The PeterFiles series, a Case Study of Masturbatory Addiction [periodic posting]

Posted on December 1, 2011 by Onania Org/asm

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THE PETER FILES, A CASE STUDY OF MASTURBATORY ADDICTION

Published by The Masturbation Dependency Program
Institute for Correction of Sexual Misbehavior
Series Editor: Dr. Margaret Wilson, Registered Genital Therapist

Peter File #01: Introduction to the Series, by Dr. Margaret Wilson

We begin a series of chapters in “The PeterFiles”, a longitudinal case study of masturbatory addiction in the adult male, conducted at The Institute for Correction of Sexual Misbehavior. The series is made available in order to increase the public awareness and understanding of the problem of addictive masturbatory behavior in males, and especially as a resource to those women in a co-dependent relationship with a habitual masturbator.

We will call the subject “Peter Stroker”, an unsubtle but not-inappropriate pseudonym suggested by the subject himself. Peter, an otherwise healthy middle-aged unmarried male, is a long-term chronic masturbator under my personal treatment at The Institute for Correction of Sexual Misbehavior. His pattern of frequent masturbation began at puberty and was allowed to grow unchecked by proper parental discipline: his parents were uncomfortable discussing sexual topics and never warned him of the dangers of self abuse. He continued his secret practice throughout his youth, never forming fully satisfactory relationships with girls and becoming entirely habituated to manual sexual release. Although his private vice claimed increasing amounts of time, it did not prevent him from completing a graduate degree and entering a profession.

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When can a sex doll save your life? | Sexology

Posted on September 24, 2011 by Onania Org/asm

That’s exactly what happened to a 19-year-old man in Queensland, Australia. The flooding was so fast, and so massive that all he had time to do was hold on for dear life. The water swept the ‘couple’ away and except for being a little embarrassing, the man was really lucky.

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A masturbator exposes himself

Posted on September 13, 2011 by Onania Org/asm

in http://groups.yahoo.com/group/OnaniaSupport/ a masturbator wrote:

Hi, thanks for allowing me to join this great group of guys. I feel like a weight has been lifted just knowing that a group like this exists. I thought I was the only one in the world who has this condition until now.

I’m late 40′s, from Pittsburgh, Pa. I’ve never had sex with a female, and only a couple brief, mutual touchings with my friends in my early teens. Otherwise, I’m a virgin and consider myself solo-sexual.

I masturbate everyday as much as possible, but do not ejaculate everyday. I enjoy endging and prolonging ejaculation so I can goon out and inevitabley end up being goofy, silly, and generally just plain foolish as I masturbate.
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Is Female Masturbation Really The Last Sexual Taboo? | The New Republic

Posted on September 12, 2011 by Onania Org/asm

Male self-pleasure came out of the bedroom (and into the kitchen) with Portnoy’s Complaint. But is female masturbation really the last remaining sexual taboo? Women are “as hidden as our clitorises,” writes Nancy Friday, the female sexuality pioneer, in the twenty-fifth-anniversary edition of My Secret Garden, her best-selling book about women’s sexual fantasies. In her research, Friday wrote, she found not a single woman who claimed never to masturbate. Yet, more than two decades after her book first appeared in 1973, she was still receiving letters from women thanking her for writing it because “I thought I was the only one.”

via Is Female Masturbation Really The Last Sexual Taboo? | The New Republic.

Boy, Concerned Mother, Seductive Aunt

Posted on August 7, 2011 by Onania Org/asm

Then came Mother’s luscious slip, so silky and so soft, decorated enchantingly with pretty feminine lace edgings at hem and bodice. I would stare into the mirror thoroughly thrilled with my reflection. Yes, for a boy to dress in such feminine finery, and his Mother’s at that, well, it was an act forbidden by society. I recognized it as such, and yet because it was forbidden it made it all the more erotic.

Then it was time. My hands slowly roamed and touched and teased and caressed. I felt the tension between my legs building. My member was throbbing and begging for relief. I willingly obliged. Eyes half closed, mouth agape, panting and moaning, suddenly the body stiffens, then the sweet, sweet bliss of release as my erection begins to spasm emptying the reservoir of thick semen into Mother’s silky panties. Then watching in awe as the spent fluid slowly produces a small but rapidly widening wet spot on Mother’s slip. The forbidden act was completed.

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What a Shame (embarrassing stories) : Masturbation

Posted on July 8, 2011 by Onania Org/asm

Great site for masturbation (and other) shame and embarrassment stories

Many years ago, as a kid I used to play with my mates near an old derelict brick works. This one day it was red hot and my mates had gone home for their dinners and I waited for them in our “Den”. We had the usual collection of “Girlie” mags that most young lads had, secreted away from their parents eyes. I sat glancing through the pages as you do and the inevitable happened, I developed a rather large lump in the nether regions and I felt as horny as sin! No one ever came to our Den and I felt quite safe as I stripped off down to my birthday suit and proudly stood with my cock in full bloom. I did what had to be done and began to masturbate but I took my time and I had got “holding back” off to a fine art, with the usual dribbles of spunk making my hand sticky. It was fabulous, a big stiffie, the sun on my naked body what more could you ask for…Ok… a pussy to slip it in but I was only young!! with the mag open at an enticing young lady, I bashed away until I could not hold back any longer and finally let rip….it’s amazing how much spunk a young lad can generate!! it seemed as though I shot for ages…through the mist of orgasm, I heard this voice “is that what they call sperm??” …of all the people to come back early, it had to be the girl of the crew…I can recall the total emabarrassment, not only being caught wanking but naked as well!! of course she let the others know what I’d done and for weeks I was ridiculed..

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My Penis and Everyone Else’s on Vimeo

Posted on April 26, 2011 by Onania Org/asm

The follow-up to My Penis and I, explores why men find talking about anxieties they have with their penis so difficult.

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My Penis and I on Vimeo

Posted on April 25, 2011 by Onania Org/asm

“I guess this thing is about having a small dick, and it’s horrible saying that because it’s true….

And why is it such a problem? This is what this film is about”.

My Penis and I follows my two-year journey to discover if size matters.

It charts the effect my penis has had on my life, my family and my relationship with my girlfriend Nicola.

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As You Desire: Taking Pleasure Into Your Own Hands | A News Cafe dot com

Posted on February 22, 2011 by Onania Org/asm

Most everybody (speaking of you who will admit to it) is doing it, so why is it so difficult to talk about? Well, we’re talking now — about masturbation.

We do realize that sexuality exists from birth to death, right? There is no specific age which indicates the beginning or the end for our sexual lives. As soon as infants can reach, they touch their genitals with appreciation and fascination. We see toddlers rocking and rubbing on their toys with a distant look in their eyes. Teenagers spend countless hours in the shower or bathroom learning about their bodies. Adults, whether in or out of relationships, are taking the time for self pleasure. Elderly folks are looking for ways to gratify themselves even in the convalescent homes. So why is this still an embarrassing topic? Do you have difficulty discussing it? Are you squirming right now? More importantly, have you educated your children in a healthy, open way? Do you and your partner discuss or share this experience? Women are more likely to masturbate with their partner than a man is. Why is this so? Social boundaries? Old myths you still believe? Were you told that if you touched yourself sexually you’d go blind?

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getting caught

Posted on January 31, 2011 by Onania Org/asm

a masturbator wrote:

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Well, I’ve been caught so many times by my wife that she doesn’t even
seem to notice any more.
What you have to have is: A mature, understanding person, whom will
not be permanently scarred by the experience, and a place where you
have a reasonable expectation of privacy, such
as your own home.
One time I had a house with a courtyard that visitors had to enter
before coming to knock on the door. The fence was high enough for me
to see over, but someone coming down the street couldn’t see me on my
sofa. They came into my courtyard and oops, I was so embarrassed.
Motel maids will sometimes walk in on you if you don’t hear them
knock. Maybe you are wearing earphones or something.
At massage parlors you could do it, but they think you are creepy
(which I guess I am).
If you come up with any other ways, I’ll try them, too.