A lady masturbator said:

My boyfriend is a compulsive masturbator.  He stays up late watching
porn movies, and in the morning I find his spunk-filled kleenexes in
the toilet.
   Since I’ve been reading the PeterFiles Web pages, I’ve come to
the conclusion that he needs my loving female guidance.  I’m thinking
about telling him that if he wants to masturbate, he must do it under
my watchful eye.
   At the same time, I’ve been wanting to use a strap-on dildo to
fuck him in the ass.  My boyfriend and I went online to shop for
a dildo and a harness, but he hasn’t been man enough to let me
fuck him yet. 
   What if I tell him he can masturbate while I fuck
him in the ass? 
   What if I tell him that’s the only time he’s allowed
to masturbate? 
   What if I act as his masturbatrix and give him a
handjob as I fuck him in the ass?
   I have a confession to make: I like to masturbate, too.  Does
that make me a hypocrite?  In fact, I’ve gotten kinda hot writing this
post and need to go jill-off right now.  Bye!

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  I hope you had a nice one…
  You’re a very wise and loving female to want to help your
  boyfriend in this way. These males we are so
  fond of have had their hands on their dicks their entire lives!
  It’s going to be tough, but you can help the poor dear gain some semblance
  of control.
  Yes, do tell him that he is not allowed to masturbate unless you are aware
  and have given him permission. Watch one of the porn movies with him (if
  you enjoy that sort or thing). Tell him that he will not be allowed to touch
  himself during the movie, but that if he is compliant, you will give him a
  handjob (or whatever you choose) as his reward for good behavior.  If he tries to
  sneak one you will have to punish him. Here’s where the strap-on might eventually
  be useful, or a few good smacks on his ass. Of course, you know with anal play
  you start slow and small and gradual. And when you do choose to allow him
  his wank, stay with him. Watch carefully, and ask questions. Make it fun
  for both of you.

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Sounds as if … is giving you some good advice.
I think once we guys find our cocks we really do live
with them in our hands our whole life. Masturbation is
fun, it is erotic and you and your bf should enjoy
doing it alone and together as often as you can. Of
course he probably does need your guidance and I can
tell you want to give it to him. One more thing.
Introduce him slowly to the strapon. If he ever lets
you use one on him and you do a good job, (gentle,
loving, yet under your guidance) he’ll be hooked.
I’ve only had the pleasure of one lady using a strapon
on me and I thought I’d died and gone to heaven. It is
that pleasurable when done correctly. His prostate
will forever be greatful to you.  Go for it and
remember; masturbate, masturbate, masturbate (both of
you).