a masturbator said:
I have always found Chinese TCM practitioners a very good place to go
when in need of assisted masturbation. Most big couities have a China
town and you will found Traditional Chinese Medicine practitioners
tucked way in lots of places. Usually they are not too expensive.
Whilst some are very prudish it is not difficult to find one who
understands and is trained in erectile dysfunction...or erectile
function for that matter! discuss this with them as the main reason
of seeing them. See how you go...you will probably be surprised.
Most are trained to focus on the flow of energy (Chi) thru the body
and understand how this affects the penis. If you are patient, clean
and polite when seeking massage.... and then explain your
penis "problem" you may be surprised how a nice Chinese TCM lady will
respond.
Well to cut a longer story short.....I have developed a very nice
relationship with a Chinese lady who regularly massages me and now
understands my "needs" as I have slowly revealed more and more to her
over time. (That by the way guys is the secret to not freaking a
legitimate TCM lady out...don't reveal too much of your chronic
masturbation fantasies too soon and all in one go!!)It aslo helps if
they see you as a regular and not a one timer...the lady in question
really didn't open up until about the 3rd visit...but now almost
anything goes...she is having fun!
Any way the reason for this post is to seek some ideas from my fellow
masturbators that I can try with her. She now sees it as fun and we
have tried quite a few things now...she always maintains a certain
professionalism and doesn't let the atmosphere degrade too much..but
I know she likes me telling her my ideas and ways of stimulating my
penis. She is happy to try things!!
So rather than telling you all the things we have tried how about you
guys suggesting some things and I will try with her and report back!
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Here are a few thoughts:
Tell her that being masturbated makes you feel like a cow being milked, and
have her place you in "cow" position, kneeling on hands and knees. She
should reach between your legs from the rear and milk you into a cup or
saucer.
Have her masturbate you slowly but not to orgasm. She should stop at the end
of the session and make you go away frustrated, and promise not to relieve
yourself until your next visit.
Have her masturbate you slowly, then right at the point where begin to
ejaculate, she should stop and let your penis go, and both of you watch it
finish ejaculating into thin air, untouched. (The so called "ruined" or
"minimized" orgasm)
She should masturbate you very very slowly, milking out just a drop at a
time. As soon as you begin to orgasm, she should let go and you should try
to hold it in, just letting out as little as possible. Then she should begin
again and milk out another drop, etc. This one calls for a lot of control on
your part.
She should help you "practice" for normal sex by forming a "pussy" with her
hand and allowing you to "fuck" it instead of masturbating you. She can
comment on your technique and progress as you practice for her. Also you
could bring a plastic pussy sleeve and she could hold it for you while you
use it.