New Mexico Daily Lobo :: Masturbation key to self-knowledge

In this column, I’m going to discuss mutual masturbation. I know for many women even solo masturbation is unknown territory. If that’s the case, I would recommend trying it alone before you try mutual masturbation.

Masturbating with a partner can take several different forms. You could masturbate while your partner does the same, so there is less pressure on one person, or if you like the pressure, you can pleasure yourself while your partner watches, or vice versa. You can do regular foreplay such as kissing and fondling, too.

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Cervical Stimulation Can Be Magical – Here’s How to Make It Part of Masturbation

When I was 25 I had to have a LEEP, a medical procedure that removes abnormal cells from the cervix that may become cancerous later in life. After the procedure, I lost orgasmic pleasure, and realized that my cervix had been involved in my orgasm without me being consciously aware of it.

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All the puzzling things that happen to your body when you masturbate, explained by science

Cast your mind back to the last time you cracked one out, knocked one off, rubbed one out, masturbated — whatever you call it. You may well have noticed a few rather curious physiological responses that occurred in addition to your own personal pleasure party.

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Ask A Monk: Pornography and Masturbation (and Addiction in General) – YouTube

“Hello Yuttadhammo, my question is, Through meditation, could I learn to control my mind in a way that would enable me to destroy an addiction, or addictive tendencies? I’m addicted to pornography and masturbation. It’s ruining my life, can you help?

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The Masturbation Quiz

If you’re like most people, you probably “learned” to masturbate by leaning into what feels good. But it’s also easy to get stuck in old habits and forget to learn and explore. May is Masturbation Month and in celebration of self-pleasure, we’ve put together a quiz that covers sexual anatomy and provides some tips on how to use it to your advantage. The more you know, the better you’ll be able to do you!

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Introducing Gooning: Portrait of a Masturbator | TheBatorBlog

My latent but now obvious realization was that masturbation was not a peripheral part of my sexuality, but central to it. However, in our culture, masturbation has never been afforded equal respect to partnered, penetrative sex. Though most informed people would consider masturbation healthy, they might renege on that if one dared to claim that masturbation was THE preferred sexual activity.

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The Dawn of the Solosexual

If you ask any open-minded, educated person about masturbation, they will most likely smile and say it’s wonderful, healthy and normal. However, if you told them that masturbation was your favorite sexual outlet or even your only sexual outlet, that smiling face might turn into one of concern or confusion. Surely masturbation can’t be a substitute for sex, right?

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My boyfriend has difficulty climaxing. Is it because he masturbates too much? | Life and style | The Guardian

My boyfriend has difficulty climaxing. Is it because he masturbates too much? He says he used to masturbate very regularly and believes he has become desensitised. The situation is taking its toll on him and I would dearly like to do something to help

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Sexual Power for Women

Sexual Power for Women  by Georgeann Cross is well written and fascinating essays on women’s sexual power over males, especially through masturbatory control of the penis. The hosting website is http://francescaspizza.com/ Here is a sample:

The first time Francesca let go of Roy’s cock as he started to come, she teased him about the show he was going to give her. “What I get to see!” It was a good tease, but it would have been even better if it had come a few seconds earlier.  The way it actually went, she started speaking as Roy’s muscles relaxed in preparation for the first spurt.  She waited that long because she wasn’t sure she could recognize the onset of ejaculatory inevitability and because she didn’t yet understand how much more intense Roy’s experience would be if she spoke sooner. By removing her hand and saying the same thing just as his cock reached maximum stiffness, she would have catapulted him suddenly into a trip very much like Patrick’s.  Faced with the prospect of having to ejaculate with nothing holding his cock, he would have made a desperate attempt to regain control.  It would have been impossible, and he would have had several very long seconds in which to experience the conflict between his egoistic compulsion to save himself from embarrassment and his physical need to ejaculate.  During that time, he would have been acutely aware that his cock was sticking up, not just in a normal state of erection but obscenely, and that if he relaxed the muscles that held it that way, even for a moment, they’d immediately contract again and his cock would bounce back up and spurt.  Not only that, but he would have felt Francesca in there with him the whole time, fully aware of what he was going through and intending every bit of it.

Sexual Power for Women, Chapter 11