in http://groups.yahoo.com/group/OnaniaSupport/ a masturbator wrote:
I want to repeat here and confess to you all: I am a masturbator. I am an obsessive, passionate masturbator. Haven’t had sex with my wife since 12 years due to lack of energy or ED or how you would like to call it, but masturbate every moment I can. I am obsessed by sex, masturbation and perverted porn and I bless the internet with its chatsites, forums and movies and tons of perverted, extreme porn. I start every morning masturbating for half an hour when still in bed and end the day the same way or watching movies when my wife went first. When alone I use every moment to live my passion.
Yesterday masturbated continuously from 10 am till 10 pm, wife being out for 3 days. Today the same until now (5 pm) although intended to do some “useful” things. After some kind of half erection the first few hours my penis is limp for the rest of the day but it does not affect my passion and lust in any way. There is no danger I will orgasm: if I want I can orgasm about every month, but try to avoid as long as possible. I leak sperm unvoluntarily, so there is hardly any need and pression to come.
Masturbating is one thing, even more important is showing and propagating masturbation. Thats why I masturbate openly on the nudebeach. I admire and envy the men masturbating on cam and vid, being visible to all but have no opportunity to show myself that way. And if showing is impossible it is necessary to tell and anounce openly that we masturbate, that masturbating is the only form of sex we practice or would like to practice even when married, that we masturbate in a passionate way and as much as possible and that there is no reason whatsoever to be ashamed of that. We don’t masturbate for negative reasons like addiction, we masturbate voluntarily and by choice and beyond any physical restriction because we want to maturbate and nothing but to masturbate.
I repeat: I am a passionate masturbator and I am glad to confess I am and to be here together with other passionate and obsessed masturbators.
Arno, 70 y/o Dutch masturbator and exhibitionist.