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Two worlds

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A masturbator said:

When I was 13 I used to spend a lot of my weekend time with a much
older guy having lots of wanking fun together. It was like I existed
in 2 different worlds. There was my normal schoolboy life during the
week and then my very exciting and very different sexual life on
weekends. The 2 were so different from each other that it’s near
impossible to relate them timewise. I remember sitting in the back of
the classroom looking around at all my classmates and wondering how
they would react if they discovered what I got up to on weekends.
I don’t recall feeling shame though. Jacking off with another guy,
particularly an adult, was too much of a new exciting thrill to care
what anyone thought.

Chronic Masturbation or Over Masturbation?

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Chronic Masturbation

First of all, the majority of masturbation is healthy and positive. “Over masturbation” or chronic masturbation is rare and means different things to different men.

Scientist decided to do some research with some extra hands and with a few extra dollars in their research budgets. They wanted to look into the subject of the effects masturbation and over masturbation had on our bodies.

So what’s the result?

Excessive stimulation of the acetylcholine/ parasympathetic nervous system can result in over production of sex hormones and neurotransmitters. These abundant and excessively large amounts of hormones and neurotransmitters can cause big changes in our body’s chemistry.

Masturbation is viewed as a problem if it interferes in sexual activity with a partner, when it’s done in public, or if it causes great distress to the person. It may cause distress if it is done compulsively. Or if masturbation interferes with daily life and activities.

We should note that masturbation is a healthy sexual behavior and like other behaviors, if over practiced or become addicted to it, can create both psychologically and physiologically imbalances.

Side-effects of Masturbation

The changes on our bodies caused by these imbalances can be:

Feeling tired all the time, fatigue

Lower back pain

Hair Loss/Thinning hair

Soft or weak erections

Premature ejaculation

Eye floaters or fuzzy vision

Testicular or groin pain

Pain or cramps in the tail bone or pelvic area

When to say enough

So how do you know how much masturbation is too much (or for that matter, how much sex is too much)? It depends. We suggest men keep the frequency to about 2-3 times a week. But if you learn to have orgasms without ejaculation, you can have sexual activity more often.

Having sexual activity more often allows your body to store bioenergy to make your penis firmer for longer lasting erections with bigger volume ejaculations.

Memory and concentration are often experienced by over masturbation participants. It is one of the dangerous side effects and signals our brain is drained of acetycholine, which are eventually replaced. Absentmindedness, memory loss, a lack of concentration can be brought about from over masturbation.

The majority of masturbation is healthy and positive. “Over masturbation” or chronic masturbation is rare. Learning to control our needs can help keep our body chemicals in balance.

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in search of rubber rings

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So, I went, as advised, to the plumbing section in the UK equivalent of Home Depot (we call it B and Q) in search of rubber rings. And found them, little packs of assorted sizes. Just like buying shirts or socks: various sizes to fit various sizes: short fat long thin. Trouble with the penis (see below) is that it is ALL sizes depending on the state of arousal.
Anyway, normally when I go to a shop to buy something to wear, I like to try things on, but I wasn’t sure this would be acceptable even in a DIY store. A man slipping rubber rings over his todger might have excited comment….  And how can one say “Does my dick look big in this?” or “Do you have them in another colour? Black just isn’t me.”
There was a very scrumptious-looking assistant – the one who had directed me to the plumbing section – who I would happily have asked for advice on the best fit. Imagine.
“May I recommend you slide a couple of the larger ones to the base of the penis, sir, and a tighter one just behind the glans.”
Followed by:
“Here, let me do that for you, sir.”
Well, it WOULD have been nice.
I have refrained from telling you the gender of the assistant but s/he looked very capable of handling a customer’s penis, so to speak. In fact, looking back, I should have BEGGED for help! Yes, he was definitely an experienced cock fondler! <sigh> Must go back one day for a few screws…..
And now, as I sit here writing this, my penis accoutred with various rings, I have encountered a mini-problem. Base rings ok, but as soon as I try to fit the (smaller) glans ring, the act of handling the Imperial Todger causes him to swell immediately, making it impossible to get the smaller ring on. Guess I need to wait till El Gordo is no longer gordo (Spanish for “fat”) and slip the small ring on while he isn’t looking. No worries, though, Mick, I will persevere.
After all, I never tire of handling myself whatever the excuse.
And thanks, once again, to the imaginative pervert who gave us all the idea of enhancing our sex lives via the plumbing section of the local DIY store. A question: is there anything in the electrical section we could try? :-)
PS Fuck! I just worked it out: when the cock is up, a large ring is perfect behind the glans. Mmmm, feels good. Excuse me, duty calls…………………

Ill Effects Of Chronic Masturbation Since A Teenager

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Hello. I am writing with deep concerns for my health. I started masturbating when I was 14 watching porn and continued until I noticed symptoms happening to me around the age of 18 going on 19. Throughout the years I would masturbate every day, sometimes close to 5 times a day watching porn in the recent 2 years. I have experienced dizziness, headaches, and pains in my penis, testicles, lower back and neck and also I tend to shake a lot when I touch things and sit down. I stopped having sex for the past year but continued to masturbate and smoke marijuana for the past 3 years, which probably worsened my problem. I purchased the ViaPal-HGH-C about a year ago but didn’t use it correctly and continued to watch porn and smoke, but I quit masturbating even though I would still ejaculate in my sleep and feel pain underneath my testicles. Also my sperm had changed — it’s not clear and smooth liquid anymore, but yellowish and jelly-like. Also during these ejaculations my testicle and penis have gotten smaller, but I continued to smoke. Now I have quit and trying to clean out my system. The last ejaculation was Sunday and the last time I have smoked is Wednesday, but I am very scared for my health because all the symptoms on your main page I have felt and now my 20 yr-old body sometimes feels 60. I am fully committed to getting my body healthy again and would like to know the steps I should take to rejuvenate. Thank you for reading this and I hope to be able to feel like myself again.

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That Masturbation Thing on Oprah

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Seems like Oprahs got the whole US lit up about teenage girls and masturbation. I, for one, am happy to hear some frank talk about this really great life skill.  http://www.oprah.com/dated/oprahshow/oprahshow-20090326-sex-talkWhen girls know how their own body works and have learned how to “take care of business” on their own, they are in a much better position to handle their own sexuality and, quite possibly, sexual relationships.

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Japan Dominates Masturbate-a-Thon: Gadgets Help Break 8 Hour 30 Minute Record

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Think you have what it takes to become a masturbating champion? Can you endure longer than 8 hours and 40 minutes? Because that is what it will take to beat the new record set by both Norihiro Taneichi and Masanobu Sato of Tokyo at this year’s Masturbate-a-Thon in San Francisco. The two finalists went “head-to-head” in a competition that finally ended when an exhausted Taneichi gave up, allowing Sato to claim the prestigious title. What was their secret? They were both using the Tenga New Adult Concept line of onanism cups. WARNING!: NSFW gallery after the break.

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wife and I had joined this local group of bdsm entusiasts

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wife and I had joined this local group of bdsm entusiasts. Mostly
couples but also a couple of pairs of lesbians and a couple more of
gay guys. There were a very few single women and single men without
partners were not allow to be members. We would meet at some member's
home for a play party on a frequent basis.

It didn't take them long to figure out that neither my wife nor I were
dominant. We were followers to the lead ofo others who would take
charge of us. This one man and his wife were the first to take charge
of us at the second party we attended. The man whos name was Larry
suggested to my wife that she strip off my clothes. She was reluctant
at first but Larry and his wife Donna talked her into it. So I was
stripped naked in the middle of the room in front of about 20 to 30
people. Continue reading →

Postorgasmic illness syndrome (Wikipedia)

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Postorgasmic illness syndrome

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS) is a condition characterized by debilitating symptoms following orgasm that last for a few hours to several days.[1] The phenomenon was first described in 2002.[2]

Symptoms

Symptoms usually appear within half an hour of orgasm and resolve after a few days.[2]

Physical symptoms include severe fatigue and flu-like and allergy-like symptoms, such as sneezing, itchy eyes, nasal irritation, and muscle pain.[2] Common psychological symptoms include irritability and depressed mood.[2] Affected individuals may also experience intense warmth.[1]

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Edging: How To Last Longer Without Ejaculating – Artipot

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Edging is a technique that can be used to increase your ability to refrain from climaxing when you’re really stimulated and turned on. It goes like this. You imagine a scale of stimulation from 1 to 10. 1 means you aren’t stimulated at all. It’s how you are before you even start to have sex. 3 means you’re starting to become physically stimulated. In other words, you can definitely feel it, but it’s not enough to make you come too early. 6 is where you really start to feel stimulated. If you carried on with this level of stimulation, you’d rise to the next number on the scale: 7. 7 is where you’re very sexually stimulated.

When you go above a 7 on the stimulation scale, you get close to the point of no return which is a 9. Passing the point of no return means you’re definitely going to ejaculate, no matter what you do. The edging technique involves masturbating until you get to a 7 on the scale, then backing off and slowing down until you’re back down to a 4 or 5, then speeding up until you’re about a 7 or 8 once more. Using this method, you can learn to control your stimulation levels and thereby extend how long you’re able to have sex without coming. Once you’ve used edging alone for a while, though, you should take it to the next level: edging with your partner. Here’s how to do that.

Begin sex with your partner. You should have already discussed that you’re going to try edging during this sexual encounter and she should be happy and enthusiastic about the idea. After foreplay, enter you partner in the position you know creates the smallest amount of sexual stimulation for you. Now slowly build your way up to 7 on the stimulation scale. Be careful – it’s easy to jump right past 7 and pass the point of no return when using the edging technique in “live” conditions. Once you’re at or just beyond 7, and therefore fairly close to coming, slow down or withdraw from your partner, wait a moment, then build it back up once more. Keep going just as you do it when performing edging by yourself.

After a while, you can switch to your next least intense sexual position and start the edging process once more. Of course, your partner doesn’t have to just lie there and let you beaver away throughout all of this. You can still kiss her, talk to her, tease her, etc. In other words, done right, this technique is awesome for your partner, even though it’s serving a productive purpose for you. Keep going through sexual positions, edging throughout each one. If you come after a while, don’t worry about it. You’ve made good progress. Next time, you’ll be able to go even further.

You won’t believe how effective this technique is when used in conjunction with deep breathing exercises. After just three or four sexual encounters, during which you’ve used this technique, you’ll notice that you can last two or even three times as long as you used to, before you used this method of edging.

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