We believe that humans have the power to create our lives as we want them to be. We are the directors and creators of our experience. However, because of societal prejudices, it is often difficult to express the desire for pleasure, especially sensual pleasure. Our work has been made possible by the earlier work of heroes who were able to step out of the box and notice that the emperor was wearing no clothes—and what’s more, that the emperor was having a lot of fun without his clothes. Dr. Vic Baranco, pioneering sexologist and master teacher, has been our biggest hero. He showed us that orgasm does not have to be limited to a few seconds and a few contractions; it can begin with or before the first touch or stroke and continue throughout the whole sexual experience; it can last many minutes or even hours at ever-increasing intensities that far surpass the usual, short orgasm. That, in a nutshell, is the definition of an extended massive orgasm, or EMO.
He doesn’t like masturbators.
Also, despite having a girl friend – i prefer to masturbate than to have sex. I find orgasms more intense – does anyone also feel the same? And when to masturbate, invariable thinking about what happen to me when i was 14 when I an sexual encounter with an older man (50+) in the local park toilets who while I was at the urinals. He placed has hand on my small (and the time) cock and slowly started to slide his hand along my shaft, exposing my glans. His other hand cupped by balls. He then ran his hand through my pubes. He started to stoke my cock again; making me cum; which was until that moment my first time. Forcing me onto my knees he unzipped his fly and pulled out his cock, which he told me to suck. I sucked his cock; licking his bulbous head and balls. He started to groan and within seconds he shot his thick load of cum in my willing mouth.
Many of my best jack-off sessions were right after I fucked a girlfriend or wife. I would then find a way to be alone and beat off thinking about the sex. The orgasm in my hand was always better than the one in a pussy.
Great news for chronic masturbators: it makes you smarter, not stupid.
Here’s a question to ponder: If sex makes you smarter via changes in synaptic strength following the act, can you get the same benefit from virtual sex, as long as your brain is convinced it is real at the time? I’ll discuss this idea in a bit, but first let’s look at the methods and the data from the actual study.
As a fellowship of recovering addicts, Sex Addicts Anonymous offers a message of hope to anyone who suffers from sex addiction.
Through long and painful experience, we came to realize that we were powerless over our sexual thoughts and behaviors and that our preoccupation with sex was causing progressively severe adverse consequences for us, our families, and our friends. Despite many failed promises to ourselves and attempts to change, we discovered that we were unable to stop acting out sexually by ourselves.
Many of us came to this realization when we started attending SAA meetings. In that setting we heard stories similar to ours and realized that recovery from our problem was possible. We learned through the SAA Fellowship that we were not hopelessly defective.
The basic principles of recovery practiced by SAA are found in the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Alcoholics Anonymous. Although we are not affiliated with AA or with any other organization or agency, we are, indeed, grateful for permission to modify and apply the Steps and Traditions to sex addiction, making recovery possible for us.
by Guest.Masturbator » Tue Jun 03, 2014 8:51 am
Hi all, last night I had the most pathetic sex ever with my wife since we married 3 years ago. It was Valentine’s day and I decided to make it up for my young lovely wife. Sad thing (and probably foreseeable) was I had been binge masturbating for over a week (at least three times a day locking myself jerking to porn etc, either ejaculate or edge). Only two minute into pumping wife’s hole (which was extra tight since our last proper sex nearly two weeks ago), I went limp right away……My wife was rather surprised as all our previous sex last for a good half an hour at least. I said it was due to work stress, however, I know what caused this…
Now wife’s away again shopping, and like all other weekends I’m locking myself in the bedroom going through tons of porn and jacking brainlessly… I’m struggling since I don’t want to disappoint my wife any more, but I can’t stop my addiction either….
a masturbator recalls:
Several of you have questioned my early masturbation habits. Just
like with my current depravity, it makes me feel so dirty and
shameless to reveal all of my nasty secrets.
I can remember pleasant feelings in my genitals from my earliest
age. However, my earliest clear memory of masturbation was when I
was 6 years old. I was sick and at my grandmothers house in her
bed. She had these sleazy tabloid newspapers that had pictures of
women in skimpy bikinis. I remember that I had cut one of these
pictures out of the magazine. My little penis was so hard and I was
dragging the paper hand of the cutout photograph up and down the
underside of my penis. I guess I was so into the sensation that I
didn't notice when my grandmother walked into the room. She scolded
me for being such a nasty boy. I felt so dirty. But, she was
right ... I was a dirty boy … and I loved it.
According to police, the suspect drove a pickup truck all over Vancouver and approached teen girls and young women on the sidewalk. The man would pull over and attempt to engage the women and girls in conversation, while also trying to draw attention to the fact that he was masturbating behind the wheel.