Are you addicted to masturbation? Or suspect you may be? Is masturbation becoming the most important thing in your life? Are you spending more and more time masturbating, but it’s still not enough? Are you concerned about the habit interferring with your work and relationships, even while you freely indulge it? Does the thought that you may be losing control excite you to masturbate even more?

Masturbation addiction is a sensitive, private subject for most of us. It is hard to find others who understand our needs, and won’t judge or criticize our choices. But you are not alone. Join with other chronic masturbators who share your feelings and experiences, and speak openly about your masturbation addiction.

Call the confidential masturbator-to-masturbator Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline

Date:Sunday, November 30, 2008
Start Time:12:00 PM Central Std Time
End Time:02:55 PM Central Std Time
Dial-in Number:1-712-580-8020 (Midwest)
Access Code:35522

Check http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline for updates.

(Conferences are usually on Sunday around noon.)

Please understand this is not a “phonesex” party line. The purpose is to discuss masturbation addiction and the impact it has on our lives. But participants often do become aroused talking about masturbation and need to masturbate during the conference. If this happens to you, we encourage you to vocally share your arousal with the group, and openly orgasm while we listen. You will find a sympathetic and supportive response to your personal masturbatory expressions.

My Yahoo IM: onaniaorg
I am often on webcam at www.cam4.com/richardlovel

• Remember to look for announcements and updates on regular conferences at
  http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline
• If you don’t know about the Hotline, read Masturbation Support Hotline
• I will email the most timely info to MasturbationHotline subscribers 

This is a completely non-commercial conference by and for people living with masturbation addiction. It is free (except for your normal long distance charges) and open to all masturbators over the age of 21. All sexual orientations and genders — males, females, straight/bi/gay/other — are welcome.  No minors, please!!! You should be prepared to hear adult masturbators talking freely about their experiences and masturbating openly as they do so. You are free to call in and “lurk” if you are shy, or speak up and join in.

See About theMasturbation Addiction Support Hotline
and http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline for more information.

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Nurse Svetlana sometimes sees a public health story that is so important that she needs to comment on it.

They did finally admit that the problem wasn’t that he was having sex all the time. No, it had to do with porn or masturbation.

So first of all, I would question whether the term used should even be “sex” addiction. I think there is a huge difference between having so much sex with people that it interferes with living your normal life and masturbating. Because, it is normal to masturbate sometimes.

They’re not going to give us numbers here, of course. But I wonder how often they think is too much. I know I occasionally hear a guy say he masturbates 4 times a day. Guys like that, if you ask them how much they would masturbate if they had nothing else to do, would say, all the time, but it would just be sitting around playing with their cock while watching porn. But is that too much?

There was one guy who said he might masturbate 50 times a day sometimes. He even claimed he would have sex that often. I don’t think he was addicted, I think he was delusional.

So how much is too much? When does a bad habit become elevated to an addiction, when somebody has enough money to pay for rehab? Does the doctor have a new boat now?

I think that most guys with nothing to do will end up masturbating a lot, anyway. Having a woman controlling their orgasms will lead to much more satisfaction for them.

Are you just a compulsive wanker, or are you a sex addict? Svetlana has all kinds of advice for you, much of it very bad. You know I would only ever be a positive influence in your life. A force for the good. You need to call me now.

David Duchovny, “sex addiction”, and you | Nurse Knows all about you

… But whether they are working in a packed call centre wearing headsets or from home wearing lingerie, phone-sex operators (or PSOs) are as diverse as the callers. I can definitely see the appeal of wanting to make money from talking dirty, like the Americans pictured here in Phillip Toledano’s compelling portraits. But these women (and men, some very successful PSOs have been boys with high-pitched voices!) have to do so much more: they have to morph into a role that is part therapist, part sexual surrogate. They also have to improvise and create multiple personae in order to play the submissive secretary, the naughty nurse, the adult baby, the porn star or the barely legal teen girl. …

Fantasy lines: The private lives of phone-sex operators - This Britain, UK - The Independent

The Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline  will resume in the future. There was a problem earlier that I thought would shut it down. There won’t be one this Sunday (31st) because I will be out of town, but I will try to hold one the following Sunday (Sep 7).  Read more below. And be sure to sign up for MasturbationHotline announcements; I will inform those subscribers in advance of posting the information elsewhere.

In an earlier post I wrote that I would have to shut down the Masturbation Addiction Hotline. I had been using Skype to access the teleconference system www.freeconference.com. They changed policy and shut out Skype users. The indications were that they were also shutting out cell phone users. I can’t call on a land line, so without Skype or cell phone I was out of luck. Turns out by testing I found cell phones still work. So I plan to continue the Hotlines on a more or less weekly basis as before. 

If they ever do shut out cell phones, then we will have to look for a free alternative. I strongly recommend people sign up for Skype, a free computer-based VOIP service. It is sort of like Yahoo Voice, but MUCH better. It supports conferences of up to 25 callers, so if we all use Skype we could do away with dependency on FreeConference.com

If you have Skype and want to add me to your contact list, it’s <richardlovel>. I’m not on very often, so we need to schedule a time to talk in advance through email. But if you see me on, feel free to connect. I would also prefer to use Skype for one-on-one Masturbator Support calls if we get the chance.

• Remember to look for announcements and updates on regular conferences at
  http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline
• If you don’t know about the Hotline, read Masturbation Support Hotline
• I will email the most timely info to MasturbationHotline subscribers
• I also have irregular one-on-one and small group sessions online and email notices of them to MyZipperIsDown subscribers

Onania . Org/asm presents several email lists for announcements of interest to masturbators. I encourage you to sign up for one or all of them. The lists are one-way from me to you (not discussion groups) for occasional announcements. The volume of messages will be very low (several per week at most). Your email address will be held in confidence and used for no other purpose.

See Onania . Org Mailing Lists to register or to unsubscribe from these lists

Just to let you know I am evaluating alternatives for continuing the Masturbation Addiction Hotline. I won’t have a conference for a couple of weeks due to personal conflicts, but they will return eventually.

Sorry to say that a policy change at FreeConference.com no longer allows Skype callers access to the service. Since the only way I can afford to host the conferences is through Skype, I won’t be holding open call-in hotlines in the future.

For those who would like to keep in touch with me, I can still call land lines or cell phones in the US, and land lines overseas. So we can chat one on one. I’ll probably take out a Skype-In number so you can call me if you prefer. (I used to have one but didn’t need it with FreeConference.)

I can also host multi-person phone conferences in Skype itself. I recommend you download and try Skype if you haven’t done so. It’s free and works extremely well. It is free for calling Skype to Skype user, as well as free conferences for up to 25 at a time.

If we can get enough people using Skype and occasionally calling in, maybe we can get the Masturbation Addiction Hotline restarted in Skype.

My Skype ID is richardlovel. Download Skype and give me a call. First though, email me or Yahoo IM me, because I don’t have Skype running all the time.

Conference Date:Sunday, August 17, 2008
Reservation Start Time:12:00 PM Central Daylight Time
Reservation End Time:04:10 PM Central Daylight Time

Total Calls:47
Peak number of active lines:9

See http://onania.org/asm/hotline for more information.

Conference Date: Sunday, August 10, 2008
Reservation Start Time: 12:00 PM Central Daylight Time
Reservation End Time: 03:25 PM Central Daylight Time

Total Calls: 36
Peak number of active lines: 14

Started off with a discussion of the addiction situation, then pretty quickly degenerated to moaning / groaning / orgasming masturbation.