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Martin’s Masturbation Blog: Cum Denial

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Around June time I had been reading about how cool self cum-denial is, that’s still with masturbation and edging sessions, but just not shooting a load – on purpose that is. I joined a few groups and began writing with some of the members also into the same thing. They are great guys!

But like all good things, it has it’s downsides – sometimes you just need to think about something else and things start getting left – if you follow – and then you get nagging messages about harming your prostate – well I have a way of dealing with that now, so read on!

I soon learnt that the longer time that elapsed after shooting a load, the more horny I became – so horny it was sometimes impossible to think of anything else. Sometimes I felt so horny it felt like my balls were bubbling over and if I even just ‘touched’ my dick it would shoot!

So who would Not want those feelings?!

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We Call it Edging « peaks-n-pulses

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Let´s see what the experts say! Here comes a note by a guy who had checked the web (years ago) and found these explanations:

Edging is the practice of masturbating right up until just prior to ejaculating, letting the penis relax, and then repeating the process again, often over and over.

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Edged to insanity

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a masturbator wrote:

Once you have the cuffs on, once he’s adjusted the spreader bar between your ankle restraints, once you have the blindfold slipped over your eyes, sitting naked and erect in the middle of the room on a padded meeting-room chair on a Sunday afternoon in an empty office buildng, he pretty much has leave to do whatever he wants with you, and well, guess what, he wasn’t much into milking me out over and over.
No, he was into teasing me for two hours, and I do mean relentless, tireless, merciless teasing: endless light jacking, just enough to maintain arousal and never enough to get me close to triggering, skinning back the foreskin from my large, urgent, herbally-enhanced erection and using a a set of paint brushes–that’s right, fucking paint brushes, right off the hardware store shelf, plastic wrappers still on them–directly on the exposed, throbbing glans and slit, occasionally fondling my full aching unejaculated nuts and scratching, tormenting, pulling and sucking on my nipples, should my arousal flag. Oh yeah, and “warming” lubricant, just in case any of the above wasn’t enough to maintain my state of near-insane ejaculatory neediness. I did my best to get into the head space to trigger a release, contorted myself into just about every position permitted by the restraints, shagged my hips fast, slow and everything in between to try to get enough friction to shoot, but he knew what he was doing and in his cool, professional, focused way made damned sure I wasn’t going to cum. So I just peaked again and again and again, every time I got close, he managed to distract me–mostly by tickling me in unexpected places till I lost the edge and he could continue stroking safely.
Finally, covered in sweat and pretty much in despair that I’d get a release at all–even he wanted to, I was afraid I had reached that state of overload and wouldn’t be able to do it, even if I were permitted to jack–he took me over to the couch and in a relaxed position, FINALLY started applying enough cock pressure to get me off. Always a little weird the things that make you shoot–this time, the blindfold had slipped up a bit and I caught a glimpse of my straining legs and feet, ankles cuffed with the spreader bar between then, and for some reason that visual made me shoot a TREMENDOUS FORCEFUL load–the first three shots clear over my head onto the lamp and the wall behind me, and then a mindless thrashing orgasm which continued on and on, as he just continued to jack my tender exposed glans without remorse.
So that was that–one ejaculation, albeit a good solid release, but no milking out today. Which means: a grand total of two ejaculations in the past two long weeks of semen retention and nothing further scheduled for OEW–bfs and fbs all busy and my own scheduled filled with social obligations.
Sure I could jack myself off, but what fun is that!

The new sex issue and why more men are faking it – The Chart – CNN.com Blogs

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an article on delayed ejaculation that completely misses the point: edging is fun!

But what about when a guy’s erection goes up and stays up? At first blush, it sounds like bedroom benefit. But delayed ejaculation (DE) is a real problem. … And it’s an issue that I’m seeing increasingly. … In the past DE was relatively rare compared with other “mechanical malfunctions” such as erectile disorder (ED) and premature ejaculation (PE), a subject I recently wrote about for this blog. Today, however, new factors are contributing to DE’s increased prevalence:

When a guy masturbates, he’s often applying significantly higher levels of pressure and friction than during real intercourse, so he may get used to a different kind of physical feeling. It’s called developing an “idiosyncratic masturbatory style.” There are now a lot of guys who can  get past the point of no return only via oral sex or manual stimulation (usually their own).

The rapid proliferation of Internet porn also plays a role. Easy access to porn has made over-masturbation by men more common, which can lead to an increased latency period (the time it takes to reach orgasm) during real sex.

With so many varieties of porn at their fingertips, men who masturbate regularly to it often become habituated to a steady flow of sexual novelty and intense visual stimulation, making it harder for them to reach peak levels of sexual arousal with their real-world partners.  Call it Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder, a topic I’ve written about for “Good in Bed” and which addresses why too much masturbation to porn can mess with a guy’s sex skills.

via The new sex issue and why more men are faking it – The Chart – CNN.com Blogs.

I began my prolonged masturbation fetish at sixteen

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A masturbator wrote:

I began my prolonged masturbation fetish at sixteen lookingat sexy pictures and my cock while abusing myself half the
night. Pussy denial seemed to be against nature so I really
played with my cock to exhaustion to tame my daily desires
to hump the girls I knew. Short skirts made me especially
tense and I ached to see the panties. I could not keep my
undies on in bed as my cock had to get it by hand as my mind
would see the girls panties as I imagined raised skirts. My
penis responded with incredible pleasures of building sexual
tension as I delayed my orgasm over and over until I was
banging myself in the mirror and loving the look of my hot
erection demanding more. I felt extremely excited panting
and moaning and giving in to becoming a cock edging pervert.
I began seeing extreme masturbation as a calling to climb
with my upended love pole to cock heaven! I was spending
hours getting off with panties, vibrators, and up against
my pounding stereo speakers while becoming a self watching
pleasure snimsl having to have my cock harder and harder
with hundreds of strokes and tens of near orgasms. Mother
had stopped spanking me but knew I was cumming the pillow
and sheets, but she still would grab my bare ass in the
morning to wake me up. Strangely enough, the forbidden nature
of my habit as well as pussy deprivation I credit to my
mind blowing orgasms. I do not understand that men that need
to show off with spread legs to other men and need it for
hours are so hard to find! I ache for a penis friend to
show what I have made my cock do to me. I love the shaved look
in your pictures and your posting them will help me cum reallyhard.

No Rule of Thumb « peaks-n-pulses

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It seems there are two major schools of MMO recommending how to do it. Roughly put I´d say: one is based on tantric teachings in which you hold back ejaculation and cultivate energy to multiply a climactic (dry) reaction of your body. This is (obviously) not my method. The other school believes in overcoming MRP thru exercise with the aim (i.e. attribute) of experiencing the reflexes of ejaculation and/or orgasm with spilling cum.

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Stupid Gooney Masturbator [podcasturbation]

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A Pants-Down Podcasturbation

Do you feel stupid when you masturbate for a prolonged period? Do you make gooney noises when you stroke your penis for hours? This podcasturbation is for all stupid gooney masturbators. Like you.  Like me.

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Experiences of thesolitudeone: Enjoying Life

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I don’t think women can ever fully understand how how much enjoyment males get from preparing to lose our seed. My mind switches from waking up with a hard on to wanting to enjoy the feeling that I get while thrusting my pelvis upward after throwing off my blanket and sheet while laying in bed dressed only in my boxers. It and every movement that I make is having an effect upon how much more intense the feelings are that I am processing. I want to grab hold of my pocket hairbrush sized penis and begin to play with it in ernest, but I stop thinking about touching my penis with my hands. My mind is telling me to wait just a little bit longer.

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Red Light / Green Light Orgasm Control [podcasturbation]

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A Pants-Down Podcasturbation

Do sometimes ejaculate prematurely when you edge? Do you loose control and orgasm before you mean to? Is the male ejaculatory urge too much for you to resist? Do you feel like a pathetic lonely jerk-off who can’t hold his cum? Masturbator, let’s face it, you’re a little short in the self discipline department. (You wouldn’t be a masturbator if you had any will power, would you?)

Here’s a game just for you, a character-building workout that will shape up those cum-holding skills to manage your orgasms. Play the game, and Be All that You Can Be:  a World Class Masturbator.

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Note: if this is your first visit to my site, please see what it is about or listen to other of my podcasturbations.