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Onania Masturbator Forum: Adventures in Masturbating: Aparment Dwelling

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

Ah, the rush, the thrill of stroking my hard cock out in the open, under the sky, and in the middle of the city! I wandered around the rooftop, jacking my throbbing dick and looking around. It was all too exciting and after only a few minutes I gave in to the urge and blasted my hot spunk onto the roof in a knee-buckling orgasm. It turned out once was not enough. I had barely collected my wits from that blinding climax when I felt myself getting hard again. My libido had been spun into overdrive by my rooftop wank and was ready for more. Again I took my tool in hand and some time later I spent another load on the roof.


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Onania Masturbator Forum: Developing Addiction

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

About a week or so ago I revealed my biggest fear to my wife. It is that she would prefer her huge black dildo over sex with me. If she had sex with other men, it’d be something I could compete with. Like I could argue, at least to myself, “I’m better than him because of this and that”. But with a dildo I can not compete. It’s bigger, harder, better shaped, always ready, never complains, and goes on as long as wanted.


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Onania Masturbator Forum: Confession of Masturbation

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

Guys! I Love your replies and especially that MASTURBATION is happening as some of you read my post. It makes me feel so naked! My pants are coming off as I can no longer resist. The many ways I masturbated as a teenager are coming to mind from endless pillow humping to putting my upended rock hard cock against my powerful stereo speakers while feeling up my firm ass! Oh how mother knew!! And the shame made me penis beating crazy! I made hands off orgasms all over the place and my mirror. My pillows and sheets were always stained with my cum and the times mother pulled down my pants to spank me, my pleasure would increase and I could not possibly stop my love pleasure sessions for hours every night. I was doing the up and down off and on and adoring my hardness. Panting and gasping became unstoppable with the beautiful agony of aching to cum but needing more and more sexual near orgasms as my penis pulsated and I fixated on total pleasure exhaustion. …


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Does masturbation make you impotent?

a masturbator worried:

  Are u serious???….your impotence is due to your habit of masturbation????…in that case we’re all due to become impotent soon????…..please say you’re joking or i miss understood u. I love to masturbate a lot, but i also love to fuck pussy and will really go crazy if i couldn’t penetrate pumpum again, so pleeeease clarify John cause I’m worried!!!.


other masturbators confirmed:

I think several other chronic masturbators here will also attest to this phenomenon. Some of us tend to grow more and more dependent on manual stimulation, to the point we can no longer penetrate a loving and willing partner. I call it “masturbatory impotence”.
In my case, I am now functionally impotent as far as sexual intercourse goes, due to excessive masturbation dependency. I have become so accustomed to the intense gratification I get in my own hand that the stimulation of intercourse is insufficient for me to maintain erections. I either fail to penetrate, or go limp after penetration.
I freely admit that there is a large psychological component to this, and it may never happen to you, or most other chronic masturbators. I simply find masturbation more exciting and rewarding; I have little difficulty staying erect for long solo masturbation sessions or for receiving handjobs. And if I lose erection temporarily during masturbation, there is no performance anxiety associated with it; I simply stroke a bit limp and the hard returns. But in sexual intercourse there is a performance anxiety that makes me more likely to loose erection and less likely to recover if lost. 
Age is a factor; when I was younger and more physically vigorous I could get it up for both intercourse and masturbation, usually in the same day. With age intercourse competency became increasingly marginal and then failed altogether. Interestingly, as a teenager I had so much performance anxiety I rarely erected the first time with a girl; it took a lot of “relationship” before I could copulate successfully. So perhaps the seeds of masturbatory impotence were there all along.
By the way, the performance anxiety also happens sometimes in masturbating on webcam or in my self-made masturbation videos. Somehow the mental effort of balancing the “audience expectations” with my own inner excitement can cost me an erection. I still love to webcam (and often with full erection), because of the exhibitionistic thrill.


I usually do not post..more of a lurker, but this topic speaks to me.  There is no doubt that
I have become a chronic masturbator, and have had difficulty with maintaining an erection. 
In my case I think that the root problem has at least two seperate causes.  First of all, I
have not had sex with my wife for about 4 years…the reasons are not important, however,
it has forced me to become dependent on my own hand (or someone’s hand) to bring me
satisfaction. I have noticed over the years that it takes more and more stimulation to reach
orgasm, particularly if I do a lot of edge playing (this is what I like best). Second, I have
had heart problems and am on four seperate medications, each of which has a libido side
effect.  Frankly it has been so long since I have been with anyone, I don’t know what would
happen…  Be very interested in sharing experiences with another mature male just to see!
Added to these problems, my penis has shrunk somewhat in size…both length and girth. 
Oh My.


LOVE IT! LOVE IT! LOVE IT! This latest thread is neat! Yes, I too
would have I/course performance problems! And how delicious it is!
I think folks know of my “masturbation fidelity” cherishings,
and “being limp” except for masturbation fits right in. I mean, a
wife can be confident that Hubby is faithful, because he can only
cumm by masturbation.
The fantasy part of it also is Wifey physically CRAVES orgasm, but
wants the utlimtate safe sex, and so wants a masturbation impotent
husband. Part of the fantasy, if one wants, is to have Wifey “so
big” down below that she is only satisfied with a bigg bigg toy!
What do others think? Also, what do some of the Ladies among us
think? Wouldn’t a husband or partner like WE be appealing?
Also, do we all agree that we need porn to “jump start” our limp


I think this is a very individual and as at least one post alluded to very likely at least (I qualify as I’m no doctor, either) partially psychological thing.  Many guys masturbate like crazy for their lives and do not become impotent.  However, I have seen medical evidence that infertility or lowered fertility is a likely result of constant orgasming for males – basically a life-long pursuit does “wear out” your reproductive capacity.  The only medical things I have read about masturbation and impotence have indicated no causal relationship, however those studies centered more around regular rather than extreme masturbatory habits.
Personally, I prefer masturbation to intercourse strongly, but I prefer sex with other to masturbation a substantial portion of the time, and I do have some pursuits that I pay attention to besides masturbation, so I am not nearly as extreme as some here, though I have gone through many a lost weekend and so forth.  That said, I have never had problems aside from isolated rare instances with being hard for intercourse.  However, I sometimes do cum far too quickly in intercourse OR if I keep going a while I occasionally lose it for a while and can’t stay hard inserted (but quickly will get hard again outside).  But that hasn’t seem affected by masturbation – in fact, it seems that the latter problem of staying hard has gone away over time as I’ve worked my penis so much it is much more capable of “behaving” as I desire, and the former problem of cumming too soon is not eliminated but rarer.  That said, my wife also has thankfully moved away from wanting intercourse much at
all, so I don’t have to do it much these days, and rarely want to.
And btw I’ll be masturbating most of this evening, starting as soon as I get rid of a guest :) around 6 PM-ish Pacific time, feel free to email or IM me, anyone, not sure when I’ll be on, but I will be occasionally and will be interested if anyone wants to talk, preferably but not necessarily females, I love to confess my sissy slut secrets and so on…sorry for the plug – but I’m in the mood.. ;)

Masturbated in front of a woman

a masturbator wrote:

In my 29+ years since I first brought myself to an orgasm, the amount
of times I have jacked off in front of another woman could be counted
on one hand with enough fingers left over to hold a cigarette and
maybe even my television remote control. :-)  And, to be honest, those
few times were not under the best of circumstances…that’s a long,
sad story I will avoid telling for now, especially since what I’m here
to write about is much more pleasing.
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On Finding OnaniaSupport

A masturbator wrote of his discovery of the OnaniaSupport group

well, even I can hardly describe my feelings. I started reading some of the most recent posts and could not believe my eyes! I went back to the beginning of the archives and kept reading and reading, all the while with the most erect cock I’ve had in ages but also with this incredibly warm feeling while seeing all of this utter openness and honesty about masturbation and pornography — things I had been longing to ask others in one way or another since I was five years old and never could.

Sure, there were many Yahoo Groups out there claiming to be about masturbation discussion, but nothing like this! Most of those other groups were nothing but places to arrange face-to-face meetings for stroke off sessions. OnaniaSupport…now THIS was a place where people were REALLY talking about masturbation! History, memories, techniques, likes, dislikes, gay, straight, bi, even females…all writing with nothing being held back. I was astonished, amazed, and highly aroused. I knew immediately that I had found a virtual home and that there was no way I could keep from jumping right into this group with both feet…well, maybe after cumming a few times because all of this sensory overload gave me some of the most intense orgasms that I had brought forth in years. ;-)

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Onania Masturbator Forum: Locked up and the key at home

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

As a Chronic compulsive Bator when ever I take road trips I usually jackoff a few times on the way. Either driving or at rest stops, side roads, fast food bathrooms etc. fellow Bators now what I mean! LOL.  Today however is a different game for me. After denying myself last night and this morning, I locked myself in my new Holy Trainer! It took me about twenty minutes to get it on my bator dick but I am all locked up for a 3 to 4 hour drive and over night stay! I’m leaving the  key at home so I can’t get out!  This the craziest thing I have ever done and I’m so excited. I might have to stop at the rest area and see if I can suck a hot trucker dick or two. I have never had the nerve to show anyone my dick locked up but I think it could be time to show off my bator dicklet on my knees servicing Real Men.  I’m so fucking Hot writing this I want to take it off and Jack off before I hit the road but I can’t and won’t . When I get home tomorrow night watchout This Bator is going to beat it like teenage boy with his first Playboy Mag!   Merry Christmas Fellow Bators  wish me luck! 


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Onania Masturbator Forum: My first pussy was dissapointing

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

 Damn that’s Hot!  My first piece of real pussy I was 14 and my Dad and his buddies set it up! Im had been Jacking off since I was about 7 8 years old and I masturbated that day in the shower. I  kinda knew what was up but I played along. Man that evening in the shower my dick was hard as a rock I played and jerked as always but wouldn’t let myself cum because I knew I was gonna get some Pussy! Man was I disappointed!  She wasn’t even tight! It was like fucking an loose pillow. I couldn’t keep it up and the night was a disaster! I Know she reported back to my Dad who set the whole thing up. And he never said anything but I think he knew that I preferred men or better yet my tight fist pussy! From that night on I was a dedicated Bator!  There was no web sites like this one back then So I didn’t even know that other guys liked to fuck their tight fist like I did. Over the years I have had relationships with other women but I have always hated f-cking pussy! Its not pretty its not sexy I would much rather Jackoff ! I LIKE TO WARM UP MY LUBE AND PLAY WITH MY BALLS My dick gets so hard and my balls tighten up when I wrap my fist around my hard dick! Shit IT FEELS Great!  I meant a guy I worked with when I was in my teens and he like to jackoff too. We beat it together a few times and then I started to jack him and well It wasn’t long before I had to taste that pretty dick! He was 19 and I 14 but he was so hot with a hard dick and when he started to cum I bent down and caught a sput on my tougue! Shit I was hooked I shot my load at the same time!. After that we would jack off together and he would let me suck him a bit. But he  really liked it when I would lick his balls when he jacked off and then just when he was ready to cum he would hold his dick up to my lips and cum!   Id open my mouth and lick his fist and dick head while he came in my mouth! He used to brag about the girls he took home but II think he was just a Wanker like me! Shit I love to beat off and I have a lot of  stories about jacking off!  My most recent thing is driving and jerking off!  Yeah I know its dangerous but I commute 1 1/2 hour everyday. Heres how it starts. In the morning I always have a hard dick! Like most guys!  LOL  Shit I I start jackin and getting it hard !   but then Istop and get dressed and this is the fun part! I let my hard little dick stick out of my fly and I walk out of my Apt and down to my car! (Its 530 am so Im the only one out at the time Its so hot )  My little dick is so hard when I get in my car! Once on the road I start jacking my dick!  Right now its Dark so I can get bold and so last week I pulled my pants all they down around my knees!  I was naked and Jackin off in my car at 60 mph! An on coming car put me over the edge and I came all over my belly and legs!   I had to stop a few miles down the road and clean up!  But Damn It was HOT 



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Onania Masturbator Forum: Humiliated by a Dildo

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

My wife has this giant dildo. It’s thicker than a beer can and some 40 cm (c. 18″) long. Black. She uses it occasionally, but not that often. Last time she used it was maybe ten days a go. We haven’t have sex for two months, as she’s been rejecting me, and now she decided to use it.


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Onania Masturbator Forum: did you learn masturbation with/from others (directly?)

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

They were the first ones to tell me it was normal to feel your cock get hard. Which was good because I’d already been experiencing it but was afraid to talk about it. 
Anyhow there was some woods near the house also and we went there to a clearing that we knew about, and we would all sit around on rocks and stuff and drop our pants, sisters and brothers, and watch each other as we fondled ourselves. The girls told us it felt really good too.


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