Theories on cuckolding
… BDSM - The theme of humiliation and submission is prominent in the hotwife/cuckold lifestyle. The scene is sometimes one where the wife will take dates with other men, and return with stories of what she has done. This sometimes concentrates on how much better the other man was sexually, how much bigger his penis was, and even some wives come to their marital bed with the evidence of their encounter (i.e. creampies) Another common arrangement is the encounter takes place in front of the husband. The "bull" or "stud" is usually different in some way (a recurring theme is BBC) and their penis size is usually considerably larger than the husband’s. The wife will then copulate with the "bull" with the husband in the room, occasionally commenting on how much better her "bull" is and how much larger his penis is. Some cuckolds enjoy preparing their wife for their upcoming "date", either dressing her or grooming her. Others often submit to the "bull", attending to his needs as well. In the most extreme cases, the cuckold is denied any sexual contact with his wife, but is the willing audience to all her indiscretions. On the flip side, the wife is the Sub and she is in essence "prostituted" by her Dom husband. Part of this is our reasons for the hotwife lifestyle we enjoy on occasion. In our scenes, I am property and he has the license to loan me out as he pleases. He has fantasies of gang bangs, simulated rapes, and men with large cocks. This satisfies the Dom in him, exerting his will over me by designing and initiating the encounter. This also satisfies the Sub in me, pushing my limits, and allowing him all the control. Of course, I am in complete control at all times, having final veto power over every session. I have seen slave contracts drawn up for this type of cuckold lifestyle, it is very common in the BDSM scene. …
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