a masturbator asked
Ive just been looking through some webteases and things alike and have
come accross the terms of getting to edge (which i know) but then comes
the bit of staying on edge for a minute, i have no idea how to do that.
I can get to the edge feel the sensation of cuming but either i have to
stop and start again towards edging and stop etc or explode, Is it
possible to maintain the sensation of just about to cum and hold it ?
Anyone ever heard or tried or even better still know how to stay on
edge ?
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a masturbator replied:
it is possible to maintain the sensation of
ecstasy that you feel just before the orgasm hits but
it takes practice, practice and more practice. I am in
no way an expert but I do it as often as I can because
it really is where the real pleasure of masturbation
lies, or at least I think so. How to tell someone to
do it is another thing altogether. You just have to
easily be able to identify the point of no return for
you and stay just under that point. Many claim they
can stay there as long as they care to but I’ve never
been able to for a great period of time. With me it’s
a process of building up to that point, maintaining
that heightened sense of pleasure until you know any
further stimulation is going to bring on your orgasm
and then backing down slightly, then building up to
that point again and again. Of course ever time you
come close to cumming you intensify your orgasm.
That’s what I call edging. You can almost faint the
pleasure is so intense after a lengthy edging
session.Some would have a different idea. I find it
easier to do when you’re masturbating with another
person than by yourself. I usually edge for an hour or
so then the desire to cum is so overpowering that I
have to bring on my orgasm. When you are experiencing
the level of pleasure that I’m talking about it’s as
though you are truly having an out of body experience,
like you are not even here but kind of a floating
feeling, you’re in another plane, on another planet.
Anyone could walk in on you and there’s no way you
could stop because the pleasure is so intense. It
truly is the "art" of masturbation when you take
yourself to this level. I’m sure there are others in
the group that are much more adept at edging than I.
Any comments from them??
Pistol, thanks for the comment.
I also use your technique of stroking hard to get up the slope of orgasm then slowing down and loosening the grip, but not stopping all stimulation. I can hold the plateau for several minutes that way, going nearly insane with the intensity of pleasure.
Good luck in your edging sessions and I hope you get more time for them.
Hi,
In the past I have always used the stop start method, but more recently I have been trying a different technique so that I push myself to the edge by stroking quickly with a firm grip, then when I feel that I’m just about on the edge I don’t stop but I just slow my stroke right down and I loosen my grip so that it is extremely light.
This way I can continue stroking and my cock seems to stay right on the edge and is straining to cum, but I’m just not quite giving it enough stimulation to go over the edge. Sometimes you might find that youare stroking too slowly or your grip is too light and your cock starts to come down a bit from the edge, but then you just tighten your grip and speed up for a few seconds and you’re right back on the edge. The feeling is wonderful, it almost feels like little fireworks are going off inside your cock and your cock is going crazy trying to cum.
You need to practice to find just the right speed and the right grip intensity, which can vary depending on how horny you are. I have yet to find out how long I can keep riding right on the edge using this technique as I am married and I can only have long edging sessions when my wife is away (which won’t be until July). At the moment I have short 10 to 15 minute edging sessions without cumming, in the toilet at work and at home and find I can stay right on the edge for the whole time.
Can’t wait till July, I think I might go crazy if I do this for an hour or two. Aren’t cocks wonderful!!