Are you addicted to masturbation? Or suspect you may be? Is masturbation becoming the most important thing in your life? Are you spending more and more time masturbating, but it’s still not enough? Are you concerned about the habit interferring with your work and relationships, even while you freely indulge it? Does the thought that you may be losing control excite you to masturbate even more?

Masturbation addiction is a sensitive, private subject for most of us. It is hard to find others who understand our needs, and won’t judge or criticize our choices. But you are not alone. Join with other chronic masturbators who share your feelings and experiences, and speak openly about your masturbation addiction.

Call the confidential masturbator-to-masturbator Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline

Date:Sunday, November 30, 2008
Start Time:12:00 PM Central Std Time
End Time:02:55 PM Central Std Time
Dial-in Number:1-712-580-8020 (Midwest)
Access Code:35522

Check http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline for updates.

(Conferences are usually on Sunday around noon.)

Please understand this is not a “phonesex” party line. The purpose is to discuss masturbation addiction and the impact it has on our lives. But participants often do become aroused talking about masturbation and need to masturbate during the conference. If this happens to you, we encourage you to vocally share your arousal with the group, and openly orgasm while we listen. You will find a sympathetic and supportive response to your personal masturbatory expressions.

My Yahoo IM: onaniaorg
I am often on webcam at www.cam4.com/richardlovel

• Remember to look for announcements and updates on regular conferences at
  http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline
• If you don’t know about the Hotline, read Masturbation Support Hotline
• I will email the most timely info to MasturbationHotline subscribers 

This is a completely non-commercial conference by and for people living with masturbation addiction. It is free (except for your normal long distance charges) and open to all masturbators over the age of 21. All sexual orientations and genders — males, females, straight/bi/gay/other — are welcome.  No minors, please!!! You should be prepared to hear adult masturbators talking freely about their experiences and masturbating openly as they do so. You are free to call in and “lurk” if you are shy, or speak up and join in.

See About theMasturbation Addiction Support Hotline
and http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline for more information.

The Masturbation Addiction Support Hotline  will resume in the future. There was a problem earlier that I thought would shut it down. There won’t be one this Sunday (31st) because I will be out of town, but I will try to hold one the following Sunday (Sep 7).  Read more below. And be sure to sign up for MasturbationHotline announcements; I will inform those subscribers in advance of posting the information elsewhere.

In an earlier post I wrote that I would have to shut down the Masturbation Addiction Hotline. I had been using Skype to access the teleconference system www.freeconference.com. They changed policy and shut out Skype users. The indications were that they were also shutting out cell phone users. I can’t call on a land line, so without Skype or cell phone I was out of luck. Turns out by testing I found cell phones still work. So I plan to continue the Hotlines on a more or less weekly basis as before. 

If they ever do shut out cell phones, then we will have to look for a free alternative. I strongly recommend people sign up for Skype, a free computer-based VOIP service. It is sort of like Yahoo Voice, but MUCH better. It supports conferences of up to 25 callers, so if we all use Skype we could do away with dependency on FreeConference.com

If you have Skype and want to add me to your contact list, it’s <richardlovel>. I’m not on very often, so we need to schedule a time to talk in advance through email. But if you see me on, feel free to connect. I would also prefer to use Skype for one-on-one Masturbator Support calls if we get the chance.

• Remember to look for announcements and updates on regular conferences at
  http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline
• If you don’t know about the Hotline, read Masturbation Support Hotline
• I will email the most timely info to MasturbationHotline subscribers
• I also have irregular one-on-one and small group sessions online and email notices of them to MyZipperIsDown subscribers

Onania . Org/asm presents several email lists for announcements of interest to masturbators. I encourage you to sign up for one or all of them. The lists are one-way from me to you (not discussion groups) for occasional announcements. The volume of messages will be very low (several per week at most). Your email address will be held in confidence and used for no other purpose.

See Onania . Org Mailing Lists to register or to unsubscribe from these lists

Just to let you know I am evaluating alternatives for continuing the Masturbation Addiction Hotline. I won’t have a conference for a couple of weeks due to personal conflicts, but they will return eventually.

Sorry to say that a policy change at FreeConference.com no longer allows Skype callers access to the service. Since the only way I can afford to host the conferences is through Skype, I won’t be holding open call-in hotlines in the future.

For those who would like to keep in touch with me, I can still call land lines or cell phones in the US, and land lines overseas. So we can chat one on one. I’ll probably take out a Skype-In number so you can call me if you prefer. (I used to have one but didn’t need it with FreeConference.)

I can also host multi-person phone conferences in Skype itself. I recommend you download and try Skype if you haven’t done so. It’s free and works extremely well. It is free for calling Skype to Skype user, as well as free conferences for up to 25 at a time.

If we can get enough people using Skype and occasionally calling in, maybe we can get the Masturbation Addiction Hotline restarted in Skype.

My Skype ID is richardlovel. Download Skype and give me a call. First though, email me or Yahoo IM me, because I don’t have Skype running all the time.

Conference Date:Sunday, August 17, 2008
Reservation Start Time:12:00 PM Central Daylight Time
Reservation End Time:04:10 PM Central Daylight Time

Total Calls:47
Peak number of active lines:9

See http://onania.org/asm/hotline for more information.

Conference Date: Sunday, August 10, 2008
Reservation Start Time: 12:00 PM Central Daylight Time
Reservation End Time: 03:25 PM Central Daylight Time

Total Calls: 36
Peak number of active lines: 14

Started off with a discussion of the addiction situation, then pretty quickly degenerated to moaning / groaning / orgasming masturbation.

Conference Summary
Conference Date:Sunday, June 29, 2008
Reservation Start Time:12:00 PM Central Daylight Time
Reservation End Time:02:25 PM Central Daylight Time
Dial-in Number:1-712-580-8020
Access Code:35xxx
Total Calls:25
Peak number of active lines:11

Another good conference with a varied cast of masturbators. Early on we heard again from Wendy who told us a bit about her masturbatory practices. It seems she does not edge and was curious about males proclivity for this. After she signed off (or went lurking perhaps) several of the usual gang signed on, including Drum, Matt, Sean, and a few others. We shortly degenerated into an inchoate mass of male masturbators, moaning and groaning. Good spurts were had by all (or at least, by me).

There were up to 11 lines active but only a few speakers. So a lot of lurkers this time. Speak up, folks; don’t be shy. You are among friends.

Join us next conference, in a week or two.

See http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline for schedule.

Conference Date:Sunday, June 22, 2008
Reservation Start Time:12:00 PM Central Daylight Time
Reservation End Time:03:10 PM Central Daylight Time
Dial-in Number:1-712-580-8020
Access Code:35xxx
Total Calls:10
Peak number of active lines:6
Lines reserved:5

I didn’t advertise today’s conference in the Yahoo groups as usual, just on this blog. I wanted to see how many people are picking up the news here. About 4 chronic male masturbators called in. A couple I have known before and one new, Keith, from the UK. He is a married masturbator and masturbating more and more as time goes on. He wanted to discuss his situation with other married masturbators. We reassured him he is not alone and should not feel guilty for enjoying his own hand. Our advice was to decide what kind of relationship would work best for him and his wife, and either continue masturbating secretly or discuss it openly with her. Either way has its risks/rewards. Nobody can decide what is right except the masturbator himself. And nobody can predict how his partner will respond.

After Keith and Drum signed off, Lisa joined me. We were alone at that point and she talked me through a guided masturbation exercise ending in a splendid ejaculation. Thanks again Lisa!

Finally, when I was about to call it quits, Matt called in and we talked 1-to-1 for a while about our lives as masturbators. I finished myself off with another ejaculation and packed it in for the day.

Join us next conference, in a week or two. 

See http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline for schedule.

Conference Summary
Conference Date:Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Reservation Start Time:06:00 PM Central Daylight Time
Reservation End Time:08:10 PM Central Daylight Time
Total Calls:25
Peak number of active lines:10

Today’s conference included mostly male addicted masturbators discussing their lifestyles. Early on we were joined by Wendy from WannaWatch_masturbation_fetish. It is always nice to have a female perspective, and we welcome her (and other ladies) to participate in the future. Wendy is also a masturbator, and was sitting out on her porch in public during the conversation, teasing herself by not being able to touch herself as she talked to us.

At one point a male non-masturbator (that is, a male not chronically addicted to masturbation) tuned in. He asked us a lot of questions about why we preferred masturbation, how long we masturbated, what was edging, etc. Pretty clearly he had no clue what goes on in our chronic masturbator world. What his conclusions were I had no idea, but he didn’t stick around very long. It is funny, this gulf dividing masturbators and non-masturbators. I have always felt you really have to be a masturbator to understand the addiction.   

As usual, the conversation after a while disintegrated into the usual moaning/groaning wank-fest, and a multiple-simultaneous-shared-orgasm-good time was had by all. I had to leave early, and the guys carried on, bravely disregarding their refractory periods.

If you want to participate in a future conference and talk seriously about your habit, it’s a good idea to tune in at the start. After a while things degenerate, get pretty silly and gooney, and there is nothing but hot noises and stupid-penis-talk. See http://onania.org/asm/archives/category/hotline for more conference information

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