Three Myths about Porn – Reuniting
"My ex told me that he knew porn was an "addiction" for him. He used that term, and he said he wanted to stop and that because he couldn’t porn had "ruined his life." He also showed me a scar from masturbating to the point of bleeding because he was unable to stop.
He said porn made him want to cheat all the time, and made him constantly fantasize about "nasty" sex with strangers, and young (teen) girls. …
He would become agitated, irritable and mean when he could not look at porn because I was home, and he would become so angry and abusive due to frustration that I would unwittingly give him what he wanted by leaving. He would also abandon me places and run home and get online. He routinely had unprotected sex too – not thinking of reality or consequences like abortion, and STDs.
I have spoken to many guys in various forums who claim that their main problem with porn is that they cannot stop even when they want to."