To masturbate means to stimulate yourself in a sexual way. This can be done by hand, or with sex aids – some highly-sexed women can even do it by rubbing their thighs together. And a tiny minority of women can do it with no genital contact at all, but simply through caressing their breasts.
Such stimulation often leads to orgasm, but not invariably, as many women enjoy stroking themselves and experiencing pleasure that does not necessarily culminate in a climax.
Most men have masturbated, often beginning at a fairly young age.
Women tend to start masturbation later however, and it does not tend to be such an automatic activity as it is for most men and boys.
Furthermore, even once a woman has learned to masturbate, she will probably do it less than the average man – and it seems that far fewer women than men do it regularly……
via What is masturbation « Getluvtips.
Incidentally, the place where the gentleman in question provides his sample is called a “men’s production facility,” “donor cabin,” or “masturbatorium.” If you have never read Polly Enmity’s absolutely amazing article in Best Sex Writing 2005 on being a sperm bank teller, you are missing what must be the most entertaining writing ever delivered on this topic.
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Orgasm For An Hour (Yes, We’re Serious) | YourTango.
We believe that humans have the power to create our lives as we want them to be. We are the directors and creators of our experience. However, because of societal prejudices, it is often difficult to express the desire for pleasure, especially sensual pleasure. Our work has been made possible by the earlier work of heroes who were able to step out of the box and notice that the emperor was wearing no clothes—and what’s more, that the emperor was having a lot of fun without his clothes. Dr. Vic Baranco, pioneering sexologist and master teacher, has been our biggest hero. He showed us that orgasm does not have to be limited to a few seconds and a few contractions; it can begin with or before the first touch or stroke and continue throughout the whole sexual experience; it can last many minutes or even hours at ever-increasing intensities that far surpass the usual, short orgasm. That, in a nutshell, is the definition of an extended massive orgasm, or EMO.
My husband of eight months now prefers masturbation, with or without porn, to having sex with me. He had a stroke four months ago and claims that he is afraid if we have sex that he will have another stroke.
It is humiliating to have him prefer his hand to me and deny that he is masturbating when I walk in the room as he is climaxing. Then he gets up — still denying the act! — and drips ejaculate across the carpet.
What can I do? I am a healthy, willing and able female and did not get married to continue auto-eroticism as my sole sexual outlet.
via Why won’t my husband sleep with me? – Ask Wayne – Salon.com.
My Musings on Bator Buddies
Bator buddies are an integral part of my sexual activities. And my experiences are that bator buddies are usually an integral part of all chronic addicted masturbator’s sexual lifestyles. Some masturbators like to bate with one, two or a group of other masaturbators. Some like contact, rubbing cock-to-cock, balls-to-balls, and/or manhole-to-manhole. While others like to shoot their creamy, cum loads all over there bator buddy’s face, chest, and cock. And others like to correspond through cyber chat and caming, exchanging the intense need to masturbate through gooning and cock babble. Whatever a particular preference an addicted bator may have, a close, mutual bator is usually involved.
via The Batehole, My Musings on Bator Buddies.
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