I am a married male totally addicted to masturbation and no longer able to have penetrative sex because of it. I have tried orgasm management several times to see if that would help me regain the ability to perform sexual intercourse. I have tried to restrict the frequency of masturbation on my own as well as using a male chastity device under the supervision of my wife. Unfortunately it did not seem to work for me. Though I was able to reduce masturbation, it did not increase my copulatory competence. In fact, before I succumbed to total masturbatory impotence, I noticed little correlation between masturbation frequency and copulatory success. Of course, if I exhausted myself with intense and repeated masturbation in a short period, I would certainly fail to achieve or maintain erections for coitus. But if I abstained from masturbating for 3 or 4 days (a very long abstinence for me), I was no more likely to remain erect and potent in a vagina.

From Treating – erectile dysfunction and male impotence with mandatory chastity. : Orgasm Denial As Therapy – Femdom Chastity

Warning of the dangers of “overmasturbation” and selling miracle cures is one of the many shabby little businesses that about on the web.

But some men can make too much of a good thing. A heavy grip, high velocity can desensitize a penis. And it is possible to become too habituated to the way the penis is held. Unknowingly a man conditions himself to associate orgasms with physical conditions another body can’t reproduce.

Similarly fantasies of beautiful women, forever obliging or other unrealizable fantasies may impede a man from enjoying sex with a real person.

A man becomes impotent except when having sex with anything other than his own hand.

Enforced abstinence may allow the penis to recover normal tactile responsiveness. And step away from dreams of perfection and more able to enjoy his flesh and blood lover.

For a limited group of men orgasm denial may serve the purpose Viagra and Cialis do for others.