport/ a masturbator wrote:

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I found one other member like me, and we decided to start our informal
group “Just Say No to Fucking”. We are married guys who have given up
having sex with our wives so we can dedicate our whole life to
masturbating to fantasies and porn, and enjoy chatroom talk. My wife
doesn’t care. Told her I was a compulsive masturbator when we married,
and she laughed, and got somewhat turned on by it. She catches me here
once in awhile, and just laughs, says something about ooh look at
those dirty pictures and walks away. We really are best friends and do
everything together. She insisted on an open marriage when we got
married, so I had one affair with a gal that my wife would even invite
over to dinner while it was going on (wife knew she was my mistress).
My wife had stepped out a few times, but never wants to talk about who
or what is going on. But I digress. Is there anyone else in this group
who would qualify for membership in our club. Married or single or
divorced?
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Tantric Sex for Men | Reuniting

The first few times soft penetration is tried, most men will find that they do not “feel” much in their penises. This is very common and will change as soon as the penis adjusts to a new way of being used and perceived by man. This insensitivity is due to a long history of stimulation, so for it to be a little numb is not really surprising. The way to retrieve sensitivity is to relax into woman, spend as much time inside her as possible, and take full consciousness down into your penis….Gradually sensitivity will return.

via ?Tantric Sex for Men | Reuniting.

why it is natural for women to be the dominant sex.

Which explains why it is natural for women to be the dominant sex.

The way scientists have presented Stone-Age people to the public, isthat Stone Age men were brutes who dominated their women throughviolence. Yet this is disproved by the existence of the clitoris. Theonly function of the clitoris is to give women sexual pleasure and sogive her a desire to have sex with men. But if men were the dominantsex this wouldn’t be a consideration, as men would initiate allsexual encounters and could even rape women. So it wouldn’t matterif a women enjoyed sex or not, she still would get pregnant by men, sothe clitoris wouldn’t be needed, as what is not used, disappearsover evolutionary time.

So the existence of the clitoris does show us that women did initiatesex herself and could choose whom she had sex with. But another problemis that many women cannot reach orgasm with penetrative sex. The reasonis that the clitoris is on the outside of the vagina and for many womenthe penis doesn’t touch the clitoris. So the only way a man canbring these women to orgasm is stimulating the clitoris with his fingeror tongue. So what evolutionary pressure would bring about thissituation? That the penis is not always the best way to bring a womanto orgasm.

There is also the problem of timing. Men can quickly ejaculate inside awomen in a couple of minutes, but women themselves prefer long sensualsex play. So again for what evolutionary pressure brought about thesituation where the sexual timing of men and women are so different?

Human beings also it seems enjoy oral sex, but again in evolutionaryterms this shouldn’t happen, because this sex-act doesn’t resultin a women being fertilized. The same is true with homosexuality. Inevolutionary terms homosexuality shouldn’t exist, because sexbetween people of the same sex does not produce children. Which meansheterosexual people are far, far more likely to have children thanhomosexual people.

None of these things make sense if we think in terms that men were thedominant sex over the millions of years of our evolution. But they makea lot of sense if women were the dominant sex and she dominated men tothe degree she could demand that men pleasure them in whatever way shewanted.

Study Commissioned by Kink.com

In the study of 315 men between the ages of 25 – 54, not only do a great majority support couples in their right to consensually please one-another as they wish, their support of historically taboo activities is refreshingly overwhelming. According to survey responses, 37% of men would be interested in having sex in public and 30% of men would possibly be interested in tying someone up or being tied up assuming safety and a willing partner. A little more mainstream, but deviant according to historical social mores, 53% of respondents said they get sexually aroused from seeing people other than their partner(s) nude and 52% are sexually aroused watching others have sex – 47% of whom are “Somewhat/Very Religious.”

via 88% of Men Believe That What a Couple Consensually Does in the Privacy of Their Own Home is Totally Appropriate and 79% Say It’s Ok to Have and Enjoy Sexual Fetishes, According to a Study Commissioned by Kink.com | Business Wire.

Should I Worry If He Masturbates More Than We Have Sex?

If you’re worried that he’s lost sexual interest in you, I can honestly say that it is something you should be able to easily tackle by having an open and honest conversation with him about it. Be prepared. Try not to get too sensitive and instead be focused on taking steps to re-ignite the fire. Seriously, just ask, “Honey, is our sex life getting dull? And if you honestly think so, I want you to tell me, but I want us to try to work on this together.” And then surprise him with a “Show me what turns you on.” HOT!!!

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“How I Recovered from Porn-related Erectile Dysfunction” | Reuniting

When I finally lost my virginity at 23, my first time was terrible. I was semi-hard, nervous and nothing was working. I did not enjoy it at all, and I’m sure my ex-girlfriend would say the same. I did love her, but I’d been training my nervous system to respond sexually another way for so long, it was like my body didn’t know what to do. Our sex life was one of the main reasons we broke up after a couple of years. I was watching porn a lot the whole time. Now, I realize that I was sabotaging our relationship, but at the time I blamed her. She did have problems of her own, but didn’t deserve all the blame. In my defense, I honestly didn’t know any better.

via “How I Recovered from Porn-related Erectile Dysfunction” | Reuniting.

Karezza for Singles | Reuniting

Every time you have an orgasm, it’s a neurochemical high not unlike shooting heroin. No wonder it feels so good, and makes you want more! Also, from a biological perspective, once you have an orgasm, your body thinks, “Okay, I’ve fertilized this woman,” (if you’re a man) or “Okay, I’ve been fertilized by this man.” You may become irritable, or just lose interest. Sometimes within hours, sometimes days, weeks or months, you can stop being attracted to the person and want to move on to someone different. (Moving onto a new partner helps to create more variety in the gene pool.)

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First Orgasms from His Aunt

masturbator Ken W recollects his introduction to sex:

When she was finished, she took my tight hairless nut-sac in one hand and started squeezing and rolling my balls around inside it. And then she started to masturbate me again with her other hand. And as she was moving my foreskin up and down on my cock she asked me, “Does it feel nice when I rub it like this?” Well all I can remember was getting more excited by the second as a strange new feeling was building up inside my cock and I think I whispered in a shaky voice, “it’s starting to feel funny aunty.” When I said that she said, “It’s OK sweetie, very soon some thick white sticky liquid will shoot out on the towel and you will feel so much better.”

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