I’m just a freakingly lucky guy I guess, I’ve been touching
myself “inappropriately” and way, way to much and often since I was
eleven, and it seems the beat-off-gods have approved and blessed me
and my habit mightily!
Well, here’s what I’m talking about, just about a year ago my friend
Kathleen at work tells me she’s having an affair with a married
man. Not only is the dude married, but he’s here from England, and
since he can’t stay with her he needs a place to crash for six-
months or so. I figure I could use the extra cash flow having a
roommate would provide, I meet the guy, Kenny, and he’s nice enough
quirky accent, a slightly rough but sexy exterior, and so I decide
it’s a “go”.

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My boyfriend is addicted to masterbating(masturbating)

from My boyfriend is addicted to masterbating(masturbating), what do i do- – Sexuality & Relationship


My boyfriend & i have been together for 2 years this June. Our sex life was fine at the beginning till this problem came to light & now its been a year since I’ve been coping with it. About a year ago i started noticing that oursex life was no longer the same. we went from having sex numerous times a week to 1-2 a week. We are both 24 years old by the way. I started to notice if i was to initiate it he would tell me he’s tired or not in the mood. So now i’m to the point where im about to leave him due to this. a couple of months ago my bf confesses to me that the reason we are not having sexas often is because he’s been masterbating (masturbating). my bf goes to the gym daily & takes protein along with another substance that gives him energy so he says that the moment he gets out of the gym he gets thisurge to have sex & since i am at work he opts for masterbation(masturbation) so when i see him later on in the evening he doesnt want to have sex since the job has already been done. this issue has affected me in numerous ways. my self esteem is low, i am insecure about myself & our relationship. he tells me that hes trying to control himself but that its real hard. how do i understand him? what can i do to help & is there even something that can be done to fix this issue? my bf kept this whole “im addicted to masterbating (masturbating)” secret from me for a long time & for a long time i would cry to him & tell him how neglected i feel & how this has affected my esteem & still he would masterbate rather than controlling himself in order to please me. i no longer know what to do i hope you can help.

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Peeping Tom

a masturbator wrote:

It was a dark night and I could clearly see into her window. The
curtains were open and a lamp on the table was on. The humidity was
thick and sweat dripped from my brow. I was hunched behind a bush
hoping no one could see me. I was wearing dark shorts and a dark
t-shirt. Even my sneakers were black. It was too hot for pants and
given my plans shorts were much more practical.
I heard a mosquito buzzing in my ear. I didn’t bother me. I’d been
bitten multiple times tonight and didn’t care. I could smell fresh
mulch at my feet. Her gardens must have been recently tended to. The
shrubs were trimmed and I was able to neatly fit between them. Up
close against the house my face was inches from the window screen. She
must not have had aircondtioning or liked the fresh air since her
window was open.

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15-year-old boy says parents put cameras in his bedroom to stop him masturbating | Daily Mail Online

Boy, 15, seeks legal advice after his parents set up cameras in his bedroom and bathroom to stop him masturbating The boy took to Reddit’s legal section to ask for help regarding the situation  Said his father barged in without knocking earlier this month and caught him  The boy said his parents are against sexual activities before marriage and wouldn’t even let him attend his school’s sexual education classes  He promised to never masturbate again, but found out they ordered indoor security cameras from Am

Source: 15-year-old boy says parents put cameras in his bedroom to stop him masturbating | Daily Mail Online

An Interview with Masturbatrix Magazine

The boy is then given the command to masturbate. Normally he is in a kneeling position on the floor in front of the girl, although sometimes he might be kneeling on a coffee table or other suitable piece of furniture. The kneeling position provides the best combination of safety (the boy is not in a threatening position) and visibility.

Source: An Interview with Masturbatrix Magazine

Onania Masturbator Forum: where you ever referred as a jerk off?

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

where you ever referred as a jerk off?

Post by Tieguy » Sat Apr 27, 2019 3:56 am

It was in middle school and I had just learned how to jerk-off, when I realized that what the older boys in the locker room at school were calling it Jacking off, jerking off, beating your meat, etc., exactly what I was doing when I shot my hot thick, white sperm all over some women in my jack-off magazine. I knew it was shameful to waste a male’s seed, but it felt so good, I soon had a huge collection of cum stained jack off magazines (and still do).

My freshman year in my private high school, I started dating a girl from public school. She love to let me heavy pet with her, as long as I kept my cock inside my nylon bikinis, which despite being frustrating, helped me justifying my wasting my seed on jack-off magazines, jerking off. During my senior year, my girl went to a party with her friends and gave one of the jocks from my school a hand-job. Finding out she cheated on me, I broke up with her, which she promptly started dating the jock. It his voice I hear, he was the first male to every call me a jerk-off, which he did on a regular basis, he even got his buddies to join in. I can still see him asking why I could not get a female to get my rocks , as he did an all too familiar up and down gesture with his fist calling me a jerk-off. He was also the first guy to make fun of my blue balls,too. it was very humiliating and a total turn on at the same time. i would want to run to the men’s room and beat my meat, and did.


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Why Straight Men Are Joining Masturbation Clubs – GQ

Most men who are willing to speak openly about experiences like this will do so with a certain measure of fondness, even nostalgia. “It’s a rite of passage and an essential part of the teenage male bonding ritual,” says Sean*, 31, who used to buddy bate with his friends when he was in his early teens. Sean came of age in the early aughts during the pre-Pornhub, post-Limewire era, when online porn was far less accessible than it is now, so he viewed communal masturbation more as a matter of convenience and less as a display of budding masculinity. But regardless of the impetus behind buddy bating, for some men, the urge to whip it out in front of your bros extends beyond adolescence, even though there are fewer options for them to dabble in that interest in adulthood.

Source: Why Straight Men Are Joining Masturbation Clubs – GQ

In Love with Kate Moss: End of Summer, and a Visit from Cherie

End of Summer, and a Visit from Cherie


Yesterday was the last full day of summer. As I write this, autumn begins around 10 o’clock tonight. There’s a coolness to the air today, and tonight some folks will turn the heat on.

Wearing a coat and paying the heating bill aren’t the only reasons to mourn summer’s end. Summer (and warm weather, in general) provides me with my best masturbation inspiration.

I’m really not a porn masturbator. Oh, I masturbate to porn often enough. It’s just that I’m not the kind of guy to watch Vivid films or subscribe to any of the “glossy” websites for my masturbating fuel. I get enough of that fuel from the ladies I see on an everyday basis who wear skimpy clothes and sandals or flip-flops.

My wife’s friend Cherie had to swing by my office this morning. She left her I-pad in my wife’s car, and picked it up from me. Chatting with Cherie in the lobby had my cock pulsing and straining to be made love to once I got back to my desk.  Continue reading

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