About Onania . Org/asm

Onania . Org/asm is a resource for people living with chronic masturbation addiction. It is owned by Richard Lovel and expresses his life-long fascination with masturbatory behavior — especially in its more chronic and compulsive manifestations.

How I fell in love with Gooning – Emma Lilly Official

Female Orgasm Denial This blog female-orgasm-denial is what sewed my initial downfall. It was full of stories of women being edged senseless and denied release, sometimes for days or weeks at a time. In my search for other blogs that explored similar themes I ran across many others that discussed male orgasm denial, which led me to discover gooning…. more: How I fell in love with Gooning – Emma Lilly Official

He’s out of control (again)

a masturbator is out of control:

I was off work yesterday and I’m off again today.  I have no self control at all anymore. I tell myself I’m not going to masturbate, but, I do. I immediately started masturbating within one minute of my wife leaving yesterday and couldn’t make myself stop for over 6 hours. I lost most of the day again and nothing got done. Here I am again naked at the computer masturbating. I have no self control and I’m powerless against this addiction.  I’m sure that I will masturbate in bed in the morning with or without my wife being present, unless I have to get up and get online and do it. She knows I do it online now, but, has never actually caught me by surprise. Sometimes I’ll tell her I’m going online to beat off and she leaves me alone to do my thing. I’m naked all the time now when I’m home and I have always slept naked. I’m completly impotent and can’t get hard for any kind of sex, but, when I wake up during the night and in the morning I’m always as hard as a rock. I like to play with myself when I’m hard like that. It never lasts long though soon I’m limp as a wet noodle. No matter what my wife does to me orally or manually no erection any more at all. Sometimes Viagra will work.

I just wanted to touch base with you before I get greasy and I’m down to onehanded typing.

Solosexual Dating – Emma Lilly Official

Does being solosexual mean being alone? I don’t think so. While there are many people who can’t imagine a relationship without sex I would say there are just as many in which it is not that big of a deal. In reality, 20% of relationships are sexless and up to 19% of men and 40% of women avoid sex at some point in their lives. While those numbers seem small they translate to millions of people; with the help of the internet dating as a solosexual is more possible now than ever. …. more Source: Solosexual Dating – Emma Lilly Official


A Guided Masturbation Story

Most of my attention, however, was usually riveted on her heart-stopping hourglass figure. Her hips swept out from her waist with large, full curves which rolled sensuously back and forth with every step. As if in musical counterpoint, her lush, Junoesque breasts accented these larger movements, swaying heavily beneath her knits, sweaters, and silk blouses. While I have always been a sucker for full women, I was mesmerized by Rachel’s ripe femininity. Needless to say, it wasn’t long before I began visiting the library more often to try more classical CDs and get Rachel’s advice on all things musical.

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My Masturbation Habits – Emma Lilly Official

Ever since then I have felt compelled to encourage and educate about masturbation- especially for women. For every thousand men/masculine people you meet that are proud masturbator’s you will find a small handful of female presenting people and even fewer cisgender women and trans men. My personal belief is that this is due to our societies tendency to shame women for their sexualities- even when they are completely normal. My hope is that more transmen and girls just like me will embrace their normal, natural need for masturbation and make their voices heard in our communities.

more: My Masturbation Habits – Emma Lilly Official

Grieving Boy and his Step Mother – Fetish – Literotica.com

Good story for masturbators:

A new and more powerful wave of humiliation flowed through my body. My penis was throbbing wildly under my shorts. Every time I tried to look away from her, she guided my eyes back to hers with her finger under my chin. I had to force myself to speak. And when I did, my voice cracked, “I, I, I am going to go play with myself again.”

Source: Grieving Boy and his Step Mother – Fetish – Literotica.com

Join the Onania Masturbatorium on Discord

The Onania Masturbatorium on Discord

The Onania Masturbatorium on Discord is a safe and friendly place for chronic masturbators like you. It is open to adult masturbators of all genders and sexual orientations. Our purpose is a supportive community for people who “identify” primarily or exclusively as masturbators. Our focus is on meaningful (and stimulating) communication among masturbators. The Onania Masturbatorium runs on the free interactive site Discord. You can access it with a browser or optionally download an app.

If you are already registered with Discord

If you already have a Discord user account and are familiar with Discord’s functions, you know it provides a reliable and interactive platform for text chat, voice and video chat, — both private and group sessions. Click to Join Onania Masturbatorium 

If you don’t have a Discord user ID

It works best to register and confirm your email address first, before joining Onania Masturbatorium.
  1. Register and create a free account by clicking https://discordapp.com/register
  2. Look for an email from Discord and confirm your email address before the next step.
  3. Click the Join link above to enter the server.
If you don’t know how to use Discord, the user interface can be confusing at first. Once you get used to it, you will love what it can do. Here is a YouTube tutorial to help you get started:

Male PMS (Pathetic Masturbator Syndrome)

Seeking Well-Written Articles by and for Chronic Addicted Masturbators

We who seek out masturbation blogs know how often they come and go. It’s a shame, because excellent personal essays, insights, histories, or fantasies from chronic masturbators are lost, or never seen widely.  If you are a thoughtful masturbator and would like a permanent place with high readership for your masturbator writings, Onania . Org/asm invites you to become a Contributing Masturbator. We seek masturbators of all genders and sexual orientations, and ladies who support and guide male masturbators.

Articles may feature:

  • Personal masturbation histories 
  • Masturbation fiction or fantasies
  • Essays on topics of interest to fellow masturbators
  • Reviews of devices, toys, products, services
  • Philosophical or theoretical discussions of masturbation addiction
  • Impact of chronic masturbation on life, relationships, outlook
  • Masturbation appearing in current news and events
  • Female perspectives on male masturbation
  • Just about any thoughtful writings for people living with chronic masturbation addiction

If you offer infrequent submissions, you can simply email them to us to post on your behalf. If you are a prolific contributor, we will provide you with an Onania author ID for your submissions. Anything you contribute remains your property, and we will give credit and/or links to your own sites. 

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