in http://groups.yahoo.com/group/OnaniaSupport/ a masturbator wrote:

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Maybe it’s time for an update………..This is the 23rd day of my most recent layoff.  I
have masturbated every day at least once and sometimes 4 times.  My wife leaves early and I can’t sleep after she gets up so I do too. She gets ready for work and I get ready to edge. I sleep naked all the time and I remain so until she leaves. She has commented on my waiting for her to go so I could get online and, “beat off”, as she puts it many times. I haven’t tried to hide it from her for many years.
She always makes a point to tell me if she expecting someone to stop by and to tell me to make sure I’m not naked. I am naked all the time now at home unless someone is comming over.
On weekends I usually ask her if she’s in the mood before I start to masturbate. Surprisingly, I’m happy to say, she is in the mood for sex more often now than before even though all we do is masturbate, and not really that often. When she is willing, we either help each other or just do ourselves together. Most often, though, I just do myself alone still.
I’m completly impotent for years and Viagra nor Cialis help with that. Even so, she still “examines” me when we get together to see if I’m hard. If I am, and that’s very rare, she still jumps on top and I go limp immediately. We finish up manually and take our time doing so. She has learned to enjoy masturbation, finally.
When we used have intercourse it was only 2 or 3 times a year and I told her I was losing my ability to make love, but, nothing changed with regard to frequency. I masturbated and she gave me a lot of handjobs too. Once we got the internet I was doomed for ever having a “normal” sex life.