from Teased and Denied

…."I suppose you want to be tied up?", she asked me, and when I nodded "yes", she proceeded to describe what the fantasy was all about in full detail to the other s while getting me to strip, put on the CB6000 and tie me to the upright chair. I was still so embarrassed about the set-up that Percy was pretty shrivelled and easy to get into the CB6000. I ended up tied to the chair, feeling pretty stupid and beginning to wonder what I had let myself in for - could I ever face our dance friends again after this? ….Teased and Denied

EXTREMELY RARE ANTI MASTURBATION DEVICE DATING FROM c1880. THE COPPER SHAPED DEVICE WAS ATTACHED TO A BELT AND WORN BY BOYS AS A MEANS OF PREVENTING NOCTURNAL EMISSIONS. VERY MUCH AN INDICATION OF SOCIETIES VIEWS ON ONANISM IN THE 19TH CENTURY. THIS IS THE FIRST EXAMPLE WE HAVE OFFERED FOR SALE IN 24 YEARS. THE CONDITION IS EXCELLENT 3 ½ INCHES TOP TO BASE.

more at No masturbation for a year!: Anti masturbation device…

a good cuckold blog 

my Wife enjoys having me bound when She goes out for a date. Given that it is impractical to leave me tied up in a closet noting both safety and practical issues, having me wear a chastity device is the next best thing. i find that having my cock placed under lock and key,.. the key that She wears for all to see dangling provactively between Her ample and luscious breasts,… keeps me alert and focused and of course feeling very submissive and attentive on Her. ….

Cuckold Doggie: A Word on Chastity

For male chastity device wearers

FAQ | Links | Glossary | Background

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Q: What’s a good chastity device for me?

• There is no easy answer to this question. Every wearer is different. All chastity devices balance two primary needs: security and wearability The best chastity device is best for you can vary greatly depending on several different needs: lifestyle, physical dimensions, duration of chastity play, finances, physical sensitivity, metal allergies, piercings, etc. I strongly recommend looking at the links at the bottom of this FAQ and posting on the forums and boards linked there, with as much information as you can share to get feedback from other wearers. Be patient for responses, the best answers can take days or weeks to show up.

With that in mind I will say that by far, the most common chastity designs are produced in the US by a company known as "A.L. Enterprises, Inc." - they started with the CB-2000 design and have added 3 other variations/updates since then. Each is comes with 5 base rings of various sizes and are reasonably adjustable to fit most men. They however have limitations and many more sincere chastity players consider them to only be starter or play chastity devices. The 4 designs will fit most men and are an affordable introduction to chastity play. They are the: 2000 (easier to clean, wider but shorter) - 3000 (more natural shape, medium sized) - Curve (larger size, bigger profile under clothing) and the 6000 (latest design, similar to the 6000 with some design alterations.)

CB-FAQ : Chastity Belt FAQ : Chastity Belts and Devices - Advice, Help, Hints, FAQ

Warning for Satire-Impaired Readers

Chronic masturbation is one of the major social and personal challenges facing males today. The pornographic temptations of the Internet are irresistible for males with weak moral characters, and once in the grip of masturbatory addiction, it is virtually impossible for the male to free himself from the habit. If left unchecked, genital self-abuse can and often does take over his life, seriously impacting self esteem, career achievement, social ties, and family well being.

Although masturbatory addiction in the habituated male is irreversible and incurable, the damage wrought can be limited if the addict, with the help of his partner, works to control his more compulsive and vicious excesses.

For those males sincerely struggling to control the habit of masturbation, we offer the following resources.

• Current links on Stopping Masturbation
• Masturbation addiction counseling
• Study for Breaking Masturbation Addiction
• Overcoming the Masturbation Habit
• Steps in Overcoming Masturbation
• What a Young Boy Ought to Know
• Masturbation And The Bible
• Self Pollution
• My Constant Companion
• An Ugly, Deceiving Sin
• Over Masturbation Resource Center
• Sexual Addiction in AllPsych Journal
• Masturbation and Mortal Sin
• The Addiction Cycle
• Masturbation Addiction

From You lost the what? Part 2 « The Edge of Vanilla

News story from The Local Guardian (UK)

Not that anybody around here has any interest in this kind of thing. . .

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Man cut free from ‘S&M’ chastity belt by firemen

Firefighters had to cut a man out of a titanium chastity belt intended for sex games last week.

Crews from Kingston fire station were called to the red-faced man’s home in Ham at about 11pm on June 27 after he had spent all day trying to free himself from the device. … You lost the what? Part 2 « The Edge of Vanilla

 A female perspective on orgasm denial from Jessica’s ruined orgasms | tantalism.org

Bob, Jessica’s boyfriend, has a demonic mind. When he discovered Jessica’s love of bondage and orgasm control, Bob came up with an evil, evil plan, and he backed it up with an appropriate Chasti-Permalock device. …But Bob wouldn’t stop there. He didn’t just want to be able to edge her constantly without fear of her going over. He didn’t want her to get off so easy. First, the device would constantly be edging her, and not just through vaginal stimulation. Her clit would be numb, but she would have increased sensitivity around her lips, ass, and everywhere else. She would feel every little brush and shift of her clothing throughout the day, and would feel how her vagina lips would shift subtly from each footstep. The device would stimulate her with shivers up her spine, prickly feelings on the bottoms of her feet, a rush of warmth on her thighs or her breasts, or a gentle tickle up and down her sides. Her brain would also be stimulated, and whenever she saw a guy she would fixate on his crotch, wanting to see his bulge grow and maybe feel it, or play with his balls. Erotic thoughts would dance through her head all day, and would dominate her dreams all night. … Jessica’s ruined orgasms | tantalism.org

Warning for the Satire-Impaired

From Healthy Masturbation 

There is a controversy about the role of masturbation in sexual recovery circles. The folks at Sexaholics Anonymous (SA) and Sexual Recovery Anonymous (SRA) take the position that if you identify yourself as a sex addict, then you are fooling yourself if you think that you can masturbate successfully.

What they mean by “successfully” is when you masturbate as a self-nurturing activity, without compromising your intimate relationships, and unaccompanied by degrading sexual fantasies.

SA/SRA members take the stand that sex addicts need to abstain from masturbation altogether and instead seek for sexual expression within marriage or a committed relationship.

Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA), Sexual Compulsives Anonymous (SCA), and Sex and Love Anonymous (SLAA) all take the position that abstention from masturbation is a personal decision.

However, most of these latter group members would also agree that abstaining from masturbation is a good idea in early recovery (in order to break self-destructive patterns).

Abstinence is different for each sex addict - depending on what behaviors are compulsive and lead to demoralization.

For some sex and love addicts masturbation is a truly harmless, risk-free release of built-up sexual tension. For others it is the start of a rapid slide down into shame, depression, and acting out in other, more dangerous ways. Clearly the latter group must put masturbation on their Bottom Lines (Inner Circle).

Can you masturbate just a little?

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While voluntary erotic male chastity doesn’t get the mass media coverage as the flashy folks who wear leather and vinyl it is one of the most common forms of atypical sexuality. Wearing MCDs - male chastity devices - isn’t that rare: after dildos MCDs are among the most commonly purchased sex toys….

Women shocked when boyfriend, husband expresses desire to be keept chaste, denied orgasms. - Is My Husband A Pervert?

To be in a chastity device or not? 

Denial or Control? « The Edge of Vanilla…. Mrs. Edge not being here, I don’t have the “teasing” aspect that I normally would have which fuels the arousal. The possibility of having sex - using whichever cock she chooses - is always in the back of my mind; and since we both sleep in the nude, at some point I’m spooning against her in the night which is sure to cause a reaction. In other words, I’m not climbing-the-walls horny in her absence. But when she’s gone, I often masturbate simply to relax and help me get to sleep more easily, so I’m also feeling, as L states, the arousal/fear reaction. Not that I’m actually afraid, but rather, I’m asking myself if I could get back into the long-term denial play again, or even the short term play. I mean, orgasms are fun when you’re having them, and giving them up is difficult.

But just having to wear the device this week has had me focusing on the “no orgasm” part, and after having had some free time, I’m finding that I am both aroused, and having a difficult time with the idea that Mrs. Edge might come back from vacation dangling her key and taking back the control once again. The possibility is exciting to think about, and on some level I would completely love to give in, to have her simply say to me that she’s had a chance to recharge and is ready to go back to taking control. But, remembering her tendency to keep me locked up continuously, I’m hesitant to broach the subject with her, for fear that any mention on my part would be just enough impetus for her to actually do so.

I enjoy the control, but I fear the denial. The problem is, denial really is about control, and the longer the denial, the deeper the control. Thinking back on the several times we went for months, I get more aroused - even though the idea of repeating those episodes scares me just a little bit…..more Denial or Control? « The Edge of Vanilla