Are you addicted to masturbation? Or suspect you may be? Is masturbation becoming the most important thing in your life? Are you spending more and more time masturbating, but it’s still not enough? Are you concerned about the habit interferring with your work and relationships, even while you freely indulge it? Does the thought that you may be losing control excite you to masturbate even more?

Masturbation addiction is a sensitive, private subject for most of us. It is hard to find others who understand our needs, and won’t judge or criticize our choices. But you are not alone. Join with other chronic masturbators who share your feelings and experiences, and speak openly about your masturbation addiction.

Call the confidential masturbator-to-masturbator Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline

Date:Sunday, November 30, 2008
Start Time:12:00 PM Central Std Time
End Time:02:55 PM Central Std Time
Dial-in Number:1-712-580-8020 (Midwest)
Access Code:35522

Check http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline for updates.

(Conferences are usually on Sunday around noon.)

Please understand this is not a “phonesex” party line. The purpose is to discuss masturbation addiction and the impact it has on our lives. But participants often do become aroused talking about masturbation and need to masturbate during the conference. If this happens to you, we encourage you to vocally share your arousal with the group, and openly orgasm while we listen. You will find a sympathetic and supportive response to your personal masturbatory expressions.

My Yahoo IM: onaniaorg
I am often on webcam at www.cam4.com/richardlovel

• Remember to look for announcements and updates on regular conferences at
  http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline
• If you don’t know about the Hotline, read Masturbation Support Hotline
• I will email the most timely info to MasturbationHotline subscribers 

This is a completely non-commercial conference by and for people living with masturbation addiction. It is free (except for your normal long distance charges) and open to all masturbators over the age of 21. All sexual orientations and genders — males, females, straight/bi/gay/other — are welcome.  No minors, please!!! You should be prepared to hear adult masturbators talking freely about their experiences and masturbating openly as they do so. You are free to call in and “lurk” if you are shy, or speak up and join in.

See About theMasturbation Addiction Support Hotline
and http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline for more information.

Masturbators said:

There is an all male masturbation club in Philly. I have attended several times. It meets 3 times per month. You are met in the hall by a guy with a clipboard. It has a paper which says you will encounter nudity beyond the door and you have no problem with that. You enter and pay your $10 donation, then you stip and have your clothes put in a burlap sack. They are attended the entire time so your wallet, keys etc are safe. It is suggested you leave your shoes on because of the cum and lube on the floor. You get to walk around naked and stroke in front of about 30 guys. Guys walk up to you and play with your dick and you are free to do the same.

The room is dimly lit with the exception of a love seat which is elevated and lit with spot lights. I enjoy getting up there on my back to display my hole to the crowd while I edge in front of everyone. They allow NO oral or anal activity and you are free to turn away anyone you care to. Being naked and jerking off in front of 30 people is a dream cum true. The main improvement I would enjoy would be some women there but I suspect they would draw a crowd and things might get too difficult to control. They have a web site if anyone is interested.

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I have been to a similar (now-defunct) club in San Francisco, "Circle J". The other thing I missed (other than a female presence) was any real communication with the other masturbators. It was fun watching and being watched. But nobody seemed interested in talking about their experiences, feelings, etc. I would love to have a real-life equivalent of OnaniaSupport, where we could get together for masturbation but also for sharing our thoughts on living the chronic life.

The Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline  will resume in the future. There was a problem earlier that I thought would shut it down. There won’t be one this Sunday (31st) because I will be out of town, but I will try to hold one the following Sunday (Sep 7).  Read more below. And be sure to sign up for MasturbationHotline announcements; I will inform those subscribers in advance of posting the information elsewhere.

In an earlier post I wrote that I would have to shut down the Masturbation Addiction Hotline. I had been using Skype to access the teleconference system www.freeconference.com. They changed policy and shut out Skype users. The indications were that they were also shutting out cell phone users. I can’t call on a land line, so without Skype or cell phone I was out of luck. Turns out by testing I found cell phones still work. So I plan to continue the Hotlines on a more or less weekly basis as before. 

If they ever do shut out cell phones, then we will have to look for a free alternative. I strongly recommend people sign up for Skype, a free computer-based VOIP service. It is sort of like Yahoo Voice, but MUCH better. It supports conferences of up to 25 callers, so if we all use Skype we could do away with dependency on FreeConference.com

If you have Skype and want to add me to your contact list, it’s <richardlovel>. I’m not on very often, so we need to schedule a time to talk in advance through email. But if you see me on, feel free to connect. I would also prefer to use Skype for one-on-one Masturbator Support calls if we get the chance.

• Remember to look for announcements and updates on regular conferences at
  http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline
• If you don’t know about the Hotline, read Masturbation Support Hotline
• I will email the most timely info to MasturbationHotline subscribers
• I also have irregular one-on-one and small group sessions online and email notices of them to MyZipperIsDown subscribers

Onania . Org/asm presents several email lists for announcements of interest to masturbators. I encourage you to sign up for one or all of them. The lists are one-way from me to you (not discussion groups) for occasional announcements. The volume of messages will be very low (several per week at most). Your email address will be held in confidence and used for no other purpose.

See Onania . Org Mailing Lists to register or to unsubscribe from these lists

Just to let you know I am evaluating alternatives for continuing the Masturbation Addiction Hotline. I won’t have a conference for a couple of weeks due to personal conflicts, but they will return eventually.

Sorry to say that a policy change at FreeConference.com no longer allows Skype callers access to the service. Since the only way I can afford to host the conferences is through Skype, I won’t be holding open call-in hotlines in the future.

For those who would like to keep in touch with me, I can still call land lines or cell phones in the US, and land lines overseas. So we can chat one on one. I’ll probably take out a Skype-In number so you can call me if you prefer. (I used to have one but didn’t need it with FreeConference.)

I can also host multi-person phone conferences in Skype itself. I recommend you download and try Skype if you haven’t done so. It’s free and works extremely well. It is free for calling Skype to Skype user, as well as free conferences for up to 25 at a time.

If we can get enough people using Skype and occasionally calling in, maybe we can get the Masturbation Addiction Hotline restarted in Skype.

My Skype ID is richardlovel. Download Skype and give me a call. First though, email me or Yahoo IM me, because I don’t have Skype running all the time.

A new Yahoo masturbator group 

This group is for the enjoyment and pleasure of doing something alone, or with others. We welcome all genders to this group, including gender preferences.

ourmasturbation : The Masturbation group

A Yahoo group I just discovered 

CAM
MASTURBATION
ORGASM DENIAL

CAM_EDGE_DENIAL_MASTURBATION_ONLY : Masturbation & Orgasm Denial

Conference Date:Sunday, August 17, 2008
Reservation Start Time:12:00 PM Central Daylight Time
Reservation End Time:04:10 PM Central Daylight Time

Total Calls:47
Peak number of active lines:9

See http://onania.org/asm/hotline for more information.

A great new social network for male masturbators:

Bate Nation http://gooned.ning.com/

A place for guys into jackin off. Whether you prefer a quick whack-n-go, or you’re a chronic solosexual or mutual masturbation addict, an exhibitionist or voyeur, or a tongue-waggin droolin drunk-on-your-dong fucked-up goonin freak, grab your meat and beat it for the brotherhood! Dick is goooooooooooood