Masturbation In Marriage

from Masturbation In Marriage: Part III 

…. When a man ejaculates, he receives the greatest natural chemical high that he can possibly experience. Endorphins and enkephalins are pumped through your system straight to the preopticneuron part of the brain, and nothing in the world compares to this experience.
It should go without saying, then, that what we look at before and during ejaculation has a very profound affect on our sexual conditioning. When we release, our brains associate that particular object with sexual gratification. This has amazing implications when you experience sexual release in the embrace of your wife, however many of us come into marriage with our minds already locked onto something else (porn, fantasies, situational conditions) and so the transition to married life is hindered by the things we connected to before our wives.
I mentioned in Part II of this series that the most unhealthy type of masturbation is what author Doug Weiss classifies as “Type C” masturbation; that is, those who masturbate completely disconnected from reality. This an object-focused experience, men in this category objectivify anyone in their fantasies to do anything (picturing the nude model giving oral sex, for example). Many people today claim masturbation within marriage should not only be tolerated, but embraced; that a wife stumbling in on her husband masturbating with a Playboy magazine is a completely normal thing. When it comes to this disconnected, Type C masturbator, however, I could not disagree more. … more Masturbation In Marriage: Part III

2 thoughts on “Masturbation In Marriage

  1. im very happily married,but wife gave up sex 9 years ago.it was very rare anyway.ive always masturbated while married.i masturbate over porn as a form of fantasy.some people watch films,listen to music and i masturbate.im sure there are lot more like me.just look at the onania masturbator forum.

  2. I’m definitely masturbator C but I don’t think there is anything wrong with it.

    I have a great marriage. We just don’t have sex. Nothing wrong with that.

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