Great news for chronic masturbators: it makes you smarter, not stupid.
Here’s a question to ponder: If sex makes you smarter via changes in synaptic strength following the act, can you get the same benefit from virtual sex, as long as your brain is convinced it is real at the time? I’ll discuss this idea in a bit, but first let’s look at the methods and the data from the actual study.
via Sex Makes You Smarter- Can ‘Virtual Sex’ Do The Same?.
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Through long and painful experience, we came to realize that we were powerless over our sexual thoughts and behaviors and that our preoccupation with sex was causing progressively severe adverse consequences for us, our families, and our friends. Despite many failed promises to ourselves and attempts to change, we discovered that we were unable to stop acting out sexually by ourselves.
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by Guest.Masturbator » Tue Jun 03, 2014 8:51 am
Hi all, last night I had the most pathetic sex ever with my wife since we married 3 years ago. It was Valentine’s day and I decided to make it up for my young lovely wife. Sad thing (and probably foreseeable) was I had been binge masturbating for over a week (at least three times a day locking myself jerking to porn etc, either ejaculate or edge). Only two minute into pumping wife’s hole (which was extra tight since our last proper sex nearly two weeks ago), I went limp right away……My wife was rather surprised as all our previous sex last for a good half an hour at least. I said it was due to work stress, however, I know what caused this…
Now wife’s away again shopping, and like all other weekends I’m locking myself in the bedroom going through tons of porn and jacking brainlessly… I’m struggling since I don’t want to disappoint my wife any more, but I can’t stop my addiction either….
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a masturbator recalls:
Several of you have questioned my early masturbation habits. Just
like with my current depravity, it makes me feel so dirty and
shameless to reveal all of my nasty secrets.
I can remember pleasant feelings in my genitals from my earliest
age. However, my earliest clear memory of masturbation was when I
was 6 years old. I was sick and at my grandmothers house in her
bed. She had these sleazy tabloid newspapers that had pictures of
women in skimpy bikinis. I remember that I had cut one of these
pictures out of the magazine. My little penis was so hard and I was
dragging the paper hand of the cutout photograph up and down the
underside of my penis. I guess I was so into the sensation that I
didn't notice when my grandmother walked into the room. She scolded
me for being such a nasty boy. I felt so dirty. But, she was
right ... I was a dirty boy … and I loved it.
According to police, the suspect drove a pickup truck all over Vancouver and approached teen girls and young women on the sidewalk. The man would pull over and attempt to engage the women and girls in conversation, while also trying to draw attention to the fact that he was masturbating behind the wheel.
Source: Police Ask Victims of Public Masturbation Spree to Come Forward – VICE
a masturbator said:
I once had a Mistress who would tie my balls and cock with ribbon. Mistress would use a color that would contrast and show through the almost transparent panties she would put me in.
If I pleased her and her guest, sometimes female, sometimes male, She would allow me to fuck myself in the ass with a vibrator and masturbate. The way she tied them up caused my balls to bounce with each stroke and as it was tied rather tightly, the veins in my coc would buldge a lot more than when it was not tied. I found that it was rather difficult to ejaculate when tied that tight, but when I finally did, the volumn was 3x the normal amount and very intense.
Occationally when I mastutbate, I now use a lace from one of my boots to replicate the way She would tie me.
I highly recomend it to anyone who has not tried it. It is not painful, and inhances the experience.
One not of caution, you can not do this everytime, and you can not leave yourself tied for too long as the blood flow restriction could cause you damage. From what I have been able to find on the subject, the longest you should stay tied is 30 minutes.
refers to a form of behaviour where you obsessively fantasise about a person you have just started dating or been on just one date with. According to the authors, Jordana Abraham, Samantha Fishbein and Aleen Kuperman, otherwise known as ‘The Betches’, it appears differently in men and women. While men are likely to do this at the beginning of your romance, it’s more about having sex with you – as opposed to women, who it’s said will fantasise about everything from marriage to babies.
Source: What is ’emotional masturbation’ and are you doing it? | Metro News
‘So I pulled out my dick and started playing with it. ‘I was worried someone might come in, so I kept pausing and listening for odd sounds. Maybe the drugs were making me paranoid. However, it made quite a mess and I cleaned it up just in time (moments before the nurse came in to check on me).
Source: Is it OK to masturbate while in hospital? | Metro News
That said, it’s entirely possible that some solosexuals and pornosexuals are “born that way.” If so, we need to accept that, acknowledge it, and maybe even celebrate it. Even if we don’t exactly understand it. Who am I to question a person who self-identifies as solosexual or pornosexual? If a person is naturally and innately happier with solo sexual behaviors, that’s OK by me, as long as that person is not completely isolated in life and bereft of support—because study after study shows that we do better
Source: Solosexuality and Pornosexuality: Learned or Innate? | Psychology Today
Masturbation causes 5 things. Physically it reduces the volume of the ejaculate and eventually the sperm count on a temporary basis. Not so good for the infertile don’t you think? Psychologically, psychiatrists will tell you that there is a compulsive (junior brother to addiction) component to masturbation the practitioner simply gets so engrossed in it he cannot really stop himself or control himself anymore. He is driven compelled; even forced to do it even when his interests are not best served by masturbation. That is why at times married masturbators leave their spouses and still go about masturbating – after marriage! That’s a third complication – both physical and emotional – of masturbation.A fourth complication is the feeling of low self worth or esteem the masturbator suffers.
Source: Masturbation and premature ejaculation