Masturbation is sometimes called “self love” or “solo-sex”. It is a normal and healthy activity, and indeed is the way most adolescents discover what makes them feel good before they embark on an adult sexual relationship. In some cases however, it can become an obsession. And that is not healthy. Medically masturbation is not a physical disease. Problems arise when it starts interfering in our lives as a stress, guilt or a thorn in our relationships. Even if little masturbation does that then it is termed “harmful”.
Steps
Decide whether your masturbation is a cause for concern. Masturbation has become an obsession when it interferes with your daily routine and your relationships. If you find yourself masturbating instead of spending time on more important things on a daily basis (and you are no longer a teenage boy or girl!), then it might be time to break the cycle of behavior you are in.
Monthly Archives: October 2009
Whiteboy [Open Zipper Project]
Whiteboy tells us of his early career humping the sheets, through his current adult married masturbator life. He describes getting caught by his mother as a teen, just as he began to ejaculate. And together we create an orgasmic fantasy of being caught at the computer by wife and girl friend.
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Hooked on a Feeling – Why More Women are Viewing Porn
Pornography addiction is usually thought of as a “male addiction,” but statistics show that rapidly increasing numbers of women are getting caught in this trap. Becca Cipriani, a writer for the HomeLife Magazine, interviewed Candeo Co-Founder Mark Kastleman on the issue of women and pornography use. In her exceptional article, Hooked on a Feeling, Becca and Mark delve into the brain science, psychology, and emotional elements that pull women into pornography..
College students and sperm donors
… One University of Wisconsin junior who studies computer science and is an All-American athlete says his donations to SpermBrokerage keep him enrolled in school.
“My friends suggested it as a joke but I was considering it even before they said anything,” the donor said. “Since the NCAA doesn’t allow me to hold a job during the school year, this was one of the few ways I could actually make money to support myself while school’s in session.”
Since many college men are uncomfortable when they first begin making sperm donations, sperm bank staff members (usually female) work to create calming and sexy environments featuring private rooms, dim lighting, plush chairs, porn magazines and X-rated videos.
“To [the donors] the idea of masturbating for money is a little weird at first,” Low said. “To masturbate in a strange place, pornography is kind of necessary.”…
… more via College students and sperm donors | AskStudent.
Confession is Good for the Penis [podcasturbation]
A Pants-Down Podcasturbation
The second most common urge among nearly all chronic masturbators (after the obvious one) is to “confess” his/her masturbation addiction to some one. It does not matter whether he is a “proud” masturbator celebrating his liberation and solosexual lifestyle, or a shameful guilty masturbator sneaking around in his private wanker closet. We all need to acknowledge, express, validate, and share this paramount dimension of our lives. In this podcasturbation I offer my personal confession and encourage you to offer yours. And yes, there is an orgasmic admission and emission at the end.
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- Confession is Good for the Penis (25 minutes)
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Real life, "Accidently" exposing
In ClothedFemale_NakedMale@yahoogroups.com masturbators wrote:
I’ve always enjoyed ladies watching me masturbate. I would be naked and they usually were not, then I came across CFNM and my fetish got a name, lol.
I’m in my forties now, but I was pretty bold when younger. Just after my high school years I used to ride the bus to work and one day I got carried away. At the time the seating set up was 2 seaters all in a row. I was very sexual and used to getting it on quite frequently with my girlfriend, but at the time, I remember I wasn’t getting it as much.
Anyway, on the bus and in my seat already, a very pretty young lady chose to sit beside me, her on the outside, me the inside by the window.
It was winter time and I wore a big parka. It was a warm coat and I usually unzipped it when I got inside the bus.
I was horny again and somewhere in my brain and for the first time I decided I would touch myself with this girl beside me. First, innocently brushing the area, I continued until I was now more obvious, turning myself on through my pants, which were tight enough to see the shape of my excited cock. She didn’t appear to mind and I’m sure she was aware, because she didn’t move, not even her head. What I was doing was obviously in her line of vision by just shifting her eyes slightly to the left.
I became bolder by her not getting up and moving to another seat.
I got hard fast and I slowly unzipped using my big coat as a shield from other peoples eyes, making an opening directed at her sight line.
I was now so turned on, I was rock hard and showing my cock, my hard cock was exposed to this very pretty stranger. I held it between my legs and I think only visible to my voyeur as I stroked myself toward the seat back in front of me. I sensed she was aware of everything I was doing and it didn’t take me long and before I knew it I shot hot cum from the end of my dick, wow and holy cow, I’m on a bus I thought. I came and came back to reality, I had arrived at my stop almost at the same time I came and quickly hid everything held my coat together squeezed by my new friend and exited the bus.
Jake had to ejaculate. [Open Zipper Project]
Jake pops off in less than two minutes in this short recording. However, please do not conclude that he is a premature ejaculator. He had been edging for over three hours when he called. Sometimes a fella’ just got’ta have relief.
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Experiences of thesolitudeone: Getting turned on at the bar
… Because I edge when I masturbate, I need to get started if I am to maintain my schedule. Just be assured that I will really enjoy playing with myself tonight. I think that I will pretend that the barmaid will play with my penis. She will touch it softly in the area just below the head on the bottom side of my little penis. It will feel so, so good. She will blow on it and tickle it. She will laugh and smile when she sees how I react to what she is doing to my now rock hard little penis. She will not put my hard penis in her mouth because she knows that I so much enjoy when she teases me with everything except her mouth and tongue. She finds it so fascinating that she is able to bring my tiny little penis to the edge of ejaculation only then to deny me the pleasure. She understands that what she has been doing to me now has caused me to leak that sticky stuff out of the little opening at the end of my penis. She pretends to be like the Japanese girls that I see on the Internet that love to play with that sticky stuff. She touches the sticky stuff with the end of one of her fingers and watches as she pulls her finger away and the sticky stuff now is a little like a rope between the end of my penis and her finger. She looks at it and laughs and does it again and again. She has so much control over my pleasure that I cannot stand it. She goes on and on giving me pleasure until she looks at the clock on the wall and then makes me breathe faster and harder until I ejaculate in intense fashion. One gush, one moan, another gush and another and then another moan. She is laughing now watching the ejaculate fly in the air and land on my huge belly. She does not stop because she knows that I have more ejaculate to expel. She knows that I often will have five strong spurts and then several empty spurts before my uncontrolled urge to expel my semen subsides. She will then smile at me while she looks at my huge semen covered belly as I inhale and exhale causing that huge fat belly to rise and fall over and over again. She then will grab a towel and wipe off the ejaculate that is all over because I cannot control where it goes. While cleaning the semen off of my huge fat belly, she jokingly tells me that one day she is going to make me taste my own sticky stuff. After making me do that several different times, she is going to make me taste my own ejaculate if I ever want her to make my tiny little penis come again. Oh my gosh, what am I ever going to do? …
via Experiences of thesolitudeone: Getting turned on at the bar.
Brandi Belle – Makes Dude Cum in a Cup
Good kinky video
Have you ever?
In ClothedFemale_NakedMale@yahoogroups.com masturbators wrote:
Have you ever participated in a CFNM event (either as a man or woman) or happening that involved family members either by choice or accident?
Ever had a normal nudist outing turn into something like CFNM?
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This happened to me when I was 15. We had a swimming pool behind the
house and it was very secluded. I had just finished cutting the grass
and since no one was home I went behind the house, took off my clothes
and jumped in. I swam over to where the water came back into the pool
and put my dick by the outlet. It felt really good and I got hard
right away. After a bit I got out of the pool and started to jerk
off. I was completely naked standing there jerking my dick when the
lady next door came walking around the corner. She just stopped in her
tracks and stared right at me. I was to far gone to quit and I started
to shoot my cum right in front of her. I could not stop cumming the
thought of being seen like this, while extremely embarrassing, was
really turning me on. After I stopped shooting I let go of my dick and
let it hang there still dripping cum. She just stared at me, I thought
I would die of embarrassment. She then looked up at me and told me to
be more careful next time, then turned and walked off. I lived in
dread for the next few weeks thinking she would tell on me. She never
did. It is still one of the most intense orgasms I ever had. I still
love to jerk myself with ladies watching and have done it quite a few
times over the years. Anyone want to chat about this love to hear from
you.
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