A Pants-Down Podcasturbation
To “ruin an orgasm” (see Wikipedia) means masturbating to the point of ejaculatory inevitability (when you feel that you can’t stop the release) and then letting go the penis and denying it any further stimulation. It is a useful alternative to orgasm denial: it permits the body to flush itself but frustrates the masturbator’s craving for full gratification.
A male can learn to ruin his own orgasm, though it requires great commitment at the point of release not to take hold and stroke. But it is much better experienced with a partner who masturbates the male and exerts control to ensure that his orgasm is fully and properly ruined. As such, it fits well into a BDSM scene or tease/denial life style.
In this Pants-Down Podcsturbation I discuss the technique and demonstrate with a ruined orgasm of my own. I hope that some partners of chronic masturbators listen and choose to give their naughty boys a surprising finish to the next hand job.
Click to download or listen: Agony of Ecstasy: the Ruined Orgasm[podcasturbation, 25 minutes, 5.9MB]
I make reference to several tease/denial and ruined handjob resources:
- Rob and Jill have the best tease/denial material in my opinion. Jill may have been the originator of the term “ruined orgasm”.
- Maya’s Handjobs (see this preview) provides excellent mostly CFNM handjobs, often with a hands-off finish.
- Taylor St. Claire is a mistress of the tease/ruined handjob.
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Those are great resources, thank you! I do Domination by phone as well as IRL and I love making My T&D guys have ruined orgasms, especially if they are on cam for Me… I get them to the point where they are on the very edge, then making them take their hands off. They are sooo funny! Begging to cum, begging to stroke, trying to rub their cocks against a belly or a leg…
And you are right, the reason they call Me is because they do want a ruined orgasm, but it is much harder to achieve on one’s own. Great article!
Thanks Sascha, I’m glad you enjoyed it. I’ll bet you give a GREAT ruined orgasm!
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