Sean ruins himself  

Spent the last couple of days masturbating 2 hours in the mornings and 2-3 hours again in the afternoons. To keep myself worked up and horny, I will intentionally "ruin" my orgasm in the mornings by pulling my hand away just as I cum. Guys know how frustrating this can be. By the the late morning, I am horny and ready to go again, but wait until the late afternoon to masturbate. …

Sean’s Blog: Ruined Orgasm (10-10)

from Ruined orgasms as a coping mechanism? | tantalism.org

…I’m curious about the idea of ruined orgasms as a coping mechanism to achieve lengthy denial periods. ohxmy has been without orgasm for almost a year, but has also endured a number of ruined orgasms. And you sometimes read about males who are only allowed to relieve their buildup of fluids that way without ever being allowed to properly climax.

So is it better to have them occasionally, maddening and difficult as it might be to endure, in order to hold out a bit longer? Physically, it seems it could make indefinite denial a possibility without causing the sex drive to shut down entirely.

Could you consider it a form of cheating, or just a way of blowing off a bit of the pressure without sacrificing the delicious frustration? In the case of guys (and some women for that matter) is it preferable to pushing the envelope too far and having a wet dream?

Ruined orgasms as a coping mechanism? | tantalism.org

Here are some great hands-free orgasms by male masturbators. We should thank these gentlemen for sacrificing their full orgasms for our visual enjoyment.

Ultrashear seems to quite a specialist in hands-free releasess (see all his videos)

Bonermoran666 has several videos, and this one is a nice hands-free job (great sound, too):

A Pants-Down Podcasturbation

To “ruin an orgasm” (see Wikipedia) means masturbating to the point of ejaculatory inevitability (when you feel that you can’t stop the release) and then letting go the penis and denying it any further stimulation.  It is a useful alternative to orgasm denial: it permits the body to flush itself but frustrates the masturbator’s craving for full gratification.

A male can learn to ruin his own orgasm, though it requires great commitment at the point of release not to take hold and stroke. But it is much better experienced with a partner who masturbates the male and exerts control to ensure that his orgasm is fully and properly ruined. As such, it fits well into a BDSM scene or tease/denial life style.

In this Pants-Down Podcsturbation I discuss the technique and demonstrate with a ruined orgasm of my own. I hope that some partners of chronic masturbators listen and choose to give their naughty boys a surprising finish to the next hand job.

 Click to download or listen:  Agony of Ecstasy: the Ruined Orgasm[podcasturbation, 25 minutes, 5.9MB]

I make reference to several tease/denial and ruined handjob resources:

•  Rob and Jill have the best tease/denial material in my opinion. Jill may have been the originator of the term “ruined orgasm”.
• Maya’s Handjobs (see this preview) provides excellent mostly CFNM handjobs, often with a hands-off finish.
• Taylor St. Claire is a mistress of the tease/ruined handjob.

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