How It Began at 18 – Toys & Masturbation –

At 18 a whole world of pleasure was now available!! In my case I often used magazines. I was still living with my parents at the time. However it was hard to hide them so I also used to buy The Penthouse Letters Forum magazine, full of hot juicy stories. I loved Leg Show, with the stockings and thrills, there was Hustler, definitely! I used to even get off to the phone sex advertisements. I definitely stroked off in the bathroom to lingerie catalogs, lingerie ads, dirty books from the local adult books

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Urban Dictionary: Pathetic Male Syndrome

Pathetic Male Syndrome Also known as “PMS”. When a man cannot go through a day of life without whining or complaining. Men suffering from PMS are easily threatened by the modern lifestyle and especially of independent women. His aim is to impress his friends rather than women. Men with PMS should be thrown out of the gene pool.

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Ready, set, masturbate!: The mastermind behind “International Masturbation Month”

I talked to Good Vibrations Staff Sexologist Carol Queen, one of the minds behind this commemorative month, to talk onanistic advocacy, vanishing taboos and masturbation slang.How did Masturbation Month get started?In 1994, Dr. Joycelyn Elders, then the U.S. surgeon general, was fired for saying one brief and sensible thing about masturbation: that “it’s something that perhaps should be taught” about in sex-ed curricula. Good Vibrations staff struggled to make sense of this senseless situation, and deci

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It’s All In The Mindset – Toys & Masturbation –

There was a woman I would encounter with some regularity in a free party line, who would go private with me and get into some amazingly HOT play. She was a ‘switcher’, that is she could be very submissive, and very dominant. We were not into the so-called abusive play, but into the sensual instruction type. This woman would get her videos on, typically of lesbian sex, get her toys out and call the line, and spend hours masturbating with people. Every time we played, it was lengthy, seductive, arousing, frus

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Onania Masturbator Forum: Adventures in Masturbating: Aparment Dwelling

In the Onania Masturbator Forum, a Masturbator Wrote:

Ah, the rush, the thrill of stroking my hard cock out in the open, under the sky, and in the middle of the city! I wandered around the rooftop, jacking my throbbing dick and looking around. It was all too exciting and after only a few minutes I gave in to the urge and blasted my hot spunk onto the roof in a knee-buckling orgasm. It turned out once was not enough. I had barely collected my wits from that blinding climax when I felt myself getting hard again. My libido had been spun into overdrive by my rooftop wank and was ready for more. Again I took my tool in hand and some time later I spent another load on the roof.


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Masturbation In Marriage

from Masturbation In Marriage: Part III 

…. When a man ejaculates, he receives the greatest natural chemical high that he can possibly experience. Endorphins and enkephalins are pumped through your system straight to the preopticneuron part of the brain, and nothing in the world compares to this experience.
It should go without saying, then, that what we look at before and during ejaculation has a very profound affect on our sexual conditioning. When we release, our brains associate that particular object with sexual gratification. This has amazing implications when you experience sexual release in the embrace of your wife, however many of us come into marriage with our minds already locked onto something else (porn, fantasies, situational conditions) and so the transition to married life is hindered by the things we connected to before our wives.
I mentioned in Part II of this series that the most unhealthy type of masturbation is what author Doug Weiss classifies as “Type C” masturbation; that is, those who masturbate completely disconnected from reality. This an object-focused experience, men in this category objectivify anyone in their fantasies to do anything (picturing the nude model giving oral sex, for example). Many people today claim masturbation within marriage should not only be tolerated, but embraced; that a wife stumbling in on her husband masturbating with a Playboy magazine is a completely normal thing. When it comes to this disconnected, Type C masturbator, however, I could not disagree more. … more Masturbation In Marriage: Part III