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Movie Reviews - Masturbation: Male

Posted by on December 01, 2008

Follow this link for reviews of a number of videos featuring male masturbation.

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Controlled cumming

Posted by on November 18, 2008

a masturbator said:

I am aware that we cater to a wide variety of  tastes on this list, but are
centered around masturbation itself, and our  inability to stop ourselves.  In
several of the posts, the addiction has  begged the question of controlling
ones ejaculations.  I just want to bring  up the subject of cum control.  The
most erotic stories to me, are those  where either men or women are in control
of a man’s penis and his ability to  ejaculate.

Last night I met with a young man in S. F., and we  played out a scene in
which he was a recalcitrant college student who needed  focus from his habit of
masturbating 5-7 times a day.  I played the role of  a doctor, and offered him
therapy in which his masturbation was turned over to  me and I allowed him to
cum based on him "earning" the privilege.  It was a  great time.  (Now I know
that for the exclusively straight guys, this may  not interest you at all).  I
also enjoy these scenes with dominant women,  and stories that have men
turning over control of their cocks to their wives,  babysitters, etc.
Anyway, I just thought this would expand the  dimension of our discussions.

I’m addicted too

Posted by on November 11, 2008

masturbators said:

Oh yes! You’re right. The older we get the more time we need to
efficiently regroup and reload. Also I postulate that the way we get
used to ‘getting off’ affects the way we are with our spouses too
and reduces the effectiveness of intercourse over that of
masturbation.
mmmm still it feels good to j/o!
what to do? I try and take time prior to when I want to be with my
wife and not j/o to completion.

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I jack for hours looking at ass pics. I love a woman’s asshole. Love
pics of hard cocks too.
Just wanted to add that one thing that I am proud of is that I spent
my entire teen years jacking off. Never had sex at all! Now I’m
hoping that I can ween my wife off of sex so I can have my penis all
to myself again.

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Male Masturbation Tips - Will Stark

Posted by on November 04, 2008

 I have not personally read this, but it looks interesting:

Male Masturbation Tips eBooks

Male Masturbation Tips
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The appendix tells how to find hundreds of masturbation sites on the Web as well as sites where you can view men and women on your screen as they masturbate before their webcams while you watch, even if you have no webcam yourself.
About the Author:
The author has attended three universities and taught at three colleges. After this, he ran a small corporation with nationwide sales. He normally spends his mornings writing novels when not lapped by his two cats or needfully interrupted by his artist wife.

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How we became addicted

Posted by on November 03, 2008

masturbators said:

My name is Ric and I am a chronic Masturbator. I discovered the joys
of self pleasure at about the age of 11. Long before I had my first
ejaculation I learned by rubbing my penis I could make it "feel
good". As I got older I relied on masturbation more and more I
remember running home from high school and locking myself in the
bathroom with my vaseline (my lube of choice then). Somewhere I had
learned the fine are of lubing my hard cock I think it was jacking
with a buddy one afternoon. If I wasnt hooked before I was certainly
hooked after that. I came to look forward to my jack sessions and
collected porn from wherever I could to facililtate it. I discovered
my fathers porn stash and I was off…….
I dont know when I realized I was different from other guys but in
looking back I was different from other guys once I hit puburty.
Everyday at least once a day has been my motto for over 30 years. I
for years was ashamed of my addiction although I wasnt calling it
that at the time. I discussed it with no one. The internet came
along with its endless porn and there was no stopping me then. Still
ashamed and frustrated by what I saw as a failing or flaw in my make
up. About 5 years ago I first applied the term chronic to my
addiction as I went out on the internet more I found loads of porn
but also alot of guys that were in the same situation as me. It has
helped knowing I am not alone. In the past year I have become more
and more interested in my addiction and making sense of it. I enjoy
chatting with others like myself and being able to be completely open
without fear of ridicule etc.

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For me those feelings of being different occurred long before I
realized it was an addiction.
When I was 15 I used to spend at least 2 or 3 days at home alone
masturbating all day which eventually resulted in me getting kicked
out of school for non-attendance, but the only thing that bothered me
about that was my parents insisting if I wasn’t going to school then
I had to get a job. Damn it, that was the end for a while of my all
day sessions that I enjoyed so much.
In my early 20s I shared a house with a couple of friends and each
weekend my housemates and workmates would be out clubbing and doing
other things while I chose to stay at home in my room and masturbate
for hours. If I did go out it was usually to buy more wanking
material. That was when it became undeniable to me that I was
different from at least most others, but being young with no
responsibilities what did it matter if I spent so much time on
something I enjoyed so much. So there wasn’t a reason to think of it
as an addiction.
A number of years later, after my marriage, I was living alone with
the unlimited stimulus of the internet available to me. Suddenly all
my spare time was totally devoted to masturbation - talking about it,
reading about it and doing it. There would be times I would take the
day off work because I was too tired from being up all night
masturbating or because I couldn’t resist the urge to stay home and
do it instead of going to work. Now I was thinking of it as an
obsession, but what the heck, I was having the most fantastically
intense sessions and mind blowing orgasms I had ever experienced so I
was totally happy with being an obsessive masturbator.
In the last few years I’ve gained responsibilites that have brought
home the fact that I’m addicted to self-pleasuring. Also as I’ve
gotten older I’ve become more and more aware of the things I have
failed to and probably never will acheive because of the large amount
of my life I have spent pleasuring my cock. For a while I thought it
was something I could change about myself, but I’ve finally realized
that it’s part of who I am. Doesn’t matter if I’m wanking myself
stupid every night or just having a quick wank when the horniness
becomes too much of a distraction, I am a masturbation addict and
always will be. Rather than something that can be changed, it’s a
a matter of finding a balance. Greatly restricting the amount of time
I indulge in my favorite past-time makes me unhappy but doing it to
the exclusion of anything else eventually has the same affect. So
nowadays I’m working on integrating it into a fuller life but right
at the moment I’m enjoying being naked, fondling and stroking my cock
while enjoying the thought that being a masturbation addict group,
most of the members will also be pleasuring their cock while reading
this.

Chastity Belt FAQ : Chastity Belts and Devices

Posted by on October 28, 2008

 

For male chastity device wearers

FAQ | Links | Glossary | Background


Q: What’s a good chastity device for me?

• There is no easy answer to this question. Every wearer is different. All chastity devices balance two primary needs: security and wearability The best chastity device is best for you can vary greatly depending on several different needs: lifestyle, physical dimensions, duration of chastity play, finances, physical sensitivity, metal allergies, piercings, etc. I strongly recommend looking at the links at the bottom of this FAQ and posting on the forums and boards linked there, with as much information as you can share to get feedback from other wearers. Be patient for responses, the best answers can take days or weeks to show up.

With that in mind I will say that by far, the most common chastity designs are produced in the US by a company known as "A.L. Enterprises, Inc." - they started with the CB-2000 design and have added 3 other variations/updates since then. Each is comes with 5 base rings of various sizes and are reasonably adjustable to fit most men. They however have limitations and many more sincere chastity players consider them to only be starter or play chastity devices. The 4 designs will fit most men and are an affordable introduction to chastity play. They are the: 2000 (easier to clean, wider but shorter) - 3000 (more natural shape, medium sized) - Curve (larger size, bigger profile under clothing) and the 6000 (latest design, similar to the 6000 with some design alterations.)

CB-FAQ : Chastity Belt FAQ : Chastity Belts and Devices - Advice, Help, Hints, FAQ

Masturbator clubs

Posted by on October 25, 2008

Masturbators said:

There is an all male masturbation club in Philly. I have attended several times. It meets 3 times per month. You are met in the hall by a guy with a clipboard. It has a paper which says you will encounter nudity beyond the door and you have no problem with that. You enter and pay your $10 donation, then you stip and have your clothes put in a burlap sack. They are attended the entire time so your wallet, keys etc are safe. It is suggested you leave your shoes on because of the cum and lube on the floor. You get to walk around naked and stroke in front of about 30 guys. Guys walk up to you and play with your dick and you are free to do the same.

The room is dimly lit with the exception of a love seat which is elevated and lit with spot lights. I enjoy getting up there on my back to display my hole to the crowd while I edge in front of everyone. They allow NO oral or anal activity and you are free to turn away anyone you care to. Being naked and jerking off in front of 30 people is a dream cum true. The main improvement I would enjoy would be some women there but I suspect they would draw a crowd and things might get too difficult to control. They have a web site if anyone is interested.

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I have been to a similar (now-defunct) club in San Francisco, "Circle J". The other thing I missed (other than a female presence) was any real communication with the other masturbators. It was fun watching and being watched. But nobody seemed interested in talking about their experiences, feelings, etc. I would love to have a real-life equivalent of OnaniaSupport, where we could get together for masturbation but also for sharing our thoughts on living the chronic life.


3 guys cumming to 3somes

Posted by on October 15, 2008

 

… As usual when I’m with my jerking buds, we waste very little time on embarrassment or pretense. The clothes come off and the porn starts up within minutes of their arrival. I was in my usual sweats and a t shirt so I got the movie going while RS and TP removed their jeans and got down to their underwear. We all got comfortable on the couch and spent an hour looking at scenes like this:   … more at Jerk Off Clubbing: 3 guys cumming to 3somes

Male Masturbation Techniques

Posted by on October 14, 2008

 from How to Masturbate for Men – Male Masturbation Techniques

Masturbation is considered by many to be the cornerstone of sexual health. Most men believe that they already know everything about their own genitals and sexual response. It’s all out there, boys will be boys, etc. But just because you know how your tools work, doesn’t mean you can build the Eiffel Tower. In fact most men experience a fraction of their full erotic and orgasmic potential. Read on for simple and fun tips on how to masturbate for men. … more

Jerk Off Clubbing: Wednesday whack off

Posted by on October 06, 2008

from Jerk Off Clubbing: Wednesday whack off 

…. I heard a zipper to my right! Onscreen the pretty Asian chick started sucking some dick, licking his balls, swallowing the whole of his dick, sucking him off until he blew his load all over her face. TP pulled his zipper down and pulled off his jeans. He didn’t stop there, he also reached into his underwear and pulled out his cock. The waistband was across his balls and his shaft had a drop of pre-cum in the slit of his cock head. TP took little time lubing up his the head of his prick with it, and I slipped out of my briefs and pushed them to my thighs. I lay there and stroked my cock from base to tip and I knew I couldn’t hold out for long. From the base of my nuts I could feel the cum boiling and getting ready to blow. I stroked harder, flicking my thumb against the head of my dick on every upward stroke. I could feel it! My load was coming.

""STOP!!" TP ordered. "Release the dick and count to ten, mister!" He was holding the bottle of lube in his right hand while he grabbed my wrist with his left. I closed my eyes and nodded to him that I was OK, and he let go with grunt of "OK then". I let go of myself and we both watched as my cock quivered to my pulse. The movie continued as I slowly got myself under control. … Jerk Off Clubbing: Wednesday whack off