LW is addicted to his own penis:
… For some reason, the thought of how good my cock felt in my hands really struck me. Even my balls felt really good in my hands. In fact, my cock felt so good with my hand wrapped around it.
For a few minutes, I wondered if I might be addicted to my cock? Yeah, I am. I really love how it feels. The warmth of blood in my cock, the ultra-smooth skin, and it’s firmness and fullness. It might be like holding a steel handgun, solid and heavy. …
Are you addicted to masturbation? Or suspect you may be? Is masturbation becoming the most important thing in your life? Are you spending more and more time masturbating, but it’s still not enough? Are you concerned about the habit interferring with your work and relationships, even while you freely indulge it? Does the thought that you may be losing control excite you to masturbate even more?
Masturbation addiction is a sensitive, private subject for most of us. It is hard to find others who understand our needs, and won’t judge or criticize our choices. But you are not alone. Join with other chronic masturbators who share your feelings and experiences, and speak openly about your masturbation addiction.
Date:Sunday, November 30, 2008
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(Conferences are usually on Sunday around noon.)
Please understand this is not a “phonesex” party line. The purpose is to discuss masturbation addiction and the impact it has on our lives. But participants often do become aroused talking about masturbation and need to masturbate during the conference. If this happens to you, we encourage you to vocally share your arousal with the group, and openly orgasm while we listen. You will find a sympathetic and supportive response to your personal masturbatory expressions.
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This is a completely non-commercial conference by and for people living with masturbation addiction. It is free (except for your normal long distance charges) and open to all masturbators over the age of 21. All sexual orientations and genders — males, females, straight/bi/gay/other — are welcome. No minors, please!!! You should be prepared to hear adult masturbators talking freely about their experiences and masturbating openly as they do so. You are free to call in and “lurk” if you are shy, or speak up and join in.
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My Local Time |
Susan Cheever is a sex addict. She wants you to know that she has had sex — a lot of sex — with all sorts of men. She has committed adultery. She has been up to hanky-panky in hotel rooms. She has made eyes at lawyers and book salesmen and the guys from the moving company. … more
Book Review - ‘Desire - Where Sex Meets Addiction,’ by Susan Cheever - Review - NYTimes.com
Another worried masturbator asks:
What are the signs of a sex addiction, and is it possible to have one at age 21? Is it possible to be addicted to sex without having a lot of it? I’m gay and have been in a monogamous healthy (or perhaps not…) relationship for 3 years. Recently, I haven’t been getting any because he says that’s *all* I want. I’ve noticed I’ve turned to porn and masturbation to relieve myself… more than a few times a day. And it does get in the way of me studying and doing assignments. Is this too much? … answer
a masturbator said:
Just stopped by to catch up with the latest. I just finished 4 cock
vids and am sitting here with a pool of cum in my hand. My wife is in
the next room asleep. I woke up out of a sound sleep went to the
computer and check my email saw the vids and ejactulated. I believe my
addiction started when I was about 6 or 7. Seems my parent did not
take care of a problem when i was young and I and to stand in the
bathroom with my dad pull back my foreskin. A portion of which had
grown attached to my glans. So I did this every night almost for about
a year until it seperated. Sometimes my penis would itch and i would
rub it when I was in bed. Nothing special happened other that it felt
good. When I was about 8 I was in my room and was playing and desided
to play with my penis. I rubbed it, it felt good then it started to
get wet and twitch. That was great. This was a neat toy. Wow. I did
this about 3 more times in about 4 months. Then I was caught by my mom.
Oh Shit. The "Wait til you father get home" chant began. When my dad
got home he told me it was bad and never do it again then whipped my
ass. Sorry dad it felt to good to stop. My butt was sore for the next
couple of years. Then I found a friend at school that my mom like and
we slept over a discovered we like looking at each other penis’s and
playing with them. It was the start of a masturbatory adventure that
took me many place and risk my things. I dodged a lot of bullets I was
lucky I guess. At least a dozen or more time if I got caught I could
have cost me everything, marriage, job, home, parents, brother, and
childeren.
I am an addict to this now 65 and jacking and see no end in site. I
assume some day I will wake up and no longer have a desire for whatever
mental or physical reason but not on my own.
Thank for the chance to get this off my chest in a safe space.
pray for guidance, sinners:
Two men who say they were molested as teens by the Rev. Donald McGuire testified Friday that the now-defrocked priest convinced them that they were "addicted" to masturbation and needed to be "educated" on how to stop it.
The "education" included looking at sexually explicit magazines such as Playboy and Playgirl and watching X-rated films. …
Two men say priest taught masturbation :: CHICAGO SUN-TIMES :: Chicago Crime
The signs of chronic masturbation and porn addiction:
SO you sense that something is not quite right in your relationship. He seems distracted and when it comes to sex, his requests have been getting stranger and stranger. Red alert, your man may be hooked on something and it sure ain’t you sweetheart!
Here are 10 ways you can be sure.1 His hours on the Internet are out of whack. At one time, the Internet used to be essential for checking mails, doing some researching or catching up on the latest gossip. Now your man seems to be totally hooked on it. He wakes up to go to the bathroom and he has to "check in" before he comes back to bed. Something is keeping him there, and it’s not his emails.
2 His Playboy collection is huge. Buying one or two copies of Playboy is a nice little hobby, but obsessing with every issue and even buying similar magazines in that nature, is taking a joke much too far.
3 His obsession is beginning to affect your relationship. You can hardly get any TLC time in as he is too busy surfing porn sites to attend to your needs. No amount of complaints will budge him from off those sites.
4 Losing interest in activities. He used to be the life of the party and one who could be counted on to get the fun ball rolling. Now, all he wants is to be left alone. He needs ‘quiet time’ (in front of the computer) and seems really upset if you try to change his mind.
5 Strange sex requests. You’re thinking your man has totally lost his mind. Suddenly he wants to do things that are totally out of whack. Sure you are adventurous when it comes to sex, but there are some requests that are just too weird to even mention.
6 DVD collection. He is no longer interested in action movies…well not the gun kind anyway. His porn DVD collection is piling up and what’s worse, he doesn’t seem interested in getting anything else.
7 He’s moody and restless. These days he is totally restless, moody and it’s really hard to have a conversation with him. When you try to find out what’s wrong, he brushes your concerns aside and seems less inclined to talk.
8 Your sex life is beginning to suffer. Your sex life is practically non-existent and he doesn’t seem to mind! Honey, if he is not getting his needs taken care of by you, then there is something else that’s keeping him satisfied.
9 He’s into masturbation. He has suddenly taken up the habit of masturbation. Even when you want some real action, he wants to include that into you lovemaking session. Your man is a porn-goner.
10 Needs a lot of stimulation. It’s getting harder and harder for him to be aroused. He needs a vast amount of stimulation before he can be sexually aroused and even when you are putting your all into it, he seems more distracted than anything else.
masturbators said:
Oh yes! You’re right. The older we get the more time we need to
efficiently regroup and reload. Also I postulate that the way we get
used to ‘getting off’ affects the way we are with our spouses too
and reduces the effectiveness of intercourse over that of
masturbation.
mmmm still it feels good to j/o!
what to do? I try and take time prior to when I want to be with my
wife and not j/o to completion.
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I jack for hours looking at ass pics. I love a woman’s asshole. Love
pics of hard cocks too.
Just wanted to add that one thing that I am proud of is that I spent
my entire teen years jacking off. Never had sex at all! Now I’m
hoping that I can ween my wife off of sex so I can have my penis all
to myself again.
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masturbators said:
My name is Ric and I am a chronic Masturbator. I discovered the joys
of self pleasure at about the age of 11. Long before I had my first
ejaculation I learned by rubbing my penis I could make it "feel
good". As I got older I relied on masturbation more and more I
remember running home from high school and locking myself in the
bathroom with my vaseline (my lube of choice then). Somewhere I had
learned the fine are of lubing my hard cock I think it was jacking
with a buddy one afternoon. If I wasnt hooked before I was certainly
hooked after that. I came to look forward to my jack sessions and
collected porn from wherever I could to facililtate it. I discovered
my fathers porn stash and I was off…….
I dont know when I realized I was different from other guys but in
looking back I was different from other guys once I hit puburty.
Everyday at least once a day has been my motto for over 30 years. I
for years was ashamed of my addiction although I wasnt calling it
that at the time. I discussed it with no one. The internet came
along with its endless porn and there was no stopping me then. Still
ashamed and frustrated by what I saw as a failing or flaw in my make
up. About 5 years ago I first applied the term chronic to my
addiction as I went out on the internet more I found loads of porn
but also alot of guys that were in the same situation as me. It has
helped knowing I am not alone. In the past year I have become more
and more interested in my addiction and making sense of it. I enjoy
chatting with others like myself and being able to be completely open
without fear of ridicule etc.
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For me those feelings of being different occurred long before I
realized it was an addiction.
When I was 15 I used to spend at least 2 or 3 days at home alone
masturbating all day which eventually resulted in me getting kicked
out of school for non-attendance, but the only thing that bothered me
about that was my parents insisting if I wasn’t going to school then
I had to get a job. Damn it, that was the end for a while of my all
day sessions that I enjoyed so much.
In my early 20s I shared a house with a couple of friends and each
weekend my housemates and workmates would be out clubbing and doing
other things while I chose to stay at home in my room and masturbate
for hours. If I did go out it was usually to buy more wanking
material. That was when it became undeniable to me that I was
different from at least most others, but being young with no
responsibilities what did it matter if I spent so much time on
something I enjoyed so much. So there wasn’t a reason to think of it
as an addiction.
A number of years later, after my marriage, I was living alone with
the unlimited stimulus of the internet available to me. Suddenly all
my spare time was totally devoted to masturbation - talking about it,
reading about it and doing it. There would be times I would take the
day off work because I was too tired from being up all night
masturbating or because I couldn’t resist the urge to stay home and
do it instead of going to work. Now I was thinking of it as an
obsession, but what the heck, I was having the most fantastically
intense sessions and mind blowing orgasms I had ever experienced so I
was totally happy with being an obsessive masturbator.
In the last few years I’ve gained responsibilites that have brought
home the fact that I’m addicted to self-pleasuring. Also as I’ve
gotten older I’ve become more and more aware of the things I have
failed to and probably never will acheive because of the large amount
of my life I have spent pleasuring my cock. For a while I thought it
was something I could change about myself, but I’ve finally realized
that it’s part of who I am. Doesn’t matter if I’m wanking myself
stupid every night or just having a quick wank when the horniness
becomes too much of a distraction, I am a masturbation addict and
always will be. Rather than something that can be changed, it’s a
a matter of finding a balance. Greatly restricting the amount of time
I indulge in my favorite past-time makes me unhappy but doing it to
the exclusion of anything else eventually has the same affect. So
nowadays I’m working on integrating it into a fuller life but right
at the moment I’m enjoying being naked, fondling and stroking my cock
while enjoying the thought that being a masturbation addict group,
most of the members will also be pleasuring their cock while reading
this.
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