Monthly Archives: December 2009

Seminal Losses

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As a rule, with a healthy young man, night losses are accompanied by amorous dreams, together with the physical sensations characteristic of an orgasm, with the result that he wakes up.

If, however, a young man has these losses repeatedly, such a weakening of the sexual function may result that he will eventually have them without any dreams, or voluptuous sensations and without waking up. In such a case they are unmistakably pathological, and may be followed by daytime losses occurring on the occasion of the least sexual excitement, or even with-out any provoking cause whatever, and without any consciousness of them. In some cases any mental excitement or unusual mental effort is sufficient to induce them. You may understand that when they occur in the daytime it is usually because the sexual organs have become very seriously weakened. Under such circumstances there is little or no sensation. One may be so weakened in this respect that the touch of a woman’s clothing, or even conversation with her, will cause an emission.

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Is masturbation harmful?

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SAMAEL AUN WEOR affirms in chapter “Normal Sexuality” of his book PERFECT MATRIMONY: “Sexual fantasy produces impotence of a psychosexual type. People with that kind of illness have normal erections; they are apparently normal men, but in the moment in which they try to connect the penis and the vulva, the erection abates making the phallus fall, leaving the man in the most horrible state of desperation. They have lived in sexual fantasy and when they really find themselves facing the crude sexual reality which has nothing to do with fantasy, they become confused and are unable to properly respond to reality”.

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How To Stop Masturbating: Overcoming Masturbation Addiction

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What starts off as a bit of fun and experimentation when you’re a teenager can turn into a habit of addiction that is hard to shift. Today in this article I want to cover the topic of masturbation addiction and how to stop masturbating.

Are you finding it hard to control your masturbating, so much so that it is affecting other areas of your life? Do you finding it difficult to break the habit of masturbating almost daily? Are you worried about the negative effects that excessive masturbation may cause you? Do you wish that there was an easy and effective way to control your masturbating instead of it controlling you? Well if so then you are in the right place. Read on and get the information that you have been waiting for.

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How Do You Masturbate? | Scarleteen

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Here are some of the many ways women masturbate with their genitals:

• massaging the clitoral shaft or hood, labia or mons with hands (either whole hands or with fingers, knuckles or palms with varying kinds of speed, pressure or movement) or an object

• rubbing or rocking the vulva up against objects (like a pillow, the edge of a chair or the edge of the bed)

• inserting fingers or sex toys into the vagina or anus, often paired with clitorial stimulation

• using a vibrator or other toys to stimulate the clitoris, labia, thighs, perineum, rectum or other sites

• using a faucet or showerhead for clitoral stimulation

• sitting on large vibrating objects, like a washing machine

• pressing and unpressing the thighs tightly together

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Masturbation, What’s So Funny?

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Masturbation, What’s So Funny?

What is normal, what is not and what you have to know about masturbation myths.

From Jessica Stevenson, About.com Guide

It you cringe and giggle and is the punchline to a joke but just what is it that makes masturbation such funny business? Technically the only funny thing about masturbation is that it is fun. It is not the most hilarious thing that humans do, it is not even the most clever and it is far from the most interesting. But we grow up thinking it is bad, and like any other forbidden fruit, the taboo makes it all the more intriguing. Since we can’t comfortably discuss masturbation in polite company we are forced to make light of it in order to open up any kind of dialogue. Dialogue that we desperately want to have. Dialogue that teens NEED to have. Because so much of the things teens think they know about masturbation is based on rumours, incongruent sex-ed explanations, and locker room chatter, it is important that there be somewhere to go to get the facts.

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Solo Touch :: Masturbation Story :: Spanked by Aunt

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She said, “Wait here”. She left, and when she returned had changed out of the business suit she wore to work into a short black satin nightie. I was too confused to be aroused by it, and she asked, “Your mother doesn’t spank you, does she?”

I said, “No!” suddenly scared.

She said, “Well, she should, and I’m going to…now get undressed!”

She sat on the bed and when I was naked she said, “Get over my knee.”

I got over her knee and started to get aroused by the silky fabric of her nightie. She started to lightly rub my butt in fast little circles. As my skin warmed, I felt my penis getting hard, and wondered how she would react. She reached around and grabbed it, and said, “You won’t be hard for long.” Then she said “Your punishment is going to last the rest of your stay. I am going to spank you whenever I think you need it; you are going to obey me, and you are absolutely forbidden to masterbate unless I tell you to. Do you understand?” I didn’t really, but I said, “Yes”.

Then she started to spank me. At first it wasn’t too hard and I thought it wasn’t going to hurt, but she had just gotten started. She spanked me harder and harder, pausing a few times to lightly stroke my butt and legs and back, before spanking me again. Soon my butt was bright red and stinging terribly, and I was crying like a baby. When she was done, she told me to stand in the middle of the room with my hands on my head. She left, and after a long time came back with a feather duster. She lightly stroked my whole body with the duster, paying special attention to my cock and balls, and soon I was very hard. She stood in front of me and said, “You got to watch me, now I get to watch you.”

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Porn Can Cripple Your Will Power

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After decades of helping individuals work through their addiction to pornography, I’m still amazed by the consistency of the responses I see in both the addict and those who care about him or her. When one is shackled in porn use, he or she is usually deeply frustrated and greatly perplexed by the power of their addiction—especially by the fact that when they feel the “urge” wash over them, they temporarily jettison everyone and everything they care about to indulge in porn or some other sexual behavior. Afterward, they can’t understand why their will power and self-discipline were so weak! At the same time, those who care about the addict feel tremendous frustration each time he or she gives in to the addiction—“Why can’t you just say no!” “You just need to learn to control yourself!”

To understand why an addict has little or no will power and self-discipline when faced with the overwhelming urge to indulge in his addiction, you must first understand what addiction does to the brain. In the forehead area or Frontal Lobes area of the brain is the control/executive center. This is the most advanced part of our brain—what makes us human. It is the area of the brain that has to do with will, self-discipline, anticipation of consequences, reasoning, planning, and goal-setting. Addictions inhibit this part of the brain and reduce these capacities. This is one reason why addicts are so “surprised” after they have indulged in violation of their own values, beliefs, resolutions, goals, memory of past consequences, etc.

Because addictive behaviors spawn from the Limbic System or reward-pleasure-appetite-emotion-driven part of the brain, and are accompanied by a tidal wave of endogenous chemicals (natural morphine-like chemicals produced by the brain) once the individual makes up his mind to start down the path of indulgence, the frontal lobes are, as it were, “blocked out” dramatically reducing “will-power” and “self-control”. It’s like battling the addiction with only 50%, 30%, or even 20% or less of one’s will, self-discipline, and self-control in operation. This is one reason why people who have never been addicted will say, “Why don’t you just quit”? or “Why don’t you just stop looking at it?” assuming that if they were addicted they could control it.

Of course they arrive at this reasoning with 100% of their will, self-discipline, and faculties in-tact. What they don’t realize is that with the logic/self-control centers of the brain severely handicapped, overcoming the urge to indulge is like running a race severely crippled. For the addict, the whole process is extremely frustrating and disheartening, because they want to quit, but it seems the harder they try the more powerless they become.

lots more at Porn Can Cripple Your Will Power.