A Pants-Down Podcasturbation
Do you use your penis for sex with a partner? Or is you penis your sex partner? If the latter, then you are a penis person.
Click to download or listen: Are You a Penis Person? [podcasturbation]
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a masturbator said:
I am aware that we cater to a wide variety of tastes on this list, but are
centered around masturbation itself, and our inability to stop ourselves. In
several of the posts, the addiction has begged the question of controlling
ones ejaculations. I just want to bring up the subject of cum control. The
most erotic stories to me, are those where either men or women are in control
of a man’s penis and his ability to ejaculate.
Last night I met with a young man in S. F., and we played out a scene in
which he was a recalcitrant college student who needed focus from his habit of
masturbating 5-7 times a day. I played the role of a doctor, and offered him
therapy in which his masturbation was turned over to me and I allowed him to
cum based on him "earning" the privilege. It was a great time. (Now I know
that for the exclusively straight guys, this may not interest you at all). I
also enjoy these scenes with dominant women, and stories that have men
turning over control of their cocks to their wives, babysitters, etc.
Anyway, I just thought this would expand the dimension of our discussions.
A Pants-Down Podcasturbation
More coaching for the edging masturbator. In this session we discuss your need to ejaculate and whether it is sufficient to justify a full satisfying release. My advice is to take nothing for granted.
Click to download or listen: Do you want to cum? How bad? [podcasturbation]
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Sean ruins himself
Spent the last couple of days masturbating 2 hours in the mornings and 2-3 hours again in the afternoons. To keep myself worked up and horny, I will intentionally "ruin" my orgasm in the mornings by pulling my hand away just as I cum. Guys know how frustrating this can be. By the the late morning, I am horny and ready to go again, but wait until the late afternoon to masturbate. …
Not exactly masturbation, but I found this hot:
… Then she would begin teasing. She knew me so well, she could stroke my cock right up the edge, the last, brilliant, desperate edge of orgasm, and then—stop. Stop, and leave me humping the dark air. Dressed by now, maybe, in some of the lingerie she had taken off. (Cross-dressing in general isn’t a big thing for me, but I must say I have very nice legs for stockings) Begging like a bitch in heat for any little touch, even just her trailing her tits over me, even just blowing hot breath on my cock. And she would shake her head no, and that would send another shock of desire pounding through me. This went on and on, through a hundred different variations. At first the feeling of agony, of frustration, would grow, becoming worse with every denial. But the desire grew as she played with me, grew until I hardly knew who I was or what I wanted, and there was just the desire, going on and on and on, complete in itself. …
watch the video
Susie Bright’s Journal : The Internal Clitoris— What a Woman’s Cock Really Looks Like
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Women’s anatomy education, on the other hand, has been a giant exercise in vacancy. Until recent times, we’ve been schooled that the clitoris— the female analog to the penis— is nothing more than the small glans one can see on the outside of the vulva. … Women have a big, big, clitoral body— but it’s nearly all on the inside, instead of the outdoor plumbing that’s viewed so easily on men. …
from Ruined orgasms as a coping mechanism? | tantalism.org
…I’m curious about the idea of ruined orgasms as a coping mechanism to achieve lengthy denial periods. ohxmy has been without orgasm for almost a year, but has also endured a number of ruined orgasms. And you sometimes read about males who are only allowed to relieve their buildup of fluids that way without ever being allowed to properly climax.
So is it better to have them occasionally, maddening and difficult as it might be to endure, in order to hold out a bit longer? Physically, it seems it could make indefinite denial a possibility without causing the sex drive to shut down entirely.
Could you consider it a form of cheating, or just a way of blowing off a bit of the pressure without sacrificing the delicious frustration? In the case of guys (and some women for that matter) is it preferable to pushing the envelope too far and having a wet dream?
Crystal is looking for a few good orgasms
As you can see in this video, there is no real “method” except for the fact that my ever-so-generous orgasm donor here said he watched some porn, edged for a bit and then finally let loose. Hmmm, with as big a cum shot as that was, I think I’m gonna get my man to practice a little “edging” himself! Thank you to my readers for submitting your wonderful orgasms…See you next week!
see the video at Weekly Orgasm Submission #2
A masturbator said:
Many years ago I lived in a third floor (the top floor) appt. There were only 4 appts on our floor………………..two at the top of the stairs and two at the far end of the hall. I was at the far end of the hall. When ever I was home I was sure to be naked. The appt across the hall from us was empty. I would stay naked and edge with the door open. I could easily hear anyone coming up the stairs. Anyone coming to the third floor would be going to one of the appts at the top of the stairs. One day as I was standing inside my wide open door stroking I was quite surprised to realize that the people that had just climbed the stairs were coming down the hall. I quietly closed my door and looked out the peep hole and saw a young couple enter the empty appt across the hall. These were my new neighbors. I saw them leave to go to their car to carry some items up. They left the door open. I immediatly went naked into the hall stroking my dick the entire time.
Having done this hundreds of times I knew exactly how many steps it took to reach the landing which was 1/2 way between the 2nd and 3rd floors. It was at this point where whoever was climbing made their final turn to come up the last 1/2 flight. I had to be back in my appt before they made that turn or be caught naked , hard and playing with myself. I stayed in the hall until I could see the backs of their heads before they turned. I ran back in and almost came from the excitement.
When they went down the next time to the car I crossed the hall and entered the open appt. I went to the bedroom and looked out the window. I watched them get items from their car. And here I was totally naked and hard in their bedroom !! I could not touch my dick or it would be an instant orgasm. I watched them cross the parking lot and re-enter the building. I stood there with my dick throbbing and was sure they could hear my heart pounding. I waited until I could hear them reach the second floor and made the mad dash for my appt. As I exitted their bedroom it sounded as if they were surely going to see me. I started cumming and came the whole length of their living room.
As I crossed the hall I could see the backs of their heads as they were just ready to make that final turn. I continued to cum as I crossed the hall and even as I entered my appt. I had NOT touched my dick while in their appt but the orgasm was unbelievable. I stood there panting. The orgasm had been wild. I now had cum splattered all over my legs, my dick and my stomach. I have jerked off many times reliving this earth shattering orgasm. It is great to have others to relate these true stories to.
Do you feel like this after masturbating?
Was reading this article recently about a guy who complains about always feeling depressed after orgasm, even if it was really great sex with a chick, otherwise known as “post orgasmic depression”, “post orgasmic chill”, “post coital depression”, or apparently the medical term, “post-coital tristesse”.
Apparently, it’s due to the body producing a high amount of prolactin, a hormone, immediately after orgasm.
I get this all the time.
While in the midst of being horny, jacking off, and edging, I crave any kind of sex, straight or gay. I just want to keep it going for hours. But after orgasm, the desire just goes away. Thoughts of gay sex doesn’t sound good anymore. This is why I have trouble eating my own splooge. … more at Lonely Weenie: Post Orgasmic Depression
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