in https://plus.google.com/communities/112063366221193320176 a masturbator wrote:
Holy fucking hell, am I horny today.
I just took a four day mini-vacation out of town to a special event. I stayed with friends, met and partied with many more old friends, most of whom I’ve known for decades and had one of the great weekends of my life.
None of these friends know of my Jekyll and Hyde existence regarding my favorite hobby, and i was socializing the entire time except for sleeping, and also was staying in a private home and have respect for my hosts. So that meant I didn’t masturbate for four days.
When I don’t cum for such a long period of time I can’t get my dick to sit down. My balls feel like I’m carrying grapefruits down there. Deep inside my butt my prostate is screaming. And my dick feels like it’s going to burst through my pants if I pass a girl with a big ass or tits or one of my favorite fetishes, a big fat tummy. And as I walked through the airport this morning, there was plenty of that going on. And leaving the house, this morning, gave my wife a butt squeeze providing a memory that I will beat off to at my first opportunity (we don’t fuck much – her choice – but she still turns me on as much as ever). And this after I masturbated last night when I got home (raging orgasm, monster amounts of cum, holy crap I better stop reminiscing before I start precum flowing), but it wasn’t enough, my sack still runneth over.
I’m on a plane for work at a client today right now typing this to not only copy and post later, but also for purposes of temporary release. I’m hiding a boner with a magazine as I’m typing this. It’s that or a mile high orgasm in the bathroom (certainly wouldn’t be the first time), but I think I’ll save it up for a glorious edging session tonight.
And you know what? I absolutely love it that I’m this way. In about 10 hours I will be masturbating in a marathon edging session, maybe 6 hours even, and I can’t wait! I just have to distract myself with work until then and be Jack until I become my wonderful beatoff Rodpumper alter ego tonight as I view hours of delicious porn especially two of my favorites, assfucking and other people masturbating. I have my cock rings in my suitcase but forgot my buttplugs at home, so may have to improvise, but where there’s a will there’s a way. I am so blessed to be a masturbator.
One guy in our staff edged once for 24hs straight.
via The Gooner Report | What is your record edging time?.
in another group, a masturbator wrote:
In my opinion, there are four ingredients necessary for a good edging:
The first ingredient is a sexually functioning subject who has a bit of a backbone and at least moderate control of his own orgasmic response. He doesn’t have to have Olympian “staying power,” but a slightly difficult nut to crack makes for the most satisfying and intense edging sessions. (Funnily enough, I am easier to make cum than I would prefer if I were working on myself, so a practiced, patient, slow hand is needed to edge me. Hint, hint.)
The second and third ingredients need to exist together, perhaps not in equal parts (one can be more prevalent than the other), but none-the-less present: the ability (God-given or practiced) and the desire to give pleasure. I have always been able to protract and intensify cock pleasure for my partners and subjects. But more than that, I genuinely enjoy giving pleasure. I get pleasure from giving pleasure. And, when I am truly simpatico with a subject (because of his body or his responsiveness or, not to get all new-agey but, his life force), I can physically feel the pleasure I am giving. And I know for a fact that the more intently a controller wishes to work his subject, the more intensely the subject will feel it.
The final ingredient for superlative edging is a small streak of the sadist. Not so much that you wish to see a subject endure prolonged discomfort or distress (at least not without the counter-balancing pleasure), but enough that you can take pleasure in holding a man’s relief out of his reach well beyond his perceived limits. And that concept of “perceived limits” is really crucial. Because it is only when a subject reaches that place where he wants to cum more than he wants continued stimulation, does the true edging begin. Yup, you heard me. That’s where edging begins.
So, it can be correctly inferred that my concept of true edging must include taking a man beyond where he thinks he can endure to a place where his pre-conceptions are wiped away. And for that, you must have a streak of the sadist or else your tender heart will give in to your subject’s limiting beliefs and you will let him cum before he experiences new heights of cock bliss. I suppose, if you harbored slightly stronger sadistic tendencies, you could still get a subject to this point andbeyond it, but in my definition of edging, the real torture does not come from the controller, but from the subject as he wars within himself, continually choosing to sublimate his ever-growing desire to lay down his heavy load for the promise of ever greater heights of sensual pleasure.
Doesn’t it feel sooooo good to edge and goon? Only other masturbators can truly understand that.
Solosexual: I’m A Stoopid Goonerbator.
another masturbator learns to edge:
Several years ago I learned that by getting extremely close to the threshold of ejaculatory inevitability, then relaxing my sex organ muscles and halting all stimulation, then getting “close” again repeatedly, I would achieve a continuous plateau stage with frequent emissions orgasms without ejaculating. The resultant intensity of pleasure is possibly one half that felt in a full ejaculatory orgasm but potentially unending. Furthermore, the associated sexual organs exercise, and the learned ability to better control those organs mentally, has greatly increased the scope and depth my sexual pleasure. It is my opinion that I have learned to enhance and maintain indefinitely the physical events and associated pleasure of an absolutely imminent ejaculatory orgasm. Feelings of pleasure are augmented by intense loin vasocongestion and readiness, and sexual organ fluid fullness and pressure. The following discussion attempts to teach men how to achieve this continuous orgasm, and to explain the physiological basis of this phenomenon. Continue reading
Jack Frederick continues his personal Open Zipper Masturbator Confession. Jack is a regular contributor to OnaniaSupport and a provider of captioned “masturbation muses”, so you may already be familiar with his nature. His first confession is at http://onania.org/asm/post/6049
Just in time for Valentine’s Day, Jack gives us a further insight into his lonely, humiliating, but oh-so-arousing life as a chronic masturbator. In this OpenZipper recording he describes his platonic masturbator relationships with girls who work in his office.
They’re much more embarrassing in a way than my earlier zipper contribution, since it’s so humiliating to be the office wanker, and confess to how much their condescension turns me on. Please encourage others to respond, since encouragement would be nice, and sharing similar feelings with others would be great.
Email him at email@example.com and maybe he will give us some more.
Listen to Jack’s confession
As always, feedback is welcome. Also see Other posts in the Open Zipper Project. For the record, all opinions are those of the conversation participants and not necessarily those of Onania . Org/asm. The recordings are made with knowledge and approval of the participants. Click Open Zipper Project for more information on this series.