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Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline schedule

Posted by on November 30, 2008

Are you addicted to masturbation? Or suspect you may be? Is masturbation becoming the most important thing in your life? Are you spending more and more time masturbating, but it’s still not enough? Are you concerned about the habit interferring with your work and relationships, even while you freely indulge it? Does the thought that you may be losing control excite you to masturbate even more?

Masturbation addiction is a sensitive, private subject for most of us. It is hard to find others who understand our needs, and won’t judge or criticize our choices. But you are not alone. Join with other chronic masturbators who share your feelings and experiences, and speak openly about your masturbation addiction.

Call the confidential masturbator-to-masturbator Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline

Date:Sunday, November 30, 2008
Start Time:12:00 PM Central Std Time
End Time:02:55 PM Central Std Time
Dial-in Number:1-712-580-8020 (Midwest)
Access Code:35522

Check http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline for updates.

(Conferences are usually on Sunday around noon.)

Please understand this is not a “phonesex” party line. The purpose is to discuss masturbation addiction and the impact it has on our lives. But participants often do become aroused talking about masturbation and need to masturbate during the conference. If this happens to you, we encourage you to vocally share your arousal with the group, and openly orgasm while we listen. You will find a sympathetic and supportive response to your personal masturbatory expressions.

My Yahoo IM: onaniaorg
I am often on webcam at www.cam4.com/richardlovel

This is a completely non-commercial conference by and for people living with masturbation addiction. It is free (except for your normal long distance charges) and open to all masturbators over the age of 21. All sexual orientations and genders — males, females, straight/bi/gay/other — are welcome.  No minors, please!!! You should be prepared to hear adult masturbators talking freely about their experiences and masturbating openly as they do so. You are free to call in and “lurk” if you are shy, or speak up and join in.

See About theMasturbation Addiction Support Hotline
and http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline for more information.

 


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Two men say priest taught masturbation

Posted by on November 19, 2008

 pray for guidance, sinners:

Two men who say they were molested as teens by the Rev. Donald McGuire testified Friday that the now-defrocked priest convinced them that they were "addicted" to masturbation and needed to be "educated" on how to stop it.

The "education" included looking at sexually explicit magazines such as Playboy and Playgirl and watching X-rated films. …

Two men say priest taught masturbation :: CHICAGO SUN-TIMES :: Chicago Crime

10 dead giveaways

Posted by on November 15, 2008

The signs of chronic masturbation and porn addiction: 

SO you sense that something is not quite right in your relationship. He seems distracted and when it comes to sex, his requests have been getting stranger and stranger. Red alert, your man may be hooked on something and it sure ain’t you sweetheart!
Here are 10 ways you can be sure.

1 His hours on the Internet are out of whack. At one time, the Internet used to be essential for checking mails, doing some researching or catching up on the latest gossip. Now your man seems to be totally hooked on it. He wakes up to go to the bathroom and he has to "check in" before he comes back to bed. Something is keeping him there, and it’s not his emails.

2 His Playboy collection is huge. Buying one or two copies of Playboy is a nice little hobby, but obsessing with every issue and even buying similar magazines in that nature, is taking a joke much too far.

3 His obsession is beginning to affect your relationship. You can hardly get any TLC time in as he is too busy surfing porn sites to attend to your needs. No amount of complaints will budge him from off those sites.

4 Losing interest in activities. He used to be the life of the party and one who could be counted on to get the fun ball rolling. Now, all he wants is to be left alone. He needs ‘quiet time’ (in front of the computer) and seems really upset if you try to change his mind.

5 Strange sex requests. You’re thinking your man has totally lost his mind. Suddenly he wants to do things that are totally out of whack. Sure you are adventurous when it comes to sex, but there are some requests that are just too weird to even mention.

6 DVD collection. He is no longer interested in action movies…well not the gun kind anyway. His porn DVD collection is piling up and what’s worse, he doesn’t seem interested in getting anything else.

7 He’s moody and restless. These days he is totally restless, moody and it’s really hard to have a conversation with him. When you try to find out what’s wrong, he brushes your concerns aside and seems less inclined to talk.

8 Your sex life is beginning to suffer. Your sex life is practically non-existent and he doesn’t seem to mind! Honey, if he is not getting his needs taken care of by you, then there is something else that’s keeping him satisfied.

9 He’s into masturbation. He has suddenly taken up the habit of masturbation. Even when you want some real action, he wants to include that into you lovemaking session. Your man is a porn-goner.

10 Needs a lot of stimulation. It’s getting harder and harder for him to be aroused. He needs a vast amount of stimulation before he can be sexually aroused and even when you are putting your all into it, he seems more distracted than anything else.

10 dead giveaways your man’s - JAMAICAOBSERVER.COM

Anti masturbation device

Posted by on November 15, 2008

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EXTREMELY RARE ANTI MASTURBATION DEVICE DATING FROM c1880. THE COPPER SHAPED DEVICE WAS ATTACHED TO A BELT AND WORN BY BOYS AS A MEANS OF PREVENTING NOCTURNAL EMISSIONS. VERY MUCH AN INDICATION OF SOCIETIES VIEWS ON ONANISM IN THE 19TH CENTURY. THIS IS THE FIRST EXAMPLE WE HAVE OFFERED FOR SALE IN 24 YEARS. THE CONDITION IS EXCELLENT 3 ½ INCHES TOP TO BASE.

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The masturbator’s prayer

Posted by on November 13, 2008

 from Overcoming sexual lusts and lust spells « Save the World Prayer Blog

Every inherited demon of sexual perversion in my life, receive the arrows of fire and remain permanently bound, in the name of Jesus.

I command every power of sexual perversion to come against itself in the name of Jesus

Father Lord, let every demonic strong hold built in my life by the spirit of sexual perversion be pulled down, in the name of Jesus.

Let every power of sexual perversion that has consumed my life be shattered to pieces, in the name of Jesus.

Let my soul be delivered from the forces of sexual perversion, in the name of Jesus.

Let the Lord of God Elijah, arise with strong hand against every spirit wife / husband and all the powers of sexual perversion in the name of Jesus.

I break the hold of any evil power over my life in Jesus’ name. I nullify every effect of the bite of sexual perversion upon my life, in the name of Jesus.

I nullify every effect of the bite of sexual perversion upon my life in the name of Jesus

Don’t worry, be a wanker

Posted by on October 29, 2008

 Problems masturbators worry about:

I am a 15-year-old boy. I play football and I usually have a lot of stamina, but of late when I run the 400 metres, I get terribly tired. My friends attribute this loss of stamina to masturbating. Does masturbation decrease the level of stamina in my body? Please tell me because I need to have enough energy to play the 90 minutes that each game of football lasts.

Long-Distance Boy

? My boyfriend says he masturbates six times a month and that, as a result, he is now ejaculating much more quickly than he used to. Will this cause any problems during our married life? Will he be able to satisfy me? We have never had sex before so I am very nervous and worried about this.

On Behalf Of The Boyfriend

? I am a 20-year-old. Whenever I see some hot scenes (such as scenes featuring hot women in sexy poses and appearing nude) I become completely uncontrollable. I masturbate very often because of this. Is it right to masturbate so often? I have lot of goals that I want to achieve but this habit seems to be restricting me. Is this a good practice or are there any remedies for my problem?

High Achiever

? I want to share some stories about the wrong things I have been doing. I have been masturbating for about 10 years and I really enjoy it. However, I am looking to get married and I want to know whether my habit of masturbating will affect my sexual relationship with my partner.

Wondering About Masturbation and Marriage

? I am a 24-year-old man, and from the age of 15 I have had this habit of masturbating. I learned it from some bad friends. I have since realised that this is a very bad habit but I am sorry to say that I am unable to keep any of my resolutions and stop this habit. Is masturbating wrong? If so, then how do I stop myself? If it is not wrong, then why is my sperm count so much lower than it used to be before I started masturbating? With a low sperm count, will I be able to make my future wife happy and have children? Will my children have any birth defects? If I marry will my sperm count automatically increase, or should I consult a doctor and take medication for this?

Man With Low Sperm Count

answers at Express Buzz - Don’t worry, be a wanker

The lure of the Internet; porn addiction

Posted by on October 17, 2008

from The lure of the Internet; porn addiction and can there be found intimacy on line? « Synergetics

Pornography on the Internet.

Another way to search for intimacy is to create a fantasy world with pornography. It creates an unreal world that brings a person deeper and deeper into a dependency (NOT unlike drug and alcohol addiction!!!) that influences us throughout our development stages and that sets the tone for our further life. The problem is that an addiction is developed that forces us to find sexual relieve through masturbation and can (and often will) develop into compulsive sexual behavior / masturbation. Emotional and sexual needs are geared towards the encounter with “airbrushed models and porn stars and “nameless strangers” estranging us from our reality and our relationships. Torbjörn Fjellström who runs Sweden’s only state acknowledged clinic for”relationship abusers” (relationsmissbrukare) categorizes compulsive masturbation and Porn dependency as addiction!  …more The lure of the Internet; porn addiction and can there be found intimacy on line? « Synergetics

Reasons for Over Masturbation

Posted by on September 26, 2008

from Reasons for Over Masturbation 

In this article, we shall discuss masturbation issues in men. The penis is a highly sensitive organ, which can be aroused by a mere thought. But while masturbating, the man fondles the penis with various kinds of movements. The penis achieves an erection, and there is an ejaculation of the semen at the end of the session.

People all over the world are in a sort of debate as to what is the right frequency for a person to masturbate, i.e. what qualifies as over masturbation in men. Some men masturbate once a week, while some may go up to several times a week. There are also some men who claim they do not masturbate at all. Though there are vastly different trends in the frequency of masturbation, nothing can be said about the advantage or disadvantage of over masturbation.

Some experts maintain that over masturbation can lead to a person’s obsession about his own penis, which may interfere in the day-to-day life of the person. The person may become so much maniacal about masturbating that even in the midst of some work, the man may take a quick ‘toilet break’. This is a psychological behavior and therapy might be needed to cure it. Men obsessed with over masturbation could reject their social life just in order to be able to enjoy the pleasures of masturbating in private. In extreme cases, this could occur in marriages, leading to divorces.

Some men who are unhappy with their sexual life also resort to over masturbation as a way of relieving their sexual tensions. Over masturbation is also prevalent in boys who are just beginning to learn about their sexuality. Boys who grow up in a sheltered and introverted kind of family atmosphere might become more obsessed with their own genitals. Hence over masturbation could indicate a deep-rooted trauma in the past of the man, or some fault in the upbringing like overtly strict parents.

more at Reasons for Over Masturbation


MASTURBATION : Is it ok?

Posted by on September 25, 2008

 

Is masturbation ok?


“What does the Bible say about masturbation?”
is one of our most frequently asked questions. Many Christians have found it difficult to answer this question according to the Bible, because the Bible never mentions masturbation specifically. To understand how God feels about this subject, we must examine other verses that deal with issues such as lust, self-control and purity. Also, we must examine its fruit to see if it is from God. We have tried to address this issue by answering some of the most frequently asked questions. Our prayer is that God will use this page to bring freedom and deliverance.

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Kellog’s Plain facts for old and young

Posted by on September 05, 2008

Excerpts from John Harvey Kellogg, 1852-1943.. Plain facts for old and young : embracing the natural history and hygiene of organic life. Electronic Text Center, University of Virginia Library

Plain facts for old and young : embracing the natural history and hygiene of organic life.

From Chpt 9 SOLITARY VICE

If illicit commerce of the sexes is a heinous sin, self-pollution, or masturbation, is a crime doubly abominable. As a sin against nature, it has no parallel except in sodomy (see Gen. 19:5; Judges 19:22). It is the most dangerous of all sexual abuses because the most extensively practiced. The vice consists in an excitement of the genital organs produced otherwise than in the natural way. It is known by the terms, self-pollution, self-abuse, masturbation, onanism, manustupration, voluntary pollution, and solitary or secret vice. The vice is the more extensive because there are almost no bounds to its indulgence. Its frequent repetition fastens it upon the victim with a fascination almost irresistible! It may be begun in earliest infancy, and may continue through life. 

Even though no warning may have been given, the transgressor seems to know, instinctively, that he is committing a great wrong, for he carefully hides his practice from observation. In solitude he pollutes himself, and with his own hand blights all his prospects for both this world and the next. Even after being solemnly warned, he will often continue this worse than beastly practice, deliberately forfeiting his right to health and happiness for a moment’s mad sensuality.