Masturbation Support Hotline

101423626_7cd77258c0_oAre you addicted to masturbation? Or suspect you may be? Is masturbation becoming the most important thing in your life? Are you spending more and more time masturbating, but it’s still not enough? Are you concerned about the habit interfering with your work and relationships, even while you freely indulge it? Does the thought that you may be losing control excite you to masturbate even more?

Masturbation addiction is a sensitive, private subject for most of us. It is hard to find others who understand our needs, and won’t judge or criticize our choices. But you are not alone. Join with other chronic masturbators who share your feelings and experiences, and speak openly about your masturbation addiction

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(You must be at least 21 years of age to participate in the Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline)

The Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline FAQ

In this page:

  • What is the Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline?
  • Why do we need support as masturbators?
  • What can you expect in a support conference?
  • Is it just another phone-sex line?
  • How does it work? — Group Conference
  • Does it cost anything? Do I need to sign up? Is it anonymous?
  • How does it work? — Private Conference (Personal PenisPhone)
  • Are webcams available for viewing?
  • The Open Zipper Project
  • How can you receive notifications when it is open?

What is the Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline?

The Masturbation Addiction Support hotline is an ongoing series of telephone conferences by and for chronic masturbators. The hotline gives you the opportunity to talk frankly and confidentially with other people living with  chronic masturbation addiction.  We talk freely about the pleasures and challenges of being addicted masturbators, giving each other mutual support and understanding. The line is open to all genders and sexual orientations. We may be male, female, straight, bi, or gay — but we all share addiction to masturbation.

Why do masturbators need support?

Like you I am a chronic masturbator. I know the incomparable ecstasy of hours spent slowly caressing my own genitals. I also understand what it is for masturbation to take over and dominate your life, as it has mine. I know the personal cost that chronic masturbation can take on your career, relationships, and personal growth. Many masturbators experience conflict, shame, and guilt over the time and resources they spend masturbating, and yet do not wish to change. I believe in supporting a masturbator’s choice, whether it is to embrace the habit or to struggle to control it.

I also share your strong need to talk about the experience, to compare the habit with other masturbators, and to seek support. Masturbation is such an important part of our lives, but also such a private and taboo subject. It is very difficult to find someone who understands and with whom you can talk about it. Only another chronic masturbator can really understand how it feels to be addicted.

I started the Masturbation Addiction Hotline because I seek the opportunity to talk frankly and confidentially with other people living with chronic masturbation addiction. I hope you will join me to share your experiences.

What can you expect in a support conference?

Sometimes the conversations are 1-to-1 with me, and sometimes between a small group of fellow masturbators. Who and how many participate depends on the scheduling and who is available to take part. We talk freely about the pleasures and challenges of being addicted masturbators, giving each other mutual support and understanding.

Please understand that the support line is not a substitute for professional counseling or therapy. I am not a professional counselor and have no training or qualifications in counseling. In fact, I suffer from masturbation addiction myself. If you are seriously concerned about controlling masturbation addiction, you should seek professional help. In fact, listening to other non-recovering masturbation addicts could be harmful, leading you into deeper dependency on the habit. But if you you need to reach out and share with other masturbators, then join us. I need support as much as you do. I hope together we can help each other live more fully with masturbation addiction.

Is this just another Phone-Sex Line?

It is important to understand this is not a “phonesex” party line. We don’t encourage you to participate if all you wish to do is find other people to masturbate with.  The purpose is to focus on masturbation addiction and the impact it has on our lives. But some participants do become aroused talking about masturbation and some may even chose to masturbate while we talk. If this happens to you, we encourage you to vocally share your arousal with the group, and openly orgasm while we listen. You will find a sympathetic and supportive response to your sincere masturbatory expressions.

How does it work? — Group Conference

I try to hold a regularly scheduled open hotline on Sundays, 12.00 noon to 2.00 PM US Central time (GMT-6).  Announcements of times and contact numbers/access codes are posted on the blog. I use an Internet teleconference service both to protect our privacy and also to allow small groups of masturbators to share together. When you dial in, an automated attendant will ask if you want to join a conference; enter the access code followed by “#” and you will be connected to the conference.

We encourage you to introduce yourself right away, but you may just “lurk” and listen if you are shy. Feel free to speak up and be frank and graphic about your masturbation experiences. Many of us will be naked and masturbating while we talk, and you may want to do the same. Note that Group Conferences are open to all adult masturbators, but I limit the number of simultaneous active participants for the sake of quality experience. I generally allow up to 4 or 5 active speakers (and as many lurkers as can sneak in) to join, then close the conference to new callers. When active speakers drop out, I re-open the conference. If you call the conference number and can’t get in, try calling back a few minutes later.

The conferences begin as normal discussions but become increasingly incoherent as the participants become more sexually aroused. If you want to talk about something, it is best to call in at the start of the conference before things degenerate.

Does it cost anything? Do I need to sign up? Is it anonymous?

Calling in is confidential and free, except for your usual long distance charges to the teleconference service (a phone number in central United States). There are no hidden charges or bills to your phone number. Your phone number is not visible to me or any member of the conference; your call is anonymous, and no one will know what number you are calling from. Refer to www.FreeConference.com if you want to know more about the teleconference service we use. You don’t need to register with the FreeConference service to participate in a call. Just call the contact number and join in.

How does it work? — Private Conference (the Personal PenisPhone)

The Masturbation Support Hotline promotes communal group discussions among chronic masturbators. But I also need personal and private on-to-one masturbation support discussions with individual adult male masturbators (and ladies interested in male masturbation). I call it my Personal PenisPhone. It’s a way to let our penises talk directly to each other, expressing openly what is on their minds. And of course it is good for ladies who wish to guide me through a masturbation experience.

The Personal PenisPhone is good if you want to explore a topic unique to your personal situation, or if you are too shy or ashamed of your masturbation habit to speak up at a group conference. My personal interests are our personal experiences with chronic masturbation addiction, especially our issues of helplessness, lack of self-control and over-indulgence. And the resulting shame, guilt, or embarrassment we suffer as chronic masturbators. Also I enjoy talking with other male “pussybator” masturbators who desperately crave pussy fucking even as we waste our sperm in our own hands. If you are a lady, I welcome your call to satisfy your curiosity or express your opinion of masturbation addiction.

See Personal PenisPhone for details.

Are webcams available for viewing?

The emphasis is on telephone sharing, and you certainly don’t need a webcam to participate. But some participants, including me, may optionally wish to share webcam views. Be prepared to see images of males openly masturbating on camera. You will have to contact them directly. There is no group directory of cams. You can find my webcam info on my Contact page.

The Open Zipper Project

Along with the Personal Penis Phone and the Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline, I am collecting the oral histories of chronic masturbators. If you would like to contribute your personal experiences with chronic masturbation and possibly help others understand their own needs better, please see The Open Zipper Project.

How can you receive notifications about the Hotline?

Sign up for Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline News

Sign up for the Yahoo mailing list Onania Support Hotline News. Members of this list will receive email notifications of Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline events, opportunities for personal one-on-one masturbation addiction support on the Personal PenisPhone and webcam sessions, and the Open Zipper Project. Join with other chronic masturbators who share your feelings and experiences, and speak openly about your masturbation addiction. All events are free.

It is a one-way announcement list with no discussion. The volume of mail is small, usually a couple of messages a week. To register

During the conference check my twitter feed for conference status.