Tag: Connecting

Masturbator clubs

Posted by on October 25, 2008

Masturbators said:

There is an all male masturbation club in Philly. I have attended several times. It meets 3 times per month. You are met in the hall by a guy with a clipboard. It has a paper which says you will encounter nudity beyond the door and you have no problem with that. You enter and pay your $10 donation, then you stip and have your clothes put in a burlap sack. They are attended the entire time so your wallet, keys etc are safe. It is suggested you leave your shoes on because of the cum and lube on the floor. You get to walk around naked and stroke in front of about 30 guys. Guys walk up to you and play with your dick and you are free to do the same.

The room is dimly lit with the exception of a love seat which is elevated and lit with spot lights. I enjoy getting up there on my back to display my hole to the crowd while I edge in front of everyone. They allow NO oral or anal activity and you are free to turn away anyone you care to. Being naked and jerking off in front of 30 people is a dream cum true. The main improvement I would enjoy would be some women there but I suspect they would draw a crowd and things might get too difficult to control. They have a web site if anyone is interested.

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I have been to a similar (now-defunct) club in San Francisco, "Circle J". The other thing I missed (other than a female presence) was any real communication with the other masturbators. It was fun watching and being watched. But nobody seemed interested in talking about their experiences, feelings, etc. I would love to have a real-life equivalent of OnaniaSupport, where we could get together for masturbation but also for sharing our thoughts on living the chronic life.


Yahoo masturbator group: WannaWatch_masturbation_fetish

Posted by on July 10, 2008

If you get off on the watching guys and/or girls getting off, if you like knowing someone out there is watching you get off, getting themselves off as a result, and the exhibitionist in you is dying to get out, please share your pics or videos. Commercial video clips of masturbation are OK too. Either gender is welcome. You’ll not only find material with guys AND girls getting off, but material that you will find helpful in your solo activities and will hopefully increase the frequency and intensity of your masturbatory activities. Welcome and have fun! Keep it on-topic, please.

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Yahoo masturbator group: Edging Denial Club

Posted by on July 03, 2008

EdgingDenialClub! For men into prolonged masturbation, tantra, Hin-Yin, multiple orgasms, extended orgasms, edging, orgasm control, pumping, enforced chastity and denial using restraint, this a place to share stories, techniques and photos, motivate each other, and meet. Tell us what day of edging you are on and maybe we will join you to encourage each other to go longer.

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Yahoo masturbator group: perv-wankers

Posted by on June 26, 2008

Perv-wankers (formerly Pervowankers) is a group for adult men only who enjoy stimulating the male organ more than anything in the whole world. Some members edge, delaying the moment of release and building up ever greater sensations. Some members shoot freely just as they like. Some members milk and force themselves or their wards to shoot repeatedly over and over again. Some do all three! If you are an adult male and you (or your trainee) are interested in sharing real life stories and perverted fantasies of TOTAL COCK STIM then welcome to PERV-WANKERS!

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I’ve become addicted to OTHER masturbators

Posted by on June 23, 2008

Doug said:

I don’t think that we necessarily have to be actively masturbating to feel our addiction — certainly, it’s a large part of it, but I think the addiction clearly carries over into your conversation with like-minded people (male or female) and surely into our Internet surfing. Personally, I’ve reached an age - and physical state (E.D., due to diabetes) - when actual masturbation isn’t as possible as it was just a few years ago. But, nevertheless, I AM addicted to it - to doing it when I’m able, and especially talking to others about it - and about THEIR addictions. I’ve become addicted to OTHER masturbators (and to phone-jacking) and sharing both the physical and MENTAL aspects of the practice. In a sense, I live vicariously off the excitment and pleasures of others … I NEED that just as much as I need anything else in this life! I love being a masturbation mentor/guide/coach to those who enjoy it and are willing to allow me to masturbate their minds while they stroke their penises!! Yes, Richard, there’s a LOT more to our addiction than the actual act itself … let’s enjoy the conversation, the sharing, the porn … whatever it is that FUELS our masturbation!

Yahoo masturbator group: cojmann : Men’s Masturbation

Posted by on June 19, 2008

 

Cojmann - Men’s Masturbation


*Pics*_*Vids*_*Hot Stories*_*Get Connected*_*Active Membership!*

This group is monitored for compliance with Yahoo rules and overall quality control.
Cojmann is about MASTURBATION–REGARDLESS OF SEXUAL ORIENTATION.

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Yahoo group: Onania Support

Posted by on June 13, 2008

Announcing the Yahoo group Onania Support, a masturbator support community affiliated with Onania . Org/asm. If you are a chronic masturbator, you are cordially invited to join.

Support for People Living with Chronic Masturbation Addiction

OnaniaSupport is a supportive, affirming community of people living with chronic addiction to masturbation. The focus is on our lives as addicted masturbators, and the pleasures / conflicts / impacts related to our compelling habit. Unlike other pro- or anti-masturbation groups, OnaniaSupport is value-neutral and non-judgmental. It makes no assumption that masturbation addiction is inherently good or bad, or that chronic masturbators should seek to change their behavior. Each member is free to form and express his own opinions without fear of criticism or judgment.

In OnaniaSupport we freely share our masturbatory fantasies and techniques, including extreme excessive practices used to intensify autoerotic gratification. We explore our conflicts about the costs of masturbation addiction on career, family, friends, and life goals. We process residual feelings of shame, guilt, and humiliation that for some attach to chronic masturbation. We offer understanding, encouragement, and validation — both to those still struggling with their compulsions and to those finally reconciled to permanent and incurable masturbation addiction.

The group is primarily male in gender, from gay to straight in sexual orientation. Female chronic masturbators and partners of chronic masturbators are also welcome.

Please join at Onania Support. You may also subscribe for email-only (Yahoo ID not required) by sending an email to OnaniaSupport-subscribe@yahoogroups.com (be sure to state your age and gender and reference masturbation in your email to indicate you are not a spammer).

 

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Yahoo masturbator group: Chronic Edgers

Posted by on June 12, 2008

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Yahoo masturbator group: aguysfavoritehobby

Posted by on June 07, 2008

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Welcome to “A GUYS FAVORITE HOBBY” That of course is masturbation, whether it be solo or mutual.
Kev and I want to make this a special group to talk about and view pics and vids of what we like to do best.
…. I also encourage females to join if they are intrigued by the masturbating male.
Please take part in the polls, add some pics and vids and lets have some nice group discussions also. …
NOW LETS GET NAKED, STROKING AND HAVE SOME FUN
Dustin & Kevin

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Lonely Weenie: Comparing Notes with Others

Posted by on May 09, 2008

Lonely Weenie said:

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Comparing Notes with Others

I continue to get some good e-mails from folks who read Lonely Weenie, mostly identifying with my situation.
All are frequent masturbators (aren’t we all, anyways?) and all are married, or in a committed relationship, and all wanting to connect with other maturbators to explore a higher degree of masturbation. …
…Pulling the trigger [on connecting with masturbators] is something that I still have problems with. Mainly it’s because I’m married. I still love my wife very much, and she loves me very much as well. But we just don’t have sex much anymore. It’s largely due to her health problems. And she understands my needs, insofar as she doesn’t mind me masturbating, watching porn, or even going naked outdoors. I just can’t get myself to extend it further into seeking out guys to jack off with….

(My problem is the opposite, since I can no longer perform sex with my wife due to my over-dependence on masturbation. I’ve essentially trained myself into functional impotence, though I erect reliably for manual masturbation.)

But regarding connecting with other masturbators: I have met men on occasion for “see and be seen” (no contact) sessions. Some have been fun, some not (some really wanted gay sex — not my thing). But I don’t do this often, because like Lonely Weenie I don’t want to risk issues in my marriage.

Another excellent alternative for me is telephone masturbation. I love talking with another chronic masturbator while I masturbate (see for example my podcasturbations) especially about the subject of chronic masturbation addiction. I use Skype, so the cost is virtually nill and my anonymity is protected.