Onania . Org/asm

Due to technical performance issues with my host provider, I am moving Onania . Org/asm blog to Blogger. The new address is, effectively immediately

http://onaniadotorgasm.blogspot.com/

During the transition, some posts will appear on both sites, but please go to the new site for a complete feed. Also a lot of links will be screwed up until I get them straightened out.

I will leave some content here on the current blog simply because it is too hard to move it all. So when you click on something on the new blog you may get redirected back here. Just remember that I will be updating http://onaniadotorgasm.blogspot.com/ from now on.

I am convinced we all love to watch men spurting distinct ropes of cum and many of them. Women (even if notspecifically into cum-love) may do so just due to evolutionary reasons. They will be generally impressed with a powerful and voluminous ejaculation on a psychological level, because unconsciously they perceive such as a sign of virility and maleness. Meaning that chances for impregnation must be high then. This perception satisfies mentally. Another general effect with the receiver (or even – unconsciously – the observer) of a powerful ejaculation is that it flatters her or hisego. Thus we love the sight of flying milk in copious amounts…..

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Shooting or Spilling- (2) « peaks-n-pulses

a pathetic cuckold masturbator wrote:

My wife is hot. She is 5′4" and around 110lbs. She has perfect tits
and a knock out ass and legs. I often marvel at the fact that she is
MY wife. We’ve been married almost 20 years. She is 41 and I am 43.
I have fantasized for years about her giving herself to another man. I
often bring this fantasy up but it is quickly shot down. Over the
years our sex life has almost disappeared. Even though she is hot as a
firecracker, she does not seem that interested in sex. When we first
met she was a little vixen. If my memory serves me, she gave me a blow
job on our second date. I remember her kissing me and then moving her
head down to my lap. She started rubbing me and asked if I would like
her to eat me. I of course said I would. She said "Oh good. I wasn’t
sure if you liked that or not". The funny thing about that statement
was it implied to me that she was familiar with giving head.
Well from that point in I was getting blowjobs in a lot different
places and times. I quickly realized that I was definitely not the
first man to enjoy this talent of hers. How many others have there
been? I wondered. As the years went by this lovely pastime of hers
disappeared. Within the last 5 years I would have to say we have had
sex maybe a dozen times. I think its been over a year to date now. I
often try to initiated sex with her by kissing her neck and cuddling
her but this always ends up with her getting the giggles and me
masturbating with my head in her lap. She will suggest I play with
myself instead.

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There are two ways to make love (i.e. sex) to or rather with a man. You can fuck with him or you can make love to his genitalia. In the first case you want him as a whole being, that´d be a full body / full impact affair. In the latter case you want his dick and his balls and his juice. And you want him to go wild over what you do with his sexual plumbing. I want to talk about this kind of lovemaking.

You go for this kind of sex for two reasons. One concerns your man and one yourself. You want to do it for your man, because you can give him the most intense sexual climaxes he may be able to experience. They include deeply felt orgasms and extended ejaculations and everything in between. This provided he has a 100% trust in you and will devote himself fully to your ability to love his genitals with utmost refinement. It requires good communication skills and you gain best results if you not only just know, but love each other.

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Three Myths about Porn – Reuniting

"My ex told me that he knew porn was an "addiction" for him. He used that term, and he said he wanted to stop and that because he couldn’t porn had "ruined his life." He also showed me a scar from masturbating to the point of bleeding because he was unable to stop.
He said porn made him want to cheat all the time, and made him constantly fantasize about "nasty" sex with strangers, and young (teen) girls. …
He would become agitated, irritable and mean when he could not look at porn because I was home, and he would become so angry and abusive due to frustration that I would unwittingly give him what he wanted by leaving. He would also abandon me places and run home and get online. He routinely had unprotected sex too – not thinking of reality or consequences like abortion, and STDs.
I have spoken to many guys in various forums who claim that their main problem with porn is that they cannot stop even when they want to."

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Q&A- Are There Side Effects To Masturbation – Good Or Bad- (Video)

Porn on the Brain – Reuniting,

Gooning, illustrated

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Masturbation addiction is a sensitive, private subject for most of us. It is hard to find others who understand our needs, and won’t judge or criticize our choices. But you are not alone. Join with other chronic masturbators who share your feelings and experiences, and speak openly about your masturbation addiction.

This is a completely non-commercial conference by and for people living with masturbation addiction. It is free (except for your normal long distance charges) and open to all masturbators over the age of 21. All sexual orientations and genders — males, females, straight/bi/gay/other — are welcome. No minors, please!!! You should be prepared to hear adult masturbators talking freely about their experiences and masturbating openly as they do so. You are free to call in and “lurk” if you are shy, or speak up and join in.

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Yeah, ejaculation! This most significant male sexual climax, at least in the physical sense of the experience, finally arrives asmain focus here, and I am eager to talk about it.

This climax is really interesting. It can´t be halted once triggered, and it runs rather a limited length of time, unfortunately. Yet it can feature quite different qualities: it can be dry, it can be repeated (I mean immediately), it can be stretched… – in other words it can be altered!

Although I was writing about the bliss of ejaculation here and about PONR, emission and ejaculation here, I like to once more elaborate what happens when we cum. The description is slightly further detailed and it illustrates how semen builds and travels. It´s like from the books, telling the basics – for starters.

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