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We who seek out masturbation blogs know how often they come and go. It’s a shame, because excellent personal essays, insights, histories, or fantasies from chronic masturbators are lost, or never seen widely.  If you are a thoughtful masturbator and would like a permanent place with high readership for your masturbator writings, Onania . Org/asm invites you to become a Contributing Masturbator. We seek masturbators of all genders and sexual orientations, and ladies who support and guide male masturbators.

Articles may feature:

  • Personal masturbation histories 
  • Masturbation fiction or fantasies
  • Essays on topics of interest to fellow masturbators
  • Reviews of devices, toys, products, services
  • Philosophical or theoretical discussions of masturbation addiction
  • Impact of chronic masturbation on life, relationships, outlook
  • Masturbation appearing in current news and events
  • Female perspectives on male masturbation
  • Just about any thoughtful writings for people living with chronic masturbation addiction

If you offer infrequent submissions, you can simply email them to us to post on your behalf. If you are a prolific contributor, we will provide you with an Onania author ID for your submissions. Anything you contribute remains your property, and we will give credit and/or links to your own sites. 

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Jay Mayo: when I discovered that I was Pathetic

when I discovered that I was Pathetic

by Jay Mayo

I would like to post this short story, if it’s okay, for your” when I discovered that I was Pathetic”, section of your site.  I am so hard just typing this, I am pathetic….
 
I’ve masturbated regularly for most of my life.  However, it was not until this past year that I determined that I was indeed pathetic.

My quest to fulfill my sexual desires as a result of being in a sexless marriage led me to the realization that I enjoyed to masturbate.  Being that I had masturbated my entire life, I guess that I already knew that, and now masturbation had replaced sexual contact with other beings, and became my primary and only sexual outlet.

I found with the help of the internet, site’s just like this one.   I’ve been from cover to cover on the Onania. org site.  I was viewing it, as a movie goer might.  I was detached, watching, listening, and reading about other’s that had this “addiction”.  Others that were unable to control their habits.  I thought them to be weak, they were pathetic.

Then one day, about a year ago, I realized, hey maybe I’m pathetic.  It’s not just them, it’s just not others, I was an addicted masturbator.  I was an edger, I was the daily stroker. I was calling in on masturbation hot lines, I was on chaterbate.  I love to masturbate, I love to edge my penis. At first it was humiliating, me an addicted masturbator, like those others.  Oh but I found the humiliation, aroused me, made my penis go very hard.  I became very ripe.

It’s better now, knowing what I am.  Accepting my fate.  I am pathetic masturbator. 

— Jay Mayo

In Love with Kate Moss: Caught Masturbating by Denise

Caught Masturbating by Denise

BY IN LOVE WITH KATE MOSS

I only consider myself an exhibitionist as far as I like to be seen by people who might be into exhibitionism and voyeurism. I try and respect the comfort zones of those who might not want to unexpectedly see a naked person engaged in solo-lovemaking.

Still, I masturbate often enough and in enough places that sometimes I get caught. And I’ve found that most of the time, the reaction of those doing the catching has not been negative.   Continue reading

Earl Flen: Thoughts on Married Masturbation

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:


Thoughts on Married Masturbation

BY EARL FLEN

Why do us married guys masturbate? Can’t we just fuck our wives? (We don’t really have any excuse for jacking off) Does wifey know you masturbate? Does wifey know how MUCH you masturbate? Uhh … does wifey masturbate?

Listen, first of all fucking is not just about pussy. Fucking is a partnership thing. Most husbands are more concerned with giving her what she needs than with just getting some pussy. For most of us it’s about her and about both of us. Fortunately she usually feels the same way about us, and that makes it work out just fine. Wifey makes sure we cum in her pussy and get the whole 9 yards of fucking. Most husbands, most wives. Partnership. Sure, there are some other relationships. Ask somebody else about that. Not us normal run-of-the-mill husbands.

Masturbating is different. Continue reading

Onania Masturbator Forum: addiction to masturbation

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:


I want to share the things that are going thru my mind as my addiction to masturbation continues to grow. First, every waking moment that my mind is not occupied with a task, of some kind, I am thinking about masturbating my cock. Porn is no longer always required, don’t get me wrong, I enjoy porn, it’s a fuel, but it’s not always required. My mind goes right to my addiction, so chronic that I want to share it with other masturbators. I don’t need to touch myself every time, heck I’m rock hard just writing about my addiction to touching myself. I can’t clear these thoughts from my head. I was told this could happen, and I never imagined it would continue to this level. I feel so helpless, and this arouses me more. I am touching myself now, I want the feeling all the time. Stroking gives me the feeling, the feeling requires the stroking, stroking gives me the feeling, the feeling requires the stroking……………jay mayo


 

For more like this, join the Onania Masturbator Forum,  a supportive, affirming community of people living with chronic addiction to masturbation. The focus is on our lives as addicted masturbators, and the pleasures / conflicts / impacts related to our compelling habit.

In Love with Kate Moss: A Masturbation Anniversary of Sorts

A Masturbation Anniversary of Sorts

By In Love with Kate Moss

This week mark’s a masturbation anniversary of sorts for me.

It was 20 years ago this week that I met one of my favorite BFF’s: “Elizabeth”. Not only is Liz one of my best friends, she’s my number-one masturbation muse. I probably masturbate to her more than any other woman, and after 20 years the masturbation is just as good as when it started.

I don’t think it’s good for me to post a picture of her here, but I will give you a description and explain how I’ve come to call her “Liz” (Or Elizabeth) on these pages. She looks very much like rock star Liz Phair. Same kind of chestnut-blonde hair, similar frame. both Liz Phair and “my” Liz have nice legs and sexy feet, firm breasts, cute asses, and nice smiles. My Liz is about two inches taller than the 5’2″ Ms. Phair. both ladies have nice shoulders, and look oh-so-good in tank tops!

I sometimes masturbate to pics of Liz Phair, but often end up thinking of my Elizabeth instead. Then, I have to find pictures of MY Liz to wank to! And it always feels so good.    Continue reading

The Penis Monologue.

From a random search

The Penis Monologue.
I did not always know I had a penis. I’m not sure if I was told I had a penis. As a little boy, it was referred to as a “pee pee”. Other times, the region was vaguely referred to as my “private parts”. I understood that boys had penises and girls had – well, all I knew was that girls did not have penises. I was never told that girls have vulvas, let alone a vagina, a clitoris, and a urethra of their very own.
I was never told I had testicles, let alone that they were the reason I was male. I was vaguely aware of this sac underneath my little penis. I naively reasoned that this was where urine was stored. I was never told I had a bladder. I otherwise did not give urination much thought.
Once when I was little, my ‘pee pee’ hurt. So I went to my mother. It did not occur to me to even consider asking my dad. In fact, I disliked the idea, when it was suggested to me.
I was never told I was circumcised. I was never aware of my lack of a foreskin. I remember noting the color differential, and the ring of discoloration around my penis.
Occasionally I noted my penis lengthening slightly and becoming stiff. This puzzled me, yet I never thought of it as a bad thing. It never occurred to me that this was anything sexual. I was never told what an erection is.
I remember learning about wet dreams in school. So-called “nocturnal emissions”. Talk about taking a delightful experience as orgasm and turning it into something experienced while unconscious, and described in bland scientific terms, no less. … more at timmytm: The Penis Monologue.

Masturbator’s sanctum, An analysis of the functional anatomy of the male

An analysis of the functional anatomy of the male

A lot of people have incredible misconceptions about the inner working of their body, and this is particularly true when it comes to sex. Of course, one might easily argue that there’s no need to understand how sex works to insure the reproductive success of the species : after all, cats, dogs and rabbits, for instance, clearly don’t ponder on the subject for long, yet successfully clone themselves in multiple copies !

If it is true that left to our uncultured selves we would still be able to have kids, as educated selves our sexuality can unfold to become much more. In other words, misunderstanding our sexuality leads to an underutilization of our sexual abilities, but full awareness our anatomy helps in using it to good advantage.

This discussion will be centred on the penis and how it interacts with its environment. It is important to keep this in mind as I voluntarily simplified this environment to focus on the impact on the penis. This is not an attempt to belittle or disparage the rest of the sexual encounter. It simply is a choice of focal point… otherwise I’d end up writing a whole book !

MORE via Masturbator’s sanctum, An analysis of the functional anatomy of the male.

A masturbator wrote: Im a Masturbation Addict

a masturbator wrote: 

Hi guys i have just joined this group and thought id tell you abit

about myself, Im a Masturbation Addict i started Masturbating about
9yo i use to rub my penis on the sheets for hours, back in those days
id cum dry and loved the feeling and i guess it just went on from
there growing up i didn’t have many friends so my penis was my mate at
school id rub my penis on the netball pole pulling myself up and down
rubbing and rubbing till i would pop in my pants i could do this 12
times in a row…. wish i could do that now hehehe id just play every
time i was alone.  Continue reading