Artificial Vaginas – a brief road test

a masturbator said:

Not without some embaressment I recently purchased a flesh coloured
sleeve designed for male masturbation.
This is the first time I have purchased such an item and I thought I
would share my thoughts.  It was much cheaper than the larger models
and I thought it would be a good place to start.  Some of the larger
models look great but can be expensive.
The one i bought was only about 4 inches long with a couple of moulded
lips at one end – could be seen as vaginal or facial lips I guess.  The
material really is quite tactile and nice to hold and squeeze. 
Somewhere between firm and soft but spongy and giving like real flesh. 
Colour was flesh pink.  The cicular hole in the sleeve looked way to
small for a penis…only about the diameter of a pencil.  I thought I
had wasted my money as my penis is fairly thick.  However the amazing
thing is the material is so stretchy and pliable that the erct penis
can be forced thru the little hole with a little effort and once the
precum starts flowing the whole length becomes lubricated and can be
pumped up and down with the knob popping out ion the downstrok and
being completely encased on the upstoke.  As a newcomer i found the
elasticity of the sleeve realistic and nicely tight but almost "too
tight" for me.  A real vagina is of course an amazing thing and is very
elastic and can accomiodate all size cocks – but generally doesn’t grip
this tight!!
The item had 2 cute little handles on each side allowing you to hook
your thumb and finger into each side which helped with the grip and
prevented loss of grip when the precum was flying and the whole sleeve
became wet and slippery!  I originally was hoping to use the device to
ask my Chinese massage lady if she would let me "practice" my hip
thrusting (thanks richard for that humiliating idea in an earlier
email) whilst she firmly held the sleeve and these little handles
appealed for that reason.
On the downside I think it is too short for me as I could not get a
sense of being "engulfed" by the vagna as either my knob protruded at
the nend orif I covered the knob then too much shaft was not being
squeezed by the sleeve "flesh".
I therefire suspect that the full length artificial vaginas will give
greter penis engulfment" but i will need to take care to buy one long
enough to take the full length of my erection.
As an aside, I rether prefer the concept of Germaine Greer who has
always argued that a woman’s vagina actively engulfs the penis rather
then agreeing that the penis is active in its penetration aspect.  A
subtle but empowering idea both for women and for submissive males who
may struggle with the idea proposed by some feminists that sexual
intercourse is a form of penis aggression against the female and
constitutes a form of rape.  The submissive can then understand that
his erection is necessary to allow satisfaction for the female vagina
which needs to engulf and bear down on, almost "absorb", the male penis
for her to feel satisfaction.

Ever tried to stop masturbating?

This is one of my favorite topics. Where does the line between good clean (well, maybe not “clean”) fun stop and compulsive behavior begin? Do we masturbate because it makes us feel good, or do we HAVE to masturbate to feel good? Addiction is such a slippery slope.

I often feel guilty and ashamed, not for masturbating, but for how much time and energy I spend doing it. And yet when I think of how addicted I am, how helpless I am, it excites me in some weird way and I want to do it even more. A feedback circle I can’t break.

I have tried stopping when I was a teenager. I never made it past 4 or 5 days. I have tried “cutting back” as an adult. I can masturbate less frequently for a time, then I bust out and jerk off like a monkey in rut. I’m hooked; I know it, I’m ashamed, and I love it!

Tully Mars Male Exhibitionist- I love to masturbate

Being male, that is probably normal ;-) Just thinking about it causes a stir in my loins….the blood flows and my cock stiffens just waiting for some action. It wants to be freed from the confines of my pants and underwear….. if I’m wearing any ;-) I like my cock and balls to hang free as much as possible, so sometimes I am wearing no underwear. …. more at Tully Mars Male Exhibitionist- I love to masturbate

Fucking a glove

a masturbator said:

I have been getting bored my my standard jerking so I finally decided
to search the internet universe for you ways to get my high, and
whalla! I’m here. I have already learned a new trick and tried it out
yesterday. I saw a video on some website where a guy took a towle and
a latez glove and rolled it up and poured some oil in it. Well…
As I strolled through Lowes at a quick pace trying to find some latex
gloves my semi rigged hard on pushing gainst my khaki pants. I adjust
my tie hoping it will conceal the buldge at the checkout. I was
really looking forward to getting home.
I took of work a bit early just because it was slow plus I couldn’t
wait any longer to try out this new pocket pussy. I finally get home
after a longer than usual fight in traffic. The dog was crossing his
legs to use the bathroom so I put off my pleasure a bit longer.
I put on some loose shorts and took the dog out to the yard. I
started rubing my cock through my shorts and really felt a thick
prick becoming engorged just at the thought of fucking a rubber glove.
The dog finished up..thank goodness. I ran, not walked, up my stairs
to the bedroom. I searched the closet for the perfect towel, too big,
nope to small, ah just right. A soft terry cloth towel used to dry my
g/f hair.
I found some oil tucked away and proceed to follow the mans
directions. Lay the towel on a flat surface. Fold the towel over.
Place the latex glove at the end and leave about an 1.5" over the
edge of the towel. Slowly roll the towel up until you get a roll.
Take the 1.5" of glove and fold it back over the roll. Add oil and a
dick and you have pure pleasure.
My dick is so hard thinking of this right now. I have to remain
seated in case a customer comes in. BTW, I’m at work right now.
I layed down on my back, poured some oil in my personal pussy. I
started to slide my dick in but I guess I rolled it too tight because
I couldn’t even get the head of my 9" cock in. I undid the
contraption and rolled it a bit looser. Damn, still way too tight.
Again, ahh perfect. I layed my naked ass back down on the bed. It was
quite and I slid it down my cock. Goodness, it felt like I was in
High School and was with the most tighest pussy of my life. The glove
created a suction and the towel provided warmth. I could only last
several strokes before I let out a loud moan and groan will I filled
this glove with the largest amount of come I have ever produced. You
want to talk about toes curling well…
I sit here now only thinking about getting home and going through
this again. I can feel the precum oozing out of my dick head as I
write this and I hope yours is too.

The Urge to Ejaculate [podcasturbation]

A Pants-Down Podcasturbation

This is a topic we’ve visited before, but never loses interest for the chronic male masturbator: the overwhelming male urge to ejaculate. While the urge is not unique to male masturbators, the way we respond to and manage the urge sets us apart from other normal copulatory males. In this podcasturbation we discuss the nature of the ejaculatory urge and practice our orgasm management skills. This is not one of my more articulate or cerebral essays, but the genuine enthusiasm may make up for lack of redeeming social value. 

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Is masturbation wrecking my sex life?

Although this article addresses the inability of a chronic masturbator to ejaculate inter-vaginally, the same applies to those of us who become unable to erect and penetrate due to habituation to manual stimulation.

…Though women have a tendency to read too much into the intimate relationship between a man and his right hand, it rarely causes a problem. That is unless it develops into a compulsion, or a man becomes so conditioned to his own optimum brand of manipulation that penetrative or oral sex fails to provide him with sufficient stimulation to achieve orgasm.

Sex researchers call this phenomenon autosexual orientation. The term covers men who are reliant on a completely constant form of self-stimulation as well as those who get used to such an “idiosyncratic” style of stimulation that they disable their ability to ejaculate during regular sex. When the sex that you have with yourself is so perfect that you can’t translate it into sex with someone else, you have a problem. Dr David Goldmeier, a sexual dysfunction expert at St Mary’s Hospital, West London, says: “Some men who suffer from retarded ejaculation report that the combination of very erotic fantasies at masturbation, combined with high-level manual friction, enable them to climax in that scenario, but that vaginal sex is not so much of a turn-on, because the man does not get the same degree of stimulation and because the woman is not as erotic as their personalised masturbatory fantasy.” ….

Sex advice: is masturbation wrecking my sex life? – Times Online