a masturbator wrote:
Well, I’ve been caught so many times by my wife that she doesn’t even
seem to notice any more.
What you have to have is: A mature, understanding person, whom will
not be permanently scarred by the experience, and a place where you
have a reasonable expectation of privacy, such
as your own home.
One time I had a house with a courtyard that visitors had to enter
before coming to knock on the door. The fence was high enough for me
to see over, but someone coming down the street couldn’t see me on my
sofa. They came into my courtyard and oops, I was so embarrassed.
Motel maids will sometimes walk in on you if you don’t hear them
knock. Maybe you are wearing earphones or something.
At massage parlors you could do it, but they think you are creepy
(which I guess I am).
If you come up with any other ways, I’ll try them, too.
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The most difficult aspect of edging may in fact be that of avoiding ejaculation! To stay (securely) away from PONR while feeling damn close. Trying this for an extended period of time is a tough game, at least for an apprentice edger. But you can exercise to neglect PONR, you can learn and overcome the urge.
via Towards The Edge (1) « peaks-n-pulses.
… Pornography is often portrayed as harmless, maybe even part of a healthy sex life. Hollywood and the media want you to believe porn is good and safe because they make hundreds of millions of dollars perpetuating the myth.
Over the last 5 years the amount of pornography available on the Internet has grown exponentially. Increased Internet pornography equals increased online pornography addiction.
That’s right, it can become an addiction and you may not even know it’s happening. It’s normal to become aroused when viewing pornography. The brain triggers the release of chemicals when arousal occurs. These chemicals can produce feelings of intoxication and heightened senses. In a normal, healthy relationship, these naturally occurring “drugs” bond man to woman in a beautiful, healthy sexual relationship. But, when a man views pornography, these chemicals can bond him to unhealthy fantasies, which often lead to Internet pornography addiction, which is seemingly impossible to break. Porn is a marriage killer. …
via Blog | Porn is a Marriage Killer.
All that is needed for the virtual encounter was an Internet-linked computer and a Web camera.
Pink also used FaceTime video chat capabilities of Apple iPhones to connect expo goers with models that were at home.
Models from a VSex.com website demonstrated a service that let online viewers remotely control a robotic phallus during an intimate online exchange with a woman. Private VSex sessions cost 7 dollars per minute.
Sex gets cyber as porn and Internet mate – ABS-CBN News – Latest Philippine Headlines, Breaking
Engaging in unwanted sexual outlets (porn, masturbation, live sex chat, escorts, paid sex) or even streams of short-term, meaningless relationships, can create a great deal of shame, despair and self-loathing. After repeatedly trying and failing to implement the common advice—“Why don’t you just stop,” or “You just need to use more willpower!” many caught in the “unwanted-sexual-behaviors-trap” feel hopeless—“Maybe I’m just basically weak, worthless, a pervert, a freak.”
Most struggling individuals don’t understand the specific brain processes that have developed their behaviors over time. Learning there is a “logical brain-science explanation” for their condition goes a long way in relieving shame and hopelessness. Perhaps some of the following insights will help you better understand “how you got here”—
via The Brain Science of Unwanted Sexual Behaviors.
The twitching is the first visual sign of an orgasm. When this happens I know that my husband has passed the point of no return and I immediately let go of his dick. When my stimulation stops he always starts clenching his buttocks and thrusting his hips but his dick doesn’t receive any more stimulation and his orgasm is ruined. His cum just drips out of him and when I know the danger of orgasm is over i milk the rest of the cum out of him by gripping his shaft by my thumb and forefinger right underneath his balls and milking his cock by sliding my thumb and forefinger along his shaft being careful to release the grip and taking a new one in such a manner that I “milk” his cock.
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